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Years don make it Better

Posted on September 29, 2010 at 9:48am 0 Comments 0 Likes

I still search the newspapers hoping to see that lady who killed my son name in there hoping she suffered was or is in more pain than my heart is.I truly hate her, I never hated anyone before she destroyed my life.

Dreams

Posted on March 31, 2010 at 1:32pm 0 Comments 0 Likes

Last night I had a dream that I was caring for my son in the hospital the was the last time I saw him after that lady collided with his motorcycle.

It was so real we was almost to healing then out of nowhere a coffin appeared in my dream I woke up crying. We should not have to go through this life with all the pain (of death) that I read about. Yes it is a difference when it is unexpected no prior illness someone else fault that is hard to get over because of that person your child will… Continue

Will the pain ever ease? No

Posted on March 19, 2010 at 8:04am 0 Comments 0 Likes

Will the pain ever ease? No

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At 12:23pm on October 4, 2010, Rory Duran said…: Thanks for posting to my comment - vent all you want, that's why I come here. I get especially angry when someone pats my hand while making a stupid comment - as if I really don't get the big picture and they are putting up my sorrow. I see from the other posts here your journey is difficult. I got a call after my grandson was gone. I wish I could grasp the depth of what you must have felt going to the hospital. I do have tremendous anger at all my grandson's doctors, so I can relate to that. Let me know how you are .

At 6:18am on May 20, 2010, Janet Long said…: Kathy thank you for your words,
I'm trying to get to my life now not the life I had with my family all together here on earth, but people I have no words for them anymore the things that comes form the mouth even when they saw the tears they still expected me to talk about it to them I had to leave before my mouth exploded with unkind words. I don't expect them to try to understand but then they want to say or I lose my grandmother or something dumb, I can't handle that.

At 4:22am on May 20, 2010, kathy said…: Janet, please don't give up on the world. People will say sorry out of deep concern for the situtation they feel your pain becouse some tradgy no doubt befell them. However your words will make think before speaking the next time someone speaks of their loss. You say you fell prayer has not worked, then focus on the resurrection hope where Brandon will live forever on this earth and never have to worry about dying again. God says: "He will actually swallow up death forever, and... will certainly wipe the tears from all faces." (Isaiah 25:8) But he also promises a bringing back to life those who have died, a time when we can enjoy life together forever. The Bible makes the promise: “Your dead ones will live . . .. They will rise up.” And the Bible also says: “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.”—Isaiah 26:19; Psalm 37:29 The miracle of Lazarus' resurrection foreshadows only one of the many blessings we will enjoy under Christ's reign in the paradise earth promised in the Bible at Psalms 37:9-11 and John 5:28,29. As we await the outworking of all of God's promises, I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that others are thinking about you.

At 6:39pm on May 18, 2010, Janet Long said…: People are so (no words to describe them sometimes) I went back to my exercise class after almost three years away and what do they ask what happen, how did it happen, oh I'm sorry (for what ) all the stuff that makes your mind go back to that grievous day, why do they do that to our hurting hearts? We're trying to move on what our lives and they want us to recall all the hurt and pain all over again.That's why I stayed in now I don't know if I'll go back out the world hurts.

At 6:32am on April 13, 2010, Janet Long said…: With all this hurt and pain in parents how can I believe that pray works, pray is nothing but words leaving our mouth something we do everyday sometimes the come back right sometimes they come back wrong, sometimes they hurt us sometime they make us feel better but I have never seem pray word work, I've been under different religious leaders from Catholics to Baptist, I know what the bible says I have not seem it work in all my years. It says honor your mother & father and you will live long life I know for a fact we where on top list of Brandon he told everyone his parents where his hero and he was going to take care of them most kids don't even mention there parents. I can't believe in vain words.

At 1:37pm on March 31, 2010, Janet Long said…: Brandon would have been graduating college this year he was going for a five year degree in computer science focusing on working on the spaceships,he already had a corporation, knew where he was going had it all together and she took it away because she should not have been driving.

At 5:01am on March 30, 2010, kathy said…: Janet,I'm sorry to read your heart aches with sadness for your son I am praying for you. The Bible assures us: “God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalm 34:18) May you find comfort in the memories that are yours to cherish always,

At 8:02am on March 19, 2010, Janet Long said…: It is so hard going day to day without my sons, I have to pretend everyday that he's still away at college until summer then I down.