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Could someone please help me change the heading on my page which reads "What brings you here?" I've tried everything that I know (which isn't much) to change it. I've hit that Update button several times but, it's not allowing me to update. I remember making an entry and when I was done that was the only thing that appeared. I don't like it and want it changed, I just don't know how...please help...thank you,

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Posted on December 6, 2010 at 10:44am 1 Comment 0 Likes

Hello Legacy Family,

I'm Janice, Marks Mom. I lost my son on March 30, 2009 he was 27 years old, my youngest of 3 boys. My child was murdered and until this day we don't know who did this to my baby or really why. The pain of not knowing is indescribably. I also feel horrible and hurt because I wasn't there to help my baby when he needed me. I should of felt something was wrong. He was all along with those monster and I… Continue

Missing my baby

Posted on October 16, 2010 at 11:28am 3 Comments 0 Likes

Hello everyone, I need to express what I'm going through currently. I'm in such turmoil at this time. I miss my baby so much..his birthday is coming up soon (Oct 22nd) he will be 29yrs old. My heart is so heavy with grief that I can barely function properly. My heart still aches because I miss him so much...even though I lost him March 2009, it still feels like yesterday. I don't… Continue

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At 5:14pm on September 25, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…: Hi Janice nice to hear from you hope your doing okay..as for me i just started a new grief group with our church it was some what a relief talking to others but the whole group of women where alot older and had lost there husbands,they were all in tears hearing me talk about the lost of my son and they said they could not imagine losing one of there kids.So they are looking to find a group for me in regards to this but would like me if i wish to keep attending there group as well so i agreed to continue.My son also loved to plan is birthday bbq but christmas was his favorite we had to be the first ones on the block to get the lights on the house so my kids have continued to do so but i still can not do the holidays yet and my kids understand.My family dont speak about him nor my husband and they dont understand that i would like to have them to they feel that this would upset me. They dont get it that it hurts more when they dont do you have that problem?maybe for your sons you could release balloons with your special message? just a thought thats what i did. anyway i am also here for you my friend lots of hugs and prayers.

At 11:17pm on September 16, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…: Hi Janice i am so sorry that it took me so long to responed. sometimes you find yourself in a cloud and just dont care to do anything..and now that we moved the interent here is forever to load.They say time will heal it been 2 years for me and my healing process has failed me. it will never be the same for us that lost one of our kids.My emotions are just like the day i lostn my son. I hope to keep in touch with all of you beacause this is the only healing i get is from those that have been through our terrible nightmare..hugs and prayers to you and your family.

At 10:08pm on August 8, 2011, Rowett said…: Hi thank you I have been feeling somewhat better emotionaly Phisicly i,m a mess and getting worse but i,m doing the best I can I allways say to myself if I die today I will be with my family I only have two sisters left everyone else is gone so I know i will have alot of family and friends to welcome me to the other side i,m just not ready to go just yet though and I have done what you said I yelled screamed even drove like a nut blowing away two cops in two towns only to have to pay the tickets and lawyers of 1800 bucks but it was worth it I just needed to release the anger in me and acting like a fool for a short time did help me to release alot of the anger pain and loss in my odd own way I still talk to adam each day just like i talk with godI hope to be able to see him soon and my prayers are with you and your loss as well we walk a special path that most can never understand

At 1:21pm on June 26, 2011, ELOY CONRAD DURAN II said…: Thank you for the kindness, you are one of a kind, you are an angel Janice...I have not been to good lately, seems like time does nothing to help in my healing process...time matters to those who actually have a life....I am trying to get past this, but seem to only settle down with...and get back in touch with my negative emotions...enough negativism....God Bless You....take care....

At 1:21pm on June 26, 2011, ELOY CONRAD DURAN II said…: Thank you for the kindness, you are one of a kind, you are an angel Janice...I have not been to good lately, seems like time does nothing to help in my healing process...time matters to those who actually have a life....I am trying to get past this, but seem to only settle down with...and get back in touch with my negative emotions...enough negativism....God Bless You....take care....

At 8:20pm on May 11, 2011, Pam Brooks said…: I think working helps. I have to work. Even though I look at a computer all day, my mind is always on my child....asking the same questions everybody else does.

I really appreciate you taking the time to send a comment to me. I have no one to talk to around here. My grandchildren live with the husband and his grandmother. I work a weird shift during the week, making it impossible for me to see them. I get to see them on weekends as long as they don't have plans or they are going to the husband's mother home. Gee, does that make sense? I feel so left out at times. My daughter is gone. Her birthday was on Sat. May7th and the grandchildren was not here. I wonder if I have any rights, guess I'll check into that.

I'm so sorry for rambling like this. I'm sending loving thoughts, hugs, and prayers to you Janice. Stay strong!!!!

At 7:21am on April 30, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Janice I am sorry we have to go through this and the rest of our lives with ths pain and loss and unfair loneliness of not having the vibrant young men who shared such a pece of our heart sould and totality.. love to you and hope maybe together we can nurture each other and acknowledge eachothers pain. love to you carrie

At 10:28pm on April 19, 2011, Pam Brooks said…: Hi JANICE,

Just wanted to thank you for your comment regarding Easter baskets for my grandchildren. You are right; I will be making my own to give to them.

At 8:58pm on March 22, 2011, geri said…: HI JANICE,HOPE YOU ARE DOING OK ,TODAY.YES THE DAYS ARE HARD.TOMORROW IS THREE YEARS FOR ME .MY SON PASSED ON EASTER SUNDAY 3-23-08.A CAR ACCIDENT TOOK HIS LIFE.HE WAS A PASSENGER IN THE CAR OF HIS FRIEND.PAUL WAS 23.I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON,MARK.IT IS SO DEVASTATING TO HAVE TO ENDURE THESE TRAGETIES.GOD BLESS YOU,GERI

At 4:59pm on March 22, 2011, valerie moore said…: dear janice. i am back now/... i was cleaning apartments,, i just lost my job working as a 411 operator, looking up phone numbers/ but/// cleaning apartments and what they were paying me,,, wasnt working/.

anyway, i go on this site every day/./. i love talking to all of you... thinking of you janice/. love, valerie