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Jennifer posted a blog post4 years and counting. When does it get easier??
Tomorrow marks 4 years since my 32 yr old brother passed away from alcoholism. I vividy recall some days especially around now his body that day.. its etched in my mind. I have lived a full life and carried on. My heart and soul have not been so fast. 4 years and the pain is still like yesterday . I miss him so much. What is killing me is that while my family gathers tomorrow my other sibling always chooses to not take part in any family gatherings. He makes excuses to not come. It breaks my…See More
Jennifer posted a status"well another holiday missing my brother.Love you mike and miss you everyday. xoxox"
Jennifer commented on Lisa W's group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP"Autumn I am sorry to hear of such a tragedy for you. I am sorry for your loss. One day at a time. Its been 3.5 years for me since I lost my brother suddenly and its still a daily hard road at times. There is no time heals everything when this…"
Jennifer posted a blog postW
Well this is my 3rd Christmas now without my brother. have to say that its no way easier than the 1st. it is so clear that he is missing. I miss him do much. Life goes on, but the loss is real like yesterday. This time of year sucks. For all of you out there feeling the way I do I send light your way.See More
Jennifer commented on Lisa W's group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP"Leah, I lost my brother age 32 on Feb 10, 2012. Its almost been 2 years and I still find the grief very strong and hard. I love this site to read the posts and to be somewhere i dont feel alone, or behind. We are all a little…"
Jennifer posted a blog postTime sort of flies
Well been almost 22 months and I don't feel like much has changed in my way of grief. My parents are still crippled and i find it really hard to get near acceptance. I guess we don't get over death. With xmas here soon It breaks my heart. I'm not sure i will ever enjoy xmas the same for many years to come. I know that my brother would want me to live life to the max and move on. Im gonna do my best to do that one day at a timeSee More
Jennifer commented on Lisa W's group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP"Im sorry to hear about all of you struggling. Yes Xmas is 22 days away and just another reminder of loss. Its been 21 months for me and feels like 2 months some days. It hasn't gotten easier. Ive connected with some people who…"
Jennifer replied to ange's discussion When does it get better? in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP"Youll get through it when you get through it. Ive come to see there is no time. Its been a 18 months for me and daily i find it hard to process. be kind to yourself and seek support from understanding and compassionate people. "
Jennifer replied to Patricia Salazar's discussion Will my life ever be normal again? in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP"I can relate that my relationship also changed with my other sibling after i lost my brother. It is hard every single day to know he isnt coming back. All i have learned is that you laugh and smile and really be present to each moment.…"
Jennifer posted a blog postLoss
im sorry to hear of all the loss this week on this site. My heart goes out to all of you. It has been 18 months now and I am still struggling.. the other stages are normal, but acceptance i am still far away from. I pray that it gets easier like people say. It is all so bloody hard to process. I guess just accepting that it never does go away is the first stepSee More
Jennifer posted a blog post16 Months
Wow its been awhile. 16 months now since my brother passed away. I suppose on a daily basis it is easier, but overall my grief is so strong and present. I find it hard to accept that I will not see him again until I pass too. Time doesn't seem to make a big difference where the heart and grief are concerned. I miss him everyday and would give anything to have him back. Some people told me 16 months ago I would never be the same. I am not and probably wont be. The bubble i was living in seemed…See More
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Coming up 5 years
Posted on January 24, 2017 at 8:31pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
Well next month it will be 5 years since my brother passed away from alcoholism at 32 years old. It feels crazy that amount time has passed... I think I may have been living in a bubble the first 2 or 3 years just managing daily life and trying to get through. Other people share that it gets easier ..... I cant say I agree. Although I moved on with life and have a great life, it has not remotely made a difference in the amount of pain I feel, or the fact that he inst coming back. It…
Continue 4 years and counting. When does it get easier??
Posted on February 9, 2016 at 10:16pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
Tomorrow marks 4 years since my 32 yr old brother passed away from alcoholism. I vividy recall some days especially around now his body that day.. its etched in my mind. I have lived a full life and carried on. My heart and soul have not been so fast. 4 years and the pain is still like yesterday . I miss him so much. What is killing me is that while my family gathers tomorrow my other sibling always chooses to not take part in any family gatherings. He makes excuses to not come. It breaks…
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Posted on December 21, 2014 at 9:28pm 0 Comments 1 Like
Well this is my 3rd Christmas now without my brother. have to say that its no way easier than the 1st. it is so clear that he is missing. I miss him do much. Life goes on, but the loss is real like yesterday. This time of year sucks. For all of you out there feeling the way I do I send light your way.
Time sort of flies
Posted on December 3, 2013 at 12:10pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
Well been almost 22 months and I don't feel like much has changed in my way of grief. My parents are still crippled and i find it really hard to get near acceptance. I guess we don't get over death. With xmas here soon It breaks my heart. I'm not sure i will ever enjoy xmas the same for many years to come. I know that my brother would want me to live life to the max and move on. Im gonna do my best to do that one day at a time
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- At 7:22am on April 16, 2012,
Lisa W said… - Welcome to the group so sorry about your brother .
My brother passed away back in 2007. it is a deep pain you will make it through its just a hard road to travel . We are all here for you .
- At 12:02am on April 16, 2012,
JoAnne Adams said… - DEAR JENNIFER
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF UR BROTHER'S PASSING & UR DIFFICULTY IN COPING. I TOO HAVE LOST SEVERAL LOVED ONES IN MY LIFE MOST RECENTLY MY SISTER. AFTER MY MOM AND DAD PASSED, I DIDN'T THINK I COULD GO ON. BUT WITK GOD'S GRACE & THE PASSAGE OF TIME U CAN ACTUALLY BEGIN TO RETURN TO A SEMBLANCE OF UR FORMER LIFE. NO IT WON'T EVER GO AWAY BUT IT BECOMES SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T NAG AT U EVERYDAY. UR BROTHER'S SWEET SOUL MUST B IN HEAVEN & WHOEVER PERPATRATED CRIMES AGAINST HIM AS A CHILD WILL HAVE TO ANSWER TO THE ALMIGHTY ONE DAY. MAY U & UR FLY BEGIN UR HEALING PROCESS AND SUFFER NO LONGER. BLESS U ALL.
SINCERELY
JO ADAMS
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