Juanita, i am so sorry for you loss, now is the time to really lean on Jehovah [God]. Know this, that it wasn't God's intention for humans to die, Unfortunately Adam ruined that for all of us (ROMANS 5:12) Do remember though a precious promise in the bible that soon we will see our loved ones again (REVELATION 21:3,4) " God will wipe every tear from their eye, and death will be no more"

JUANITA: THIS IS THE PERFECT SITE FOR ALL OF US THAT LOST SOMEONE DEAR TO US. THE PEOPLE HERE WILL LISTEN TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAID BE HERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED HUGS OR JUST WANT TO CHAT WHEN YOU WANT TO VENT OUT THEY ARE HERE I KNOW THEY HELPED ME GET THRU THIS NIGHTMARE THEY WILL ALSO HELP YOU

Juanita, I know how you feel. I just lost my husband,Jim, Oct. 21 to lung cancer. Nov. 8th will be our 38th anniversery. I have a hard time sleeping,hardly can eat etc. Maybe we can all pull together and help each other out. Please take care -- if you need to talk, I'll try to be here for you.

Juanita, you are a short timer here and definitely don't feel you need to get rid of anything til you are ready. None of us wish to be in this "place" without our loved one but since we are, we are here for one another. Keep coming back and share with us anytime (the good and the bad). You will have alot of emotions kicking in and out. Let them come and roll with it. Take care of yourself. hugs

juanita: sorry to hear about your loss. george passed on 3/1/09 i was going thru the same as you are doing now not eating crying sleeping laying in bed. when george passed i gathered his clothes up and gave them to the salvation army but i also kept some clothes that i liked i did not give all of them away so this way i can sleep in his shirt put on his bathrobe you take care of yourself and when you feel you are ready to discard clothes then you do it on your terms hugs are good as per randolph