"Cindy, letting go is the hardest thing ever to do! I lost my Mom last year, and my nephew and I spent close to a year going through stuff, and finally put in on the market in December last year. 3 weeks later it was sold! I kept…"
"Fiona, it's never easy. I lost my Dad 11 years ago, and Mom early last year. Dad fought bravely for 3 years, with cancer. Those were the worst and best years of my life. Although I knew I was losing him, it also…"
I am sorry for your loss.. It may get a little easir with time.. For some it is easier than for others.. I still miss both of my parents who died one year apart .. Dad in 2008 and Mom in 2009.. I miss them so much still..
I know what you mean…"
"That kind of reminded me of my Mom too. She had a pacemaker replaced to 'help' her, 12 days later I had to tell the dr to take her off life support. Her entire body was shutting down. On the day of her death, we were all…"
"Shannon, I'm so sorry for your loss. Actually for me, this whole first year has been weird. I miss my Mom so much. Whether it's good new or bad, just not being able to pick the phone to talk to her is…"
"I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. It is a painful experience.. I lost my mother a year and a half ago and I am still missing her so much.. Your words describe my feelings so well.. The only thing that keeps me hanging on is the faith that…"
"Oh,TY for saying that..I felt a little foolish with that advice..But so many people having the same experiences..and noone wanted to come back..That speaks volumes to me.. I picture my mom and dad..watching me sobbing....And I actual laugh a…"
"I know exactly how you feel Judy. My mom passed on April 21,2009. She was/is my bestfriend,rock as well. It still feels sureal. I am 46 and feel like a baby wanting their mommy. Just knowing she is with me,and she has made it clear on many…"
"Hi Judy, I just lost my mom 3 weeks ago and I feel like I've lost a huge part of me. I feel like I can't go on at times. My mom was my very best friend and we saw each other every single day. She died suddenly of a heart…"
"Diane, the first 6 months is hell. Do you ever listen to K-Love? I found it very healing. They talked about resolutions, which of course we seldom keep, this time they mentioned picking a word to help us through the year. The…"
"I know what you're going through. I just lost my mom three weeks ago. I feel like my life is over. I can't be happy anymore. I try to go through the motions of life, but they are just that, motions. I…"
"Hard to believe, the one year anniversary of Mom's death is this Sunday. Where has the year gone? It's been a rough year, never thought it would be hard. It was. Thank God friends and family were around 1000% during…"
"2010 was the first year without either parent. We sold Mom's condo in December, the last of the reminents gone. Needless to say Christmas was extremely stressful. I got a new tree, with white poinsettas, some of her things I…"
Judy, 8 months is not a long time to grieve your pain will not easily disappear you may find that for a time your emotions will be somewhat unpredictable tears may flow without much advance warning be patient with yourself.The Bible assures us God "is healing the broken hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spot." Psalm 147:3