Judy Kaan
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  • Delray Beach, FL
  • United States
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At 7:22pm on January 8, 2012, Mari said…

...I also understand your feelings and your grief...and I know how badly your heart hurts.  I grieve for everyone who has suffered a loss, and the best thing I can offer is an understanding hand.  What I have learned about myself in the past 8 and a half years since Larry died is that I can and should always be the open caring person I was before he died...to not shut myself away from others, and to understand that even if others don't always behave kindly to me it is the higher road to not behave cruelly or insensitively to others.  The day you look forward to will come one day, just not now.  I believe we are still here for a reason...and sometimes it is multiple reasons that only reveal themselves at a particular moment.  Hold on to life, and hold onto friends and family...they will be your anchor!

At 7:19pm on January 8, 2012, Mari said…

I should not judge an entire organization by the one person there that hurt me personally.  I stay away from it because of her....this was something on a very personal level, prior to the start of this organization.  She and I were both widows...and I became acquainted with her through my husband..I was an innocent grieving woman trying to move forward and believed her to be a friend...when it could not have been further from the truth.  No widow should ever do to another what she did to me.  But lesson learned...and I keep my distance.  If other people there are helping others in loss, I should be happy for them to have found help.  She was just one bad apple...

At 3:05pm on January 8, 2012, Mari said…

I am so sorry and grieving for your loss too...I wish that this had been around when my first husband passed away...it seems like a huge comfort to be able to sit down here and write about feelings and have someone else REALLY understand what you are going through...


At 11:16am on January 8, 2012, Jackie Biggs said…
Judy - so so sorry for your loss. Your loss is recent too- I hope we will move forward to a better place together. I will check out the other site too. My phone is just about a 3rd appendage, so if you need a virtual hug or someone to listen or talk to, I'm always around. 

Love & hugs, Jackie

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