Kay Arcuni
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  • North Fort Myers, FL
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Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you to everyone who has been writing about beable to share themselves with someone again.  I have learned in the almost year that Joe has been gone, that I know I cannot love anyone in the same way that I did Joe. We grew up together…"
Jul 30, 2011
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Christy, Deborah and the rest of us here. Thank you, just knowing that I am not the only one that feels like this.  I just don't like to always write because I could go on for days, and I feel like I say the same things over…"
Jul 23, 2011
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello all, it has been a very lon gtime since I posted anything here.  It has been 11 month Sunday that Joe left us and I still sometimes feel like it just happened.  So many things have gone on in my life in the last 11 months.  I am…"
Jul 20, 2011
Kay Arcuni replied to Renee Semo's discussion Im trying very hard but my grief is making me physically sick! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Renee, you are not crazy, I haven't been here in awhile, but reading your message is how I have felt since the holidays.  Like there is something I should be doing but I don't know what it is, and it scares the hell out of me that it…"
Jan 9, 2011
Kay Arcuni replied to Renee Semo's discussion Im trying very hard but my grief is making me physically sick! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Renee, you are not crazy, I haven't been here in awhile, but reading your message is how I have felt since the holidays.  Like there is something I should be doing but I don't know what it is, and it scares the hell out of me that it…"
Jan 9, 2011
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you Mary for some light at the end of what seems like a never ending tunnel. To have some hope of one day not feeling so much pain. One positive thought everyday!"
Dec 27, 2010
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Eileen welcome and know that I am truly sorry that you have to be here with us.  But this is a great place to be. For now let me wish you peace and wonderful dreams and memories of your husband."
Dec 26, 2010
Kay Arcuni replied to Pete Bronson's discussion How do I carry on after almost 31 years together?! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Missing their voice and feeling their touch is the hardest loss to bear. Christmas time especially is hard because it's not the decorating or the gifts its the extra special feeling of love and caring that people share with one another at this…"
Dec 26, 2010
Kay Arcuni replied to Suzanne's discussion Feeling Horrible. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, I am so sorry you are feeling so angry especially at this time of the year.  I know the feeling of not wanting to die, but not wanting to live.  When my Joe passed, I finally knew how my mother felt. She was a young widow my…"
Dec 26, 2010
Kay Arcuni replied to Suzanne's discussion Feeling Horrible. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, I am so sorry you are feeling so angry especially at this time of the year.  I know the feeling of not wanting to die, but not wanting to live.  When my Joe passed, I finally knew how my mother felt. She was a young widow my…"
Dec 26, 2010
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well, I find myself caught in that strange place, I want to be happy because it is Christmas but I am so sad that happy just escapes every time.  My grandkids are little and they of course know that nana is sad because grampi is gone but they…"
Dec 20, 2010
Kay Arcuni replied to Jill Cobb's discussion Just wondering in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I'm very sorry for your loss Jill. I am I guess older than you I'm 52 and my kids are grown, but we had our girls early so we had just started to be able to enjoy ourselves we were high school sweethearts and married for 33 years. My Joe…"
Dec 17, 2010
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Tina, that is so wonderful what a great tribute to your husbands life and the caring person he was. God bless."
Dec 14, 2010
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Betsy, I'm from SW Florida"
Dec 14, 2010
Kay Arcuni commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"To Linda and the others, I am sorry that Macky seems to think that this a click, but if you have ever been a member of any type of group, there is always the core, those who particitpate more because they need or want to. Then those who participate…"
Dec 13, 2010
Kay Arcuni replied to Brigitte's discussion When Our Spouses Die in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Bridgitte, that insight is right on the money.  As a matter of fact I had a moment last week when things had started to pile up on me and I was having a bad day. My sister assumed I was upset by something that happened at work and started to…"
Dec 12, 2010

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At 11:21am on December 20, 2010, kathy obiedzinski said…

kay: i to have grandchildren i have twins 3 1/2 and a granddaughter which is 10 when george passed the boys were young but you know they still  remember their pop pop i show them his picture and ask who is that they think pop pop is sleeping my granddaughter was taking is very bad she was worried about her nana but you know you have to be strong and make the best out of what we have. i am praying for everyone  i have a special prayer for those who just lost their spouse and december is anniversity's birthdays that so i pray everything goes ok for all

At 1:21pm on November 8, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
Kay, My heart bleeds with intense sadness to hear the story about Joe and know what I went through with Doug and surely so many others of us before have dealt with and some have yet to deal with. My pain is so intense. I do believe in your case the MDs should have proceeded with tests that were routine before any type of surgery and allowed you the knowledge of those results. You may make a list of what you were told and things that you were not before deciding to persue any legal aid. Perhaps you can get someone to assist you that has been through the similar footwork. I am keeping you close in prayer that whatever choice you make you receive peace and that Joe is at Peace regardless. Now for Kay to be at peace ...that is where I too am baffled and stuggling. Not even an attorney can wave a wand for that unless he brings Doug back... HUGS
At 1:21pm on November 8, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
Kay, My heart bleeds with intense sadness to hear the story about Joe and know what I went through with Doug and surely so many others of us before have dealt with and some have yet to deal with. My pain is so intense. I do believe in your case the MDs should have proceeded with tests that were routine before any type of surgery and allowed you the knowledge of those results. You may make a list of what you were told and things that you were not before deciding to persue any legal aid. Perhaps you can get someone to assist you that has been through the similar footwork. I am keeping you close in prayer that whatever choice you make you receive peace and that Joe is at Peace regardless. Now for Kay to be at peace ...that is where I too am baffled and stuggling. Not even an attorney can wave a wand for that unless he brings Doug back... HUGS
At 10:42am on October 31, 2010, Kay Arcuni said…
Thank you Barb, I know it's a process but in this case I have to sell this stuff. When Joe passed we had no insurance and I am paying the rent on the unit he was working out of. I still haven't told the landlord he's gone yet because I don't want them to lock the place up on me. I also have a garage at home full of tools, which I probably will never get rid of, at least not until my grandson get old enough to decide weather he wants to work wood like Grampi or not. The whole thing just stinks, and it's so unfair that we have to be talking to one another because of our circumstances.
At 6:34pm on October 30, 2010, bc said…
I know how you are feeling Kay. When Brad left I had to sell all his tools that we used together restoring classic cars. Everytime one sold I cried. I still have things left but I don't want to get rid of them right now. And his closet still has a lot of things in it, everytime I open it, his scent is in there, that's my "haven" when I need to feel closer to him. Take a break, things don't have to be done all at once. Baby steps.....
At 5:36pm on October 17, 2010, Kathy King Kates said…
I thought I read somewhere that your husband passed on August 17 so I hope yu are doing okay today. It's amazing how long the # 17 in your case and in my case 25 for Feb 25 sticks with us for sometime. I read in one of the articles here that we need to move fast to the happy celebrations like birthdays and anniversaries and try to get away from the "death day". I know that is hard to do and I do believe they mean once we get past the pain of the firsts for all of these events. My mom passed 3 years ago and my sister & I celebrate here birthday and mothers day together and try to forget January 11 as much as possible. It will eventually help. Prayers with you today and lots of hugs.
At 12:50pm on September 15, 2010, kathleen caylor said…
Sorry if I scared you.I respect the anonominity of bereaved spouses.
At 4:56pm on September 14, 2010, kathleen caylor said…
If you would like to talk,call me at 693 1499
At 4:54pm on September 14, 2010, kathleen caylor said…
Kay,I'm a newcomer in Alva.Only lived here 31 years!We lived in N.Ft.Myers before we built our house.Been in Fl.for 37 years.Are you on the bereaved spouse page on facebook?
At 11:48am on September 14, 2010, kathleen caylor said…
Kay,Do you know you're a neighbor?I live in Alva.
 
 
 

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