Hi Linda; I do apologize for getting back to you late. I hope all is well. I see where you are angry and that's okay, What you want to do it seem is to find a way of how to handle what has happened to you, Most of the time I am not good at talking to people face to face when I am feeling that I have been wronged, so I will write a letter to express my point. But I will do it in a Godly manner. Believe me when I say do it in a Godly manner. I was angry when I wrote a letter and in the letter I stated harsh words and when everything was over, no one was speaking to me. God had to let me know that I handled the situation the wrong way. Carefully choose your words that God will give you and let the family know that if you have done anything wrong for them to forgive you. And if you cannot think of anything that you may have done, then ask God to show you before you write the letter. It takes time. Take care and God bless. Hope to hear from you back.