hey thanks so much for your advice. yes, i have thought about it but the thing is right now it feels too hard. i have already given some of his old clothes away. but i am unable to part with the things he used to use daily. i have already dedicated a room to him which we call dad's room with his pictures and his things. but how can i fit things from a lifetime into one room.
i realize i have to start giving some of his things away. i just don't feel ready yet, to part with his things. its like i am pained when i see his things around the house but then i am not ready to let go either. i hope i find a way soon.
I am so sorry to hear about your father. i cannot imagine what it must feel like to lose a father at 16. i am very sure you must be a very strong person. thank you for your advice : )