Hi Lisa... Idk if you check this anymore but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone! I lost my mom when I was 20 and my dad this year at 22 right before my son was born. Hoping you are coping well and the holidays are good! -Nicole.

Hey Mary, just stopping by to say be encourage, its been five years since i lost my wife, but i am moving forward.   You are in my prayers, be bless and have a wonderful day.

 

Carl

Lisa,

 

I'm sorry for your losses.  That is a lot to deal with at such a young age.  I was fortunate enough to have my mother till I was 39 but she died due to a botched biopsy.  There was  a lawsuit it was not a good time for me.  Thank goodness for my husband.  But then he was was promoted home January 2009 suddenly from an Aschemic Brainstem Stroke.  Five months later I found Life after Death for women to help them "walk beyond their husband's path and beyond grief". 

 

So how did you deal with your mother's passing?  And then your father's?  I take you are still dealing with some issues are you?  The separation when it is sudden is bad I still can't tell if it's worse if it's sudden or if it's a long period of sickness.  I really believe it's based on each person and who we are and what we believe.

 

Please let me know how you are doing.

 

Blessings...sweetie...Mare