Lydia
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They will come to you!!!!

Posted on January 26, 2011 at 11:49am 0 Comments

Good morning everyone! I just wanted to update you on my progress. I am doing much better! It was a year on 1/24/2011 since Daddy passed, and on that day I found out I was pregnant! Can you believe it? I had a dream the night before of Daddy taking a baby out of my car in a carrier. How ironic!

Don't know what else to do.....

Posted on March 25, 2010 at 11:41pm 1 Comment

I am still so sad over losing Dad that I do not know what else to do. I ask and pray for him to come see me in a dream and let me know that he is ok. And yet nothing. I am going through life like a zombie.... I am just going through the motions... I feel bad for my children that now, get no attention from me. I feel lost... Is this normal?

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At 10:43pm on May 13, 2014, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia,
Have not revisited this page for over a year! Let me know how you have been! I appreciate all the love and support you offered during my period of acute grief!
Xoxo, Belinda
At 10:44pm on October 17, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia, forgive me....I was thinking you lost your mom. I feel so stupid, please excuse my mistake. Belinda
At 10:44pm on October 17, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia, forgive me....I was thinking you lost your mom. I feel so stupid, please excuse my mistake. Belinda
At 10:40pm on October 17, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia, you are breaking my heart. PLEASE hang in there....suicide is not an answer, it does not solve the friends, coworkers, and relatives efforts to help you on this sensitive journey. I beg you to pray for God to help you move on, healthy and happy, and by all means go get some HELP today. Your mom is with you, even though it is only memories. Think of the good time, and stay close to people you trust. It is sad, I admit, that death is a reality, but when God calls us home, we need to go. Lydia you call me ASAP if you keep up with those destructive thoughts. Love Belinda 502-693-4494 I promise to listen and be supportive!
At 10:40pm on October 17, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia, you are breaking my heart. PLEASE hang in there....suicide is not an answer, it does not solve the friends, coworkers, and relatives efforts to help you on this sensitive journey. I beg you to pray for God to help you move on, healthy and happy, and by all means go get some HELP today. Your mom is with you, even though it is only memories. Think of the good time, and stay close to people you trust. It is sad, I admit, that death is a reality, but when God calls us home, we need to go. Lydia you call me ASAP if you keep up with those destructive thoughts. Love Belinda 502-693-4494 I promise to listen and be supportive!
At 9:41pm on September 29, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
Lydia, How are things going for you. I bet the summer seemed long. I did better this summer, but I was a mess in the Spring. I ended going on an anti-depressant, and did a lot of counseling. I know, I was blaming everyone, and so angry and bitter. I have more peace, NOW> I need to get my sleep straightened out, because lack of sleep and grief, are not good for anyone. Please write a short note, when you can. Love, Belinda
At 10:05pm on July 24, 2010, Melinda Contreras said…
Lydia, My mom passed on May 17 of this year in a car accident taking my little sister to school. She was my closest friend. I loved her so very much. She was only 55. I thought we had so much time together. This has changed my thinking of life now. I appreciate life so much more. I miss my Mom, but I now know that it's time to step up to the plate and listen to my heart. God is always their and he needs us here to do what we were born to do. I was never real religious, but I do think their is a reason why were here. This won't bring my Mom back but maybe I can become a better person out of this tragedy.
At 7:35am on July 24, 2010, kathy said…
Lydia,try to focus on the resurrection hope where Daddy will live forever on this earth and never have to worry about dying again. God says: "He will actually swallow up death forever, and... will certainly wipe the tears from all faces." (Isaiah 25:8) But he also promises a bringing back to life those who have died, a time when we can enjoy life together forever. The Bible makes the promise: “Your dead ones will live . . .. They will rise up.” And the Bible also says: “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.”—Isaiah 26:19; Psalm 37:29 The miracle of Lazarus' resurrection foreshadows only one of the many blessings we will enjoy under Christ's reign in the paradise earth promised in the Bible at Psalms 37:9-11 and John 5:28,29. As we await the outworking of all of God's promises, I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that others are thinking about you.
At 9:07pm on July 20, 2010, Carolyn Pierce said…
Lydia, It doesn't sound selfish for you to want to be with your dad. It sounds like you had a wonderful dad, you loved him dearly and you miss him. One day in God's time you will be with your father. When did your father pass away? My mom passed away on June 25 and I miss her so much. I've also prayed for her to come to me in a dream, but I know there are other ways my mom can come to me...in my thoughts, in memories. I found a book, "On Grief and Grieving" by Elisabeth Kubler Ross, that has helped me understand that the feelings I'm having are normal. There are 5 stages of grieving....denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I've gone through all of these several times since my mom passed away last month. One day I'm at acceptance and the next day depressed or angry, but I know these are normal feelings. Please take time to read the book. I think you'll find that it will help.
At 7:13pm on July 20, 2010, Lydia said…
I have decided to join Daddy.... If he does not come to me tonight, then I will join him tomorrow. I wish you all the best! Take care!
 
 
 

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