Lynda
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  • San Angelo, TX
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Lynda commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors
"Janet, I'm sorry you have been put in such a painful position to be able to relate to this at all. Prayers and hugs to you from Texas <3"
Nov 9, 2014
Lynda commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors
"I'm two years out from losing my 16 year old son. I still have problems sleeping, but thankfully the nightmares have stopped. It happened right in front of me, with a gun, in my driveway of my current home, and he passed away 4 days later. This…"
Oct 25, 2014
Lynda commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors
"Balloon birthday  memorial yesterday for my oldest Bryan (17th bday), who passed last December, lead by my youngest Jayce (10). Jayce was so energized leading the "happy birthday" song; I couldn't get a word out, just tears.…"
Nov 11, 2013
Lynda left a comment for Dawne
"Thank you, Dawne...we'll get through, one step at a time.  Maybe back a step and forward some other day, but we'll get through.  Hope you are feeling a little better today :)"
Nov 11, 2013
Lynda replied to Russell A. Harrison's discussion Two completly different tragedy's ending in same place. in the group suicide's survivors
"Russell,  I'm so sorry for your losses too; they are deep, agonizing hurts.  This is a great place to share, to let it all out without fear of judgment.   It is  a great place to be understood and accepted.  I lost my…"
Nov 11, 2013
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Oct 25, 2013
Dawne left a comment for Lynda
"Lynda, thank you for your sweet words.  I am so sorry for the loss of your son.  I have watched my own mother suffer through the loss of my brother and it is truly heart wrenching.  I cannot imagine your…"
Oct 24, 2013
Lynda commented on Jojo's blog post Am I the only one who does not want to be bothered?
"I think we all need that quiet time alone.  Peaceful time to just be.  Those words you mention bring no comfort to me either, so soon.  I just hurt and would much rather just hear them say they love me and offer to help me put things…"
Oct 23, 2013
Lynda commented on Dawne's status
"Dawne, I'm so sorry you lost your brother.  I lost my oldest son, Bryan, in December.  I'm still a little horrible with concentration, sleep.  He was 16.  Eventually, it will taper.  I am not as bad today as I was…"
Oct 23, 2013
Lynda replied to Lynda's discussion Sibling Unaware of Cause of Death in the group suicide's survivors
"Thank you Janet and Lisa...this is what I know I need to do, just how to get there...will figure out the way."
Oct 23, 2013
Lynda replied to Joe's discussion Was it suicide? in the group suicide's survivors
"Joe, first, I'm so sorry for your loss.  Suicide, just the possibility, complicates everything in ways you never imagine until it slaps you in the face.  I think the best thing to do is to stay neutral and pray for clarity.…"
Oct 23, 2013
Lisa Schenke replied to Lynda's discussion Sibling Unaware of Cause of Death in the group suicide's survivors
"Hi Lynda, I am sorry to hear about your son. I lost my oldest son in 2008 when he was 18 years old. My other two sons were 17 and 14 at the time. As difficult as it is, I think you should tell him the truth. I believe it will only hurt more to find…"
Oct 16, 2013
Janet Garrett Nenzel replied to Lynda's discussion Sibling Unaware of Cause of Death in the group suicide's survivors
"Dear Lynda, Am sorry for the loss of your son.  I too lost my youngest, Garrett, just before his 22nd birthday, 7 1/2 months ago.  His older brother (26 at the time)actually said to me "Garrett did not kill himself because he was…"
Oct 16, 2013
Lynda added a discussion to the group suicide's survivors
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Sibling Unaware of Cause of Death

My 10 year old believes his brother's suicide last December was an accident--words from his lips. I am torn with what to do...explain that his brother ended his life.  It wasn't an "accident".  Bryan was very sick, yes, but accident, no.  He's going to school at a small school where I'm sure other kids will eventually  put it together for him if he doesn't.  It's been several months ago however, and I would hate for for my son to hear something and find out it was the truth from me after the…See More
Oct 16, 2013
Lynda posted a status
"My 10 year old believes his brother's suicide was an accident--words from his lips. I am torn with what to do...not an accident? Suicide?"
Oct 16, 2013
Lynda replied to Tammie McNally's discussion don't know how to find my way... in the group suicide's survivors
"There is so much hurt.  In everything.  We are hurt because people are so afraid to talk to us about our children and cause more hurt--and end up causing more hurt because we don't want them forgotten entirely.  Suicide is so…"
Oct 16, 2013

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At 6:41pm on October 24, 2013, Dawne said…

Lynda, thank you for your sweet words.  I am so sorry for the loss of your son.  I have watched my own mother suffer through the loss of my brother and it is truly heart wrenching.  I cannot imagine your pain.  Thank you again for reaching out it is helpful to hear how others cope. 

At 2:44pm on October 1, 2013, Tami said…
Hello Lynda, I'm so sorry you had to find our page "Loss of a child" but hopefully you will find some comfort here. Share what you feel comfortable with sharing. If you want to speak with other survivors you should ask, you might be able to make a connection with someone that has also lost a child to suicide... My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tami
 
 
 

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