Lynn Danicek
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  • Muskegon, Michigan
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Jan 19, 2011
Lynn Danicek commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"This message is to Donna, who lost her daughter. I'm so sorry nothing his harder than losing a child. You are not nuts, It has been 5 years since my son Jeremy died, I still feel it everyday!! At first, you count every day then every week then…"
Oct 26, 2010

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I haven't been on here for awhile.  It's been 5 years and almost 4 months since my son Jeremy died.  I miss him so much, not a day go by that I don't think about him.  It doesn't get any easier, the time goes faster!  I keep going back and forth with my moods, sometimes I'm ok other's not.  I'm glad that the holidays are over they are the worst thing to go through.  My Dad passed away 16 months after  my son, I'm dealing with that, it was so fast, I know that both of them are together again, that makes me feel a little better I guess.   I just keep wondering what he'd be doing and where he would be?  That I'll never know!  Lost future!  ????

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Sunday April 25th would of been my son Jeremy's 30th birthday. I am sad, heart broken and grief stricken because he died when he was 25 years old. Why does God give us this precious gift of children …

Posted on April 23, 2010 at 11:37am 0 Comments

Sunday April 25th would of been my son Jeremy's 30th birthday. I am sad, heart broken and grief stricken because he died when he was 25 years old. Why does God give us this precious gift of children only to take them from us???? I know he is in a better place and that we will see each other again, but right now every day is so hard. I think of him every day, my heart aches and I cry. It doesn't get any easier as time passes. Birthdays, anniversary date of his death and holidays are so awful to… Continue

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At 1:48pm on February 26, 2010, Cindy Sadler said…
Hi Lynn, No it doesn't sound like your son took his own life. That is Terrable. If a Child commited enough of a crime to be on probation for wanting to kill his mother then Yes that kid is a Very Ovious Threat not only to his own Mother but to the Community. Then he threatened your Son too. The Police should see that as a Huge Red Flag. It is most likey the fact that his Mom is an Attorney in the same Court System. Your son wrote you a Christmas list and Not a Suicde note. So Yes, I Totally Agree with you. It was not a suicde. I wish that I could do something to help you. Cindy
At 9:23pm on February 25, 2010, DEL ROGERS said…
DEAR LYNN DANICEK; I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU LOSING YOUR CHILD- I KNO FIRSTHAND THE PAIN YOU ARE SUFFERING - I LOST MY RYAN- AGE 31 - 8/26/2009 & IT HAS CHANGED MY LIFE AS WELL AS ALL MY FAMILIES LIFE FOREVER !TOMORROW WILL BE 6 MOS SINCE HE PASSED AWAY DUE TO SUICIDE !! HE SHOT HIMSELF IN THE RITE TEMPLE - HE DIED WITHIN MINUTES !!!OUR PAIN HAS BEEN FAR WORSE THAN ANY OTHER PAIN WE'VE EVER KNOWN !! HE HAS 3 YOUNG BOYS THAT SUFFER ALSO FROM LOSING THEIR DAD- TWINS AGE 10 & ANOTHER ONE AGE 9 .WE SUFFER FOR THEM ON TOP OF OUR OWN GRIEF & IT HURTS SOOOO BADDDD !! I CAN RELATE TO EVERYTHING YOU SAID - I CRY OUT EVERY FEW DAYS " I WANT MY RYAN BACK" BUT KNO IN MY HEART IT CAN NEVER BE !!!ALL WE CAN DO IS PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER & GET THRU ONE DAY AT A TIME ! I KNO HE WAS IN SUCH PAIN W/DEPRESSION & TORMENTED IN HIS MIND HE FELT LIFE WAS TOO MUCH TO BEAR ANY LONGER.! WE TRIED TO TALK TO HIM & TELL HIM HOW MUCH WE LOVED HIM & HOW PRECIOUS HE WAS TO ALL OF US & HIS KIDS BUT HE JUST COULD NOT GRASP IT . IT ALL WAS MADE MUCH WORSE TO HIM AFTER A BITTER DIVORCE THAT HE COULD NOT GET OVER ! ONE THING THAT HELPS ME IS TO KNO THAT HE WILL NEVER SUFFER AGAIN FROM ANYTHING- FOR I KNO HE WAS A CHRISTIAN & WAS A VERY SICK YOUNG MAN ! HE CAME TO ME LIKE IN A VISION & SPOKE TO ME & SAID " HEY MOM " - HE WAS HAPPY & LOOKED SO PERFECT & HANDSOME & BY HIS APPEARANCE & VOICE I KNO HE IS HAPPY & W/ JESUS ! THAT HAS HELPED ME SOOOOO MUCH & I THANK GOD SO MUCH FOR SENDING ME THAT BLESSING ! BIT I MISS HIM SOOOOO BADDDD !I PRAY GOD WILL HELP YOU FIND SOME PEACE- THO WE CANNOT EVER GET OVER LOSING THEM WE CAN TRY & GET THRU ONE DAY AT A TIME !IT HAS GOTTEN A LITTLE EASIER BUT WILL ALWAYS HURT !THERE'S JUST NO WAY TO GET OVER SUCH A GREAT LOSS .NO ONE CAN EVER KNO THE PAIN THAT WE FEEL UNLESS THEY HAVE BEEN THRU THIS THEMSELVES !! GOD BLESS YOU & GIVE YOU PEACE IS MY PRAYER FOR YOU DEAR !!!
At 12:10pm on February 25, 2010, Cindy Sadler said…
Lynn, I wish that I could do something to take your pain away. Time is the only thing that will ease it or should I say help us to mask it better for those who just don't seem to understand that the loss of our Childern is the Very Worst Experience in the whole world and universe that a parent should Ever have to live (or try to live) through. I do have to say being a mother who was Convinced for about 3 months that My son took his life from suiced even though I was Not involved in the chain of events that took place it made me review our whole life together. I really found myself Only thinking about the times that I got frustrated with him Over and Over to "get a Job" and other normal things that we are responable for teaching our kids. All of those things that I was supossed to do to help My son now in my mind became the thoughts that I was "a Mean Mother" "No wonder he did this" "I took him to consoling for years - Maybe I should have taken him more?" "I wish that I would have in some way changed the course of the day" On and On - Guilt - Guilt and More Guilt.. One thing that I was told that helped me was what one person said to me. "Cindy - You were only disaplening your child - we all do it and it is neccesary." I also was one day thinking that a Good Mother or Good Father could have jumped over the moon and they would now feel that they still did not jump high enough. My main point is that I experienced thinking that I felt that I should have done something more and I should have been "able to Know more of what to look for and "I" could have avoided this. I am Now glad to know that My son did not take his own life and the reason that I feel for you so Much is that there is Nothing worse that can happen then when you lose a child but I feel (being on both sides now) that a person that thinks even maybe that their son or daughter comitted suicde at least in My experiance I felt it was "10 times harder" to deal with then now knowing that he was hit by a man that make a statement at seane that he had taken his eyes off of the road and when he looked up there was a man standing there with his hands in front of him which in a weird way was a Relief to me. I now know for sure that he did not go out on to the Highway chest out like bring it on. You can feel free to email me at cas463@zoominternet.net. Mainly - I totally feel for you. Cindy (((((((((Lynn-)))))))))
 
 
 

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