At 2:01am on December 28, 2010, julie thomas said…
your "visions" are probably your partner trying to contact you. my husband would sit down on my bed and i could feel it. no vapors, but could hear him moving around in the house, even my dog picked up on that. it was more often right after he died. he passed 4/1/08, it has been awhile and now i only see him in my dreams, but alot of strange things happened right after his passing. I still talk to him alot, I dont know if he hears me or not, but, I am more at peace now and know when it is my time, i will join him. i know it's a little unnerving but dont let it scare you. try talking to him, that in itself may calm you.
At 2:01am on December 28, 2010, julie thomas said…
your "visions" are probably your partner trying to contact you. my husband would sit down on my bed and i could feel it. no vapors, but could hear him moving around in the house, even my dog picked up on that. it was more often right after he died. he passed 4/1/08, it has been awhile and now i only see him in my dreams, but alot of strange things happened right after his passing. I still talk to him alot, I dont know if he hears me or not, but, I am more at peace now and know when it is my time, i will join him. i know it's a little unnerving but dont let it scare you. try talking to him, that in itself may calm you.
Hello Marci, read your post about the visit you had with your lost partner. I would give anything for that to happen to me. My wife paased on almost a year ago, and I look forward to any dreams I have with her in them. It sadly does not happen often enough. Just enjoy it when it happens,regards Jerry.
Hello Marci, read your post about the visit you had with your lost partner. I would give anything for that to happen to me. My wife paased on almost a year ago, and I look forward to any dreams I have with her in them. It sadly does not happen often enough. Just enjoy it when it happens,regards Jerry.
Marci, Thanks for writing back. When I said I thought I was losing my mind, didn't mean I was frightened, just really sad to be alone and feel so lost at times. I am grateful Doug will always be with me just hate that he isn't physically here to continue our life journey . We hadn't finished seeing our last sunrise together. :) HUGS and Prayers. Ellen~
Marci, I read your post and got a lump in my throat because just last night I swear I was awakened to see where my husband was. I called him and swore he was here. I flipped the lights on and searched. It was more than a dream.It has happened before that I hear him talking to me. Thought I was losing my mind. So I guess you aren't alone and perhaps it is our loved one that is forever with us. Thanks for sharing cause I know the pain and emotional turmoil to too well. I journal about it a great deal by hand and do go to a grief group. This group has helped with lots of support. Doug died Sept. 29, 2010. Peace and Prayers. Ellen~
Marci, it sounds as if your life partner is visiting you. I'm so envious. My husband, who worshiped me since the day we met, has not visited me once. I thought I would feel his presence or at least talk to him in my dreams, but there's been nothing since he passed away over 9 months ago. I pray that you find peace, strength and comfort in the difficult days ahead.
marci: you can start a group right here on this website i am sure people would look into it and you will receive many people to responde to you let me know
marci: you can start a group right here on this website i am sure people would look into it and you will receive many people to responde to you let me know
Marci, I saw your post about finding a group to join in your town. I found one through, of all things, San Diego Hospice. They offer a variety of free and fee-paid groups that cover all kinds of losses; sudden losses (like I experienced), deaths following long illnesses, losses of children, etc. Maybe a hospice in your area has the same sort of services. I blew off checking into the hospice initially because my husband wasn't ill before he died. I hope you find something.
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your "visions" are probably your partner trying to contact you. my husband would sit down on my bed and i could feel it. no vapors, but could hear him moving around in the house, even my dog picked up on that. it was more often right after he died. he passed 4/1/08, it has been awhile and now i only see him in my dreams, but alot of strange things happened right after his passing. I still talk to him alot, I dont know if he hears me or not, but, I am more at peace now and know when it is my time, i will join him. i know it's a little unnerving but dont let it scare you. try talking to him, that in itself may calm you.
your "visions" are probably your partner trying to contact you. my husband would sit down on my bed and i could feel it. no vapors, but could hear him moving around in the house, even my dog picked up on that. it was more often right after he died. he passed 4/1/08, it has been awhile and now i only see him in my dreams, but alot of strange things happened right after his passing. I still talk to him alot, I dont know if he hears me or not, but, I am more at peace now and know when it is my time, i will join him. i know it's a little unnerving but dont let it scare you. try talking to him, that in itself may calm you.
marci: you can start a group right here on this website i am sure people would look into it and you will receive many people to responde to you let me know
marci: you can start a group right here on this website i am sure people would look into it and you will receive many people to responde to you let me know
Marci, I saw your post about finding a group to join in your town. I found one through, of all things, San Diego Hospice. They offer a variety of free and fee-paid groups that cover all kinds of losses; sudden losses (like I experienced), deaths following long illnesses, losses of children, etc. Maybe a hospice in your area has the same sort of services. I blew off checking into the hospice initially because my husband wasn't ill before he died. I hope you find something.
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