Margie Thrash
  • Female
  • Gibson City, IL
  • United States
Share

Margie Thrash's Groups

 

Margie Thrash's Page

Latest Conversations

Margie Thrash left a comment for Steve Cain
"I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to…"
Sep 12, 2012
Marsha H replied to Margie Thrash's discussion For my spouse I lost last month Make the world spend back in time in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Margie ... that was beautiful and just the way I am feeling now.  I am so out of it today that I send my post to the wrong place (for the second time!)  My brain feels in a fog; I feel alone and my heart, just like yours seems…"
Sep 7, 2012
Sandra replied to Margie Thrash's discussion For my spouse I lost last month Make the world spend back in time in the group Bereaved Spouses
"My heart goes out to you both. I lost my husband three and a half years ago.  I can vividly recall how the early days of losing him felt, it was such horrible pain and sorrow... it is beyond words. Please try to hang on tight as you move…"
Sep 7, 2012
Brandy replied to Margie Thrash's discussion For my spouse I lost last month Make the world spend back in time in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Wow Margie I lost my husband on Aug. 12 and your words truly touched me. I am so heartbroken & so lossed without him. I keep wanting to wake up & for life to be what it was..."
Sep 5, 2012
Marsha H replied to Margie Thrash's discussion Lost my spouse of 23 years in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Margie ... I am so sorry to hear about your husband's passing.  I agree with you that doctors are not on top of things as they should be and are the cause of much pain for spouses and family.  My husband passed away on April 27,…"
Aug 21, 2012
Theresa LaPointe-Miller commented on Margie Thrash's blog post Lost my best friend my love of 23 years
"Maggie: My heart aches with the sense of loss you are experiencing!  I lost my husband 5 years ago...he was only 53.   Some times I STILL feel that mind crushing pain that you are feeling now.   I encourage you to talk of your…"
Aug 16, 2012
Margie Thrash replied to Margie Thrash's discussion Lost my spouse of 23 years in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I know my Scott would be saying this to me now... And if I should go before you know that part of me still remains you will not see me yet I will be there walking beside you. You will not touch me Yet I will live in your heart and memory always…"
Aug 15, 2012
Margie Thrash replied to Margie Thrash's discussion For my spouse I lost last month Make the world spend back in time in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Written by Margie Thrash for her beloved husband Scott Thrash hope you enjoy my poem.."
Aug 14, 2012
Margie Thrash added a discussion to the group Bereaved Spouses
Thumbnail

For my spouse I lost last month Make the world spend back in time

Make the world spend back in timeMake the world spin back in time When it was you and IThe good lord has taken you awayWithout you I cry a tear every dayThey all say I am strongWith sadness I have to say they are wrongI miss your smile your silly laughThe way we planned our future on our behalfI think of you every minute of timeWhy cant I make it go back to when it was you and IWe planned on road trips after we retiredNow I am alone and always seem so tiredI want you back in the morning on the…See More
Aug 14, 2012
Faith J. replied to Margie Thrash's discussion Lost my spouse of 23 years in the group Bereaved Spouses
"It's really hard I know, but this site has become an oasis for me.  People are really encouraging & non-judgemental.  We're all dealing w/ the same thing, the loss of a spouse.  For me it was a sudden heart attack after…"
Aug 5, 2012
Margie Thrash replied to Keltie Kimball's discussion It's been 5 weeks. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Keltie I have my moments of grief and also feel I have not had the full loss that is expected of me I really believe because it was not his choice to leave me and when he said he couldnt do it anymore after 3 months of severe pain and I said it was…"
Aug 5, 2012
janice shannon replied to Margie Thrash's discussion Lost my spouse of 23 years in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Maggie, I am so sorry for your loss.  I will keep you in my prayers that God will comfort you and give you peace.   Janice"
Aug 5, 2012
Margie Thrash added a discussion to the group Bereaved Spouses
Thumbnail

Lost my spouse of 23 years

My husband was diagnosed with gall bladder metastasized carcinoma on March 16th and after 4 months of severe pain and suffering he has passed on July 15th in the hospital after a months stay to stop his pain.  I watched one of the strongest calmest men ever dwindle away to nothing he couldn't eat, sleep and it finally wore on him I watched him take his last breath.  I still think if I would of figured a way to take him home from hospital he might still be with me that is all he wanted.  There…See More
Aug 5, 2012
Margie Thrash joined Steve Cain's group
Thumbnail

Bereaved Spouses

A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
Aug 5, 2012
Margie Thrash posted a blog post

Lost my best friend my love of 23 years

In March of this year my husband was diagnosed with gall bladder cancer that had metastasized to his liver given a 3-6 month life expectancy after 3 1/2 months of unbelievable pain and over a month of that a stay in the hospital he passed away on July 15th.  I am usually a very strong person but this is just tearing me apart I am scared to talk to friends and family because I dont want to be a bummer and depressed all the time with them.  I do feel depressed and very sad I hope and pray and can…See More
Aug 5, 2012
Margie Thrash is now a member of LegacyConnect
Aug 5, 2012

Profile Information

Margie Thrash's Blog

Lost my best friend my love of 23 years

Posted on August 5, 2012 at 9:55am 1 Comment

In March of this year my husband was diagnosed with gall bladder cancer that had metastasized to his liver given a 3-6 month life expectancy after 3 1/2 months of unbelievable pain and over a month of that a stay in the hospital he passed away on July 15th.  I am usually a very strong person but this is just tearing me apart I am scared to talk to friends and family because I dont want to be a bummer and depressed all the time with them.  I do feel depressed…

Continue

Comment Wall (1 comment)

You need to be a member of LegacyConnect to add comments!

Join LegacyConnect

At 10:15am on August 5, 2012, Jane P. said…

Margie, I am so sorry for your loss and even sorrier you now have joined us on the rollercoaster called grief.  The loss of a spouse is like no other it is toe curling and heart wrenching grief.  It is a baby step process where you will be   doing the grief tango, one step forward and two steps back.  Take each day as a new beginning and no matter what, tomorrow always comes. But you have come to a great site where we are all grieving, we are all in different stages of grief and we pass no judgements but we truly understand your pain.  Keep coming here even if it to read posts and soon you will realize your feelings are normal and no you are not crazy.  Hugs, Jane P. 

 
 
 

Latest Conversations

Community Guidelines

Please be respectful of others. For more information, read our Community Guidelines.

Badge

Loading…

Follow Legacy

Follow Legacy.com on PinterestFollow @LegacyConnect on TwitterCircle us on Google+

© 2017   Created by Legacy.com.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service