we both seem way to young to be widows. I think it is harder on us being that we were kids when we met our husband's and grew up together. And in my heart I know that is something so special. Most young marriages don't make it. We may have lost a loved one but we both had some thing very special that a lot of people will ever have. I have 21 years full of great memories that will always be in my heart. But this past 10 mo. sure has been hard, a day has not gone by that at some point I have cried and thought "WHY?" Hope you have a good day today.