Mary. Jane
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Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The book is called "Option B" and after listening to this woman, I will be buying this book."
yesterday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Ok this is a RIGHT NOW suggestion...if you have the OWN channel (Oprah) watch it now! It's about dealing with a death of a spouse, a lady named Sheryl Sandburg discusses her book on how she dealt with the death of her husband. So far it is…"
yesterday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"DeR Marsha...I think you've answered your own question whether to go or not. In my opinion, you shouldn't,t give this a second thought. You've given more reasons NOT to go...then attend...so the heck with them..send them a card and…"
Saturday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Ok, I don,t know these people, or how close you and 3 Ernie were to them...but a few years ago I discovered a very close friend of my daughters and then mine, was getting married. I had not received an invitation...whether it was the distance BOb…"
Friday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you, Micheal. Your words are very sweet. I think you do a wonderful job of expressing your feelings...and your lack of focus is a symptom of grief. I REALLY have it..and it shows up here when I start typing about a subject, and go off on a…"
Thursday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks for replying. I really appreciate your responses. I am afraid I am getting addicted to this site."
Thursday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aBHcUv_42zI This has been one of the most terrible days ever.sorry to hijack this site with so many posts. I just DIDN,t know where else to go."
Wednesday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"SCENARIO: You wake up..as you get out of bed..you are careful not to disturb your sleeping partner, as you exit the bed...sometimes, you even take a few steps..trying to be quiet..and then you remember...you are alone."
Jun 20
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"OMG!..STEVE..using a lamp for your loved ones remains in the coolest, most beautiful thing I have ever seen!! The symbolism of shining his light through the depths of darkness is so touching! Plus, the fact that you built it for him, and you...and…"
Jun 19
Mary. Jane left a comment for Michael Smith
"Hi Micheal. I am so happy you were able to connect with everyone else..and that you continued to come here even tho you had yet to receive a response. I dunno why I clicked on your name that night, I saw you were online, and when I read your post,…"
Jun 19
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well, this day wasn,t bad at all! I spent it quietly, doing nothing...I dunno what I expected..I had my two bourbons and ginger ales, then ate 2 cookies..Cheryl's from online...watched The Golden Girls all day, I have a slight headache and feel…"
Jun 17
Mary. Jane replied to Monica's discussion get your ex back in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Terry, you were nicer than what I want to say or post, does this sort of thing happen often?"
Jun 17
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sandfly, I read your post this morning, and I have been thinking about it all day. Your words were as if I had written them...you said a lot of was is in my heart right now. My heartfelt advice to you, is to slow down...take tiny baby steps...get…"
Jun 17
Michael Smith left a comment for Mary. Jane
"Mary Jane, I have been wondering what I did wrong. thank you for finding me. I have been reading posts of support on here. you all are very encouraging I'm just not very good at talking. I'm sorry for your loss and will pray for you on…"
Jun 16
Steve Cain and Mary. Jane are now friends
Jun 15
Mary. Jane left a comment for Michael Smith
"Hi Micheal...welcome to Legacy. NO one has responded, as your post is kind of hidden on your personal page. Omg, I hope you DIDN,t think we were ignoring you...you need to go to the main page, and click on bereaved spouses, or when a spouse or…"
Jun 15

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At 7:25am on June 16, 2017, Michael Smith said…

Mary Jane, I have been wondering what I did wrong. thank you for finding me. I have been reading posts of support on here. you all are very encouraging I'm just not very good at talking. I'm sorry for your loss and will pray for you on saturday. Our 25th anniversary would have been April 18th, My oldest sister is the only person who said anything to me that day. I was upset with her family but we have drifted apart since her death. I will try to post in the other area later today. thanks again.

At 4:15am on April 13, 2017, Marsha H said…

Mary.Jane ...  You're a goof, but a good one!  LOL  I am so very sorry you're not feeling well and it amazes me you always joke around or make light of things with all the things you are going through.  You hang in there girl!

At 4:56am on April 12, 2017, Marsha H said…

Mary.Jane ...  Hope you meant me and if not we're friends anyway.  LOL

Marsha

At 3:20pm on March 24, 2017, Charles E. Nelson said…

PS - I forgot the email! it's : charlylary@peoplepc.com

be well, Chuck

At 3:17pm on March 24, 2017, Charles E. Nelson said…
Hi Mary Jane,
Thank you for the friend request - sometimes this is easier to use, with the added advantage of being free to say things more candidly without offending or confusing the other family members in Bereaved Spouses. I get it completely about how frustrating it is to post sometimes - the same thing happens to me all the time, and on top of that I have Windows XP and a less than top drawer access through my phone co., mostly because of severe budget constraints. That's why I can't always get on and just write quickly when I want to, so believe me I won't think you rude for taking time to reply, and know you will excuse me too!
I won't keep blathering now, except to say I haven't read yours or any other posts for a few days, but your comment about waking up crying is so familiar to me - sometimes tears start gathering and running down my face without my hardly noticing it anymore...sadly it is such a familiar feeling that I just hope I'm not in a store or talking to a neighbor. With friends, or of course Steve, I don't worry about it because they aren't upset or uncomfortable, they just reach for my hand or pass the tissues calmly. Friends- TRUE friends - are the most precious thing to me after my beloved Larry, and now Steve.
If you are inclined, I am giving you my email address off this site, so we can exchange notes and/or photos without worrying about words being censored. No, I don't have a potty mouth, but you will find that some words and expressions that seem tame are blocked to avoid offending anyone. I think that's a good thing, but have to re-type things trying to figure out what was objectionable in my original post, and that gets tedious after awhile.
I hope this gets through, and am so glad you are joining the conversations now, because these folks here really are very kind and honest, and have pulled me back from the brink of madness more than once I assure you! Have a pleasant weekend, find some peace for yourself, and write whenever you feel like it - I'm listening, and don't be afraid of asking me stuff, because I'm pretty mello as a person.
Love,
Chuck
 
 
 

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