Mary. Jane
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Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I just read Chucks post, and I would like to add something. When I first came here..one of the things that made me stay, was the kindness, and non judgement of gender. Love is love, and the pain and loss is the same no matter what."
14 hours ago
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I think what is worse in the mornings, is When I wake up, and I open my eyes, and turn over to look at BOb, and see if he's awake yet..and I see the empty space, the undented pillow, and then I remember.i think "oh" and realize…"
14 hours ago
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Quadrangle? I don,t even know what that means? Spell check sucks"
yesterday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Deborah...you can keep his stuff exactly where u want to...just last week, I got the courage to donate more of Bobs clothes...but I kept a lot. I actually know a few women who have lived through the death of two husbands..I don,t see where they…"
yesterday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello, Deborah, and welcome. You are lucky to have found this place so soon...I wasn,t able to find this for over a year after my husband of nearly 50 years died, after only 4 months of cancer..but this has been a life saver for all of us. For me,…"
yesterday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve,,"aww, shucks!" Thank you"
Sunday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Sandfly ThT is one of the most beautiful pictures I have ever seen. What an amazing tribute to David. I hope you will have a copy of that picture made, and frame it. What stood out so much for me, was not the hearts, or Davids name..but your…"
Sunday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Russ, and welcome. This group has been a life saver for me. I understand the feelings you have of hesitating to talk to family and friends about the pain and loss you are going through..unless they have experienced the death of a loved one, there…"
Saturday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks,Micheal! Yes, they are a great group, and the POETRY of the lyrics to all their songs is amazing. Unfortunately, since they are so young, most of the lyrics relate to much younger people than myself, but the harmonies, and the upbeat style is…"
Thursday
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I spent yesterday listening to music I had forgotten about,and that I really loved. There is a group named FUN, who's songs I LOVED, but hadn,t listened to since before Bob got sick. One of their songs is called Carry On, and I,d like to,share…"
Aug 16
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"STeve, I think I will have to print your post about tornadoes..I just read it again, and once more your words have given me comfort...than, and my friends Mr. WELLER and Ms Gingerale..but only a single shot...Direct TV is a waste of money, just when…"
Aug 16
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well, I know that if no one had answered when I first posted, I would have been crushed! Ok, I have a question. I've started remembering my dreams when I wake up. They all seem to have 2 similar themes...the first one is I spend the entire…"
Aug 15
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hey kids...there is a new person here..she commented on Chris Sky's thread..so I tried to steal her here, but I don,t think I was very good at it. Her name is Joanne, and am pretty sure she is new here...and I don,t want her to think we ignored…"
Aug 13
Mary. Jane replied to Chris Sky's discussion My love is gone... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Joanne, and welcome. You have come to a good place here. I am sorry if no one responded yet...sometimes a new person will post somewhere we don,t all see it..otherwise you would have received many many responses...go to Bereved Spouses, and…"
Aug 13
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve, I have a good feeling that your hand will be ok. I dunno why, but I don,t think God will let anything else bad happen to you. I wish you well, and please keep us posted. I have read your post about the tornadoes over and over and find it very…"
Aug 12
Mary. Jane commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve that was a lovely post...Marsha thank you too..and BEard...usually I am - ANAL about homonyms, but that one slipped by me. This is a quick post, as I am having a bad Epstein Barr episode...BOB sister has colon cancer, and between that tornado,…"
Aug 12

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At 7:25am on June 16, 2017, Michael Smith said…

Mary Jane, I have been wondering what I did wrong. thank you for finding me. I have been reading posts of support on here. you all are very encouraging I'm just not very good at talking. I'm sorry for your loss and will pray for you on saturday. Our 25th anniversary would have been April 18th, My oldest sister is the only person who said anything to me that day. I was upset with her family but we have drifted apart since her death. I will try to post in the other area later today. thanks again.

At 4:15am on April 13, 2017, Marsha H said…

Mary.Jane ...  You're a goof, but a good one!  LOL  I am so very sorry you're not feeling well and it amazes me you always joke around or make light of things with all the things you are going through.  You hang in there girl!

At 4:56am on April 12, 2017, Marsha H said…

Mary.Jane ...  Hope you meant me and if not we're friends anyway.  LOL

Marsha

At 3:20pm on March 24, 2017, Charles E. Nelson said…

PS - I forgot the email! it's : charlylary@peoplepc.com

be well, Chuck

At 3:17pm on March 24, 2017, Charles E. Nelson said…
Hi Mary Jane,
Thank you for the friend request - sometimes this is easier to use, with the added advantage of being free to say things more candidly without offending or confusing the other family members in Bereaved Spouses. I get it completely about how frustrating it is to post sometimes - the same thing happens to me all the time, and on top of that I have Windows XP and a less than top drawer access through my phone co., mostly because of severe budget constraints. That's why I can't always get on and just write quickly when I want to, so believe me I won't think you rude for taking time to reply, and know you will excuse me too!
I won't keep blathering now, except to say I haven't read yours or any other posts for a few days, but your comment about waking up crying is so familiar to me - sometimes tears start gathering and running down my face without my hardly noticing it anymore...sadly it is such a familiar feeling that I just hope I'm not in a store or talking to a neighbor. With friends, or of course Steve, I don't worry about it because they aren't upset or uncomfortable, they just reach for my hand or pass the tissues calmly. Friends- TRUE friends - are the most precious thing to me after my beloved Larry, and now Steve.
If you are inclined, I am giving you my email address off this site, so we can exchange notes and/or photos without worrying about words being censored. No, I don't have a potty mouth, but you will find that some words and expressions that seem tame are blocked to avoid offending anyone. I think that's a good thing, but have to re-type things trying to figure out what was objectionable in my original post, and that gets tedious after awhile.
I hope this gets through, and am so glad you are joining the conversations now, because these folks here really are very kind and honest, and have pulled me back from the brink of madness more than once I assure you! Have a pleasant weekend, find some peace for yourself, and write whenever you feel like it - I'm listening, and don't be afraid of asking me stuff, because I'm pretty mello as a person.
Love,
Chuck
 
 
 

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