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Well Christmas is coming and my heart is so heavy. I had a difficult time Thanksgiving but now I just feel people cannot grasp I still daily grieve the loss of my child. Not that I do not function but they just cannot grasp and understand my broken heart. I guess I need to understand them more. My niece let into me and said: they want to help me and I told her just love me. I don't discuss anything with family for they have moved on. I really hold to my faith and ask God to get me through each day so I can function and live a life worthy. I know my son understands my yearning to hear that voice or get that special hug. I was reading over comments and I pray for each of you. We as parents must support one another and just understand that we will have that void and hurt till we are reunite with our children.

Hugz Mary C. L.

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At 7:39am on January 8, 2011, Janice said…: Hello Mary,

you're welcome...anytime I can ease the pain for just one moment for someone else then I'm happy, we're all here for each other, if it's to offer words of comfort, encouragement or just to listen...it means so much to me to know that I'm not alone in this awful struggle of life without my baby and that you all are willing to listen to me as well....Mary stay strong and call on me anytime night/day.....hugs to you as well.

Janice

At 8:57am on January 3, 2011, Janice said…: Hello Mary, first let me say how sorry I am for the lost of your son. I lost my son Mark A.Ashley at the hands of another on March 30, 2009 and it's been a long hard road. I want to thank you for the words of encouragement, they mean a lot. I was just reading your profile and am sorry that your family feel you should be over your grief by know. I hear a lot of that from our friends on this site and as hurtful as it is that's what they believe. What some family and friends don't understand and will never understand is that we as parents who have lost a child/children will never get over grieving for them. They have not experience the heartache, pain, sorrow, misery, etc, we face each and every day of our lives without our precious babies. They don't understand we've lost apart of our very soul a void which can never be filled, this will never go away. So Mary, when you need to talk about your baby don't hesitate to call on me or anyone of your Legacy family members. May God bless you and give you the strength to get through each day. I will keep you in my heart and prayers. Mary, I want you to put your hands around yourself and squeeze real tight....you have just been hugged by me.

Love Janice,

At 2:00am on January 2, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: Hi Mary,I'm thankful to share with all that grace this site for the hearts that bear the pains we share are special for many would never breathe a word and suffer in silence but God has not left us alone to suffer but to lift each other up in every way possible and my job it is to send every word of joy to any rhat will listen your son looks so great as the strength of a young warrior and I know that is what you see him as not saw but see because he's still right in your heart and life may end but never does it vanish from our sight.I'm here a lot so just jot me a line and it won't be long and I'll answer.I love to hear the voice of the Lord in a person's heart it allows me to be very open.

At 12:17am on January 2, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: Hello Mary,I'm quite pleased with your exhortation and it gives me great joy to have a heart like yours to render such comfort in the midst of all the pain that we suffer even though your's must be great I am hoping that your heart benefits from just seeing the many hearts that hunger for the love of compassionate people such as yourself,we all have lost and there are days no matter what mantle you wear it wears you down but just know that we're here to hear your cry at any hour of the night or day so keep your heart up and your head level.The Preacher!!!

At 12:09am on January 2, 2011, Danielle L. Moore said…: Thank you. Huggs and Kisses!

At 12:09am on January 2, 2011, Danielle L. Moore said…: Thank you. Huggs and Kisses!

At 1:21am on March 2, 2010, Mary Christine Lancaster said…: Lisa,
Thank you but it is by God's grace I hope. I am weak and He is the strong one. I know in time we will all gather and be reunited with our children...Hugz Mary

At 4:07pm on March 1, 2010, Lisa said…: Mary, your faith in God is beautiful! I can see in your comments to others that he has blessed you with a beautiful heart and wonderful words of encouragement. You are a wonderful example of faith and love. God be with you always!

Lisa

At 6:16pm on February 26, 2010, GAIL Goi said…: Hi Mary I lost my son Sam 1 year ago Jan.15 th I still feel like my heart has been torn from me, I also read that book the Shack it helped me tremendously,It was a great book I also read 90 minutes in heaven another great book. these books have helped me a lot.

At 7:10pm on February 20, 2010, Jenny Ruselowski said…: thank you. i am trying to not let those bad thoughts rule my mind but sometimes it is hard. they just seem to take over. i know it was just an accident but i cant help but think i could have saved him if only i knew. I would never change the relationship i had with John but i do wish the end was better. i wish i could have told him how much i loved him. i know he knew but i still wish i could have told him. sometimes i do feel like i am losing my mind.