Mary Clough
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Steve Cain and Mary Clough are now friends
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DJ left a comment for Mary Clough
"Hey Mary... how are things going?"
Oct 6, 2016
Mary Clough and Sheri Dettman are now friends
Oct 2, 2016
Marsha H replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Carol ...  I am so very sorry you are having to go through this ugly adventure of grief.  My husband Ernie passed away 5 1/2 years ago from pancreatic cancer and he was my breath, my life and I still miss him, but I'm here to say…"
Sep 22, 2016
Charles E. Nelson replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Carol, I remember one year ago Sept 22 was the 5 month anniversary for me, and I sat on the porch that day watching the daylight fade as Larry and I had done so many times and wept so hard that I thought I would break something inside…"
Sep 22, 2016
Sheri Dettman replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary, There is a lot of info about GMA's online, none of it which will make you feel any better, believe me. The stats are not good and I knew that going in. Although, I thought I could save my Bill. I got him the best care, the best surgeon,…"
Sep 21, 2016
Mary Clough replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Oh Shari, I really am so very sorry I just read about your husband he had the same terrible wicked tumor that took my Bob away, his also started with weakness on his left side, left leg actually and we also went to the ER and he never came home…"
Sep 21, 2016
Mary Clough replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Sheri, iam so very sorry for your loss, Thankyou for info on the book I will look for it, like you I cry and cry, I miss my Bob so much, he was such a good man, I want him back so much, my life is empty without him, but like you I put one foot in…"
Sep 21, 2016
carol replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi I too lost my us and of 57 yrs can,t stand being alone night and day. But nothing seems to grab my attention, I am floundering today at 5pm was 5 months so I was upset today"
Sep 21, 2016
Sheri Dettman replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Mary, I just now posted my story which is a lot like yours. My Bill passed away on Aug. 25th and like you I am heartbroken and trying to make sense of it. A friend of mine whose husband passed away in June (he had been sick for 4 years so very…"
Sep 21, 2016
ROSE EGGERS replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. I loss my husband of 44 years in April of this year from a texting on meth driver while he was on a walk during his lunch hour. Your loss is so new, I know how much you are struggling as it is still so fresh for…"
Sep 14, 2016
Mary Clough replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Chuck, what a beautiful song, Thankyou so very very much, made me cry it was so lovely a song Bob would have loved, tomorrow will be a hard day, because of my aniversary and those poor people who lost their lives and their loved ones,I will never…"
Sep 10, 2016
Charles E. Nelson replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Mary, Tomorrow is such a world-wide day of remembrance and shared grieving for those lost in the senseless tragedy that occurred 15 years ago, that it may seem our individual personal days of remembrance  fall by the wayside. Please know…"
Sep 10, 2016
Marsha H replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Maureen ...  My deepest condolences on the loss of your husband and I wish with all my heart you didn't have to be here.  I just want to say that you came to a wonderful forum where all of us have gone through what you're…"
Sep 9, 2016
Deb S replied to Mary Clough's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Maureena, Please know you are not alone We have all been where you are today. Thank ou so much for posting. Please continue to share. It helps. I promise.  Debbie"
Sep 8, 2016

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At 10:05pm on October 6, 2016, DJ said…

Hey Mary... how are things going?

At 3:48pm on August 28, 2016, DJ said…

SIL = son in law.  I should say step-son in your case...

At 3:37pm on August 28, 2016, Deb S said…

Mary, I'd be conservative about the house if I was in our situation. Do you know any attorneys who can help you sift through the title issues?  Debbie

At 10:55pm on August 4, 2016, cindy j cox said…

Hi Mary. I'm so sorry for your loss . I lost my husband sept.24th 2012. Yes it has been a few years, but I still tear up when I talk about him. Yes it isn't as often, but it happened today a couple of times.It happens weekly. I don't even want to say it gets easier,I think it gets to be a part of life, that I will have the rest of my life. But that is okay, we had just celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary and he wanted us to renew our vows so we did.I have been with a man for a couple of years, but it isn't nothing like being with my husband. They are nothing alike, so don't think a new person will heal you, because it doesn't.My mom was diagnosed with cancer two months before my husband, he passed away 7 weeks to the day of diagnosis and my mother passed away in Oct.2014. I have a question for everybody. Does anyone that lost a spouse, feel like you don't belong? I have told people I feel like I don't belong anywhere.I go visit my kids or friends and I feel like I don't belong there, even with my boyfriend, I feel like I don't belong. I feel like a loss soul, even after 4 years.Does anybody else have these feelings? Sorry to go on and on. I wish all of you the best and God Bless you all.

At 9:58am on August 1, 2016, Charles E. Nelson said…

Hello Mary,

It was so nice that you thanked us all for welcoming you - of course you are welcome, and I feel confident that there will be many friends and sources of support and comfort for you here in our special family. As for myself, you have already helped me just by the kind things you have said to me and to others here... and this is why I feel so blessed and fortunate to have found this place. This is to me a group of people who heal themselves with every word and gesture offered to aid in the healing of someone else, or in it's most simple terms, we do unto others as we would have done unto us. Perhaps it might seem a little sentimental and even "corny", but I believe in this to my very core. It is the guiding principal which has carried me through many terrible storms throughout my life. This loss of my beloved Larry was by far the most catastrophic and damaging of them all, and it threatened to undo me, but when I found Legacy, and the outpouring of love and compassion I so needed, I vowed to return it whenever I could.

If you ever have trouble posting, or questions regarding comments or replies, someone here( no doubt much better at this than I) will be more than happy to walk you through the steps until you feel comfortable.

I very much like the photos you shared of Bob and your family - it is always nice to visualize the friends we are speaking with. Wishing you much peace today, dear friend, and I send a hug your way -

Love,

Chuck

At 7:36pm on July 27, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Mary

Me and Diane would have been Married 12 years next month it was second Marriage for both of us. December 21 went in for a procedure they had done before to open up one of the veins in her leg because of the pain she had a clotting disorder almost died 8 years ago from it. At the end of operation she started bleeding got into her lungs, they had to put her on a ventilator and was sedated. She developed a nasty infection had pneumonia twice. I stayed at the hospital with her, she was sedated the first 12 days, then they took her off sedation but still had to be on ventilator. She was there for six weeks and sent her home to local hospital to get off ventilator oh yeah her kidneys had shut down too. I was at hospital with her went for lunch got a call to come back she started bleeding from scar tissue of her tracheotomy was sedated again  she seemed to be okay went home too sleep, got a call in the middle of the night her heart had stopped for 29 minutes. I got there and family was there had to make the decision to turn off ventilator she died in my arms. I went into shock when all this happened and didn't acknowledge how bad she was. I have had the same thing that people stop calling after a while I do have a friend that calls and we go out weekly for supper. I find it's best to just let your feelings go whatever the may be crying yelling whatever. I can't look too far ahead or I get anxious and depressed, I just go through the motions with the idea if I do the right things eventually I will be able to find a little peace and happiness.     

At 4:30pm on July 27, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Mary

Sorry for your loss, Tomorrow it will be 6 months since my wife died. I believe I have made some progress from 7 weeks, small steps but steps forward. I have found it to be helpful to post on this site, I encourage you to do also. The people on here are wonderful, and have only one thing in mind to learn to live with this the grief. There are people that are new like you and some that has been 5 years since there spouse died. It's nice to be able to post on here with people that understand what you are going through. Whatever you are feeling nobody passes judgment on this site. Take care and hope to here from you soon.    

 
 
 

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