i am about to leave the house and actually go to the office and work which is a positive thing for me . saw you sending me a hug. thank you . i need hugs and that's not easy for me to say because i have the kind of personality that keeps too much inside hidden from everyone and everything ,
MARY ELLEN I will say a prayer for you today that prayer being you find some peace and i will pray for all of us that we find motivation not to quit and give up and make use of the gift of life we still have .
david
Mary Ellen, My sincere sympathy to you on your losses. Thank God, I do not know what it would be like to lose a child but I know that loosing my husband of 46 years is the hardest thing I have faced in my life. My heart is broken and my will to go on is broken too. I just pray for the day that I am with him again. I will remember you in my prayers and May God Bless You.
Mary Ellen, My sincere sympathy to you on your losses. Thank God, I do not know what it would be like to lose a child but I know that loosing my husband of 46 years is the hardest thing I have faced in my life. My heart is broken and my will to go on is broken too. I just pray for the day that I am with him again. I will remember you in my prayers and May God Bless You.
Dear Mary Ellen: I am so sorry for the pain you are in. To lose a son and then the love of your life in such a short time inbetween is horrific. There is so much grieving there; one a child of your heart, and then the partner you loved so and cared for so very much. My heart goes out to you and I know you are so new to grieving, but I urge you to seek your God, and look to Him for strength, patience and most of all, healing. You cannot go this alone. YOu need Him. And you must give voice to your grieving. You must cry, grieve, let the sorrow grab you whenever it can and let it out, all of it. It cannot stay within your heart; you loved two people so much; you will grieve so very much. Deep. Hard. Inside. Do it. And don't worry what people will say about your grieving. Your grief is unique; no one grieves the way you do. Let it take you; pray to God, get into a bevearement group if you can. The comfort of others who are sharing in a grief is beneficial. I pray God will bless you as you walk this walk. Sometimes the walk will be upright, other times it will be on your knees. Embrace it and take the time to mourn the loss of those you loved so authentically. I will pray for you for peace and healing. God bless you. Joan
Dear Mary Ellen: I am so sorry for the pain you are in. To lose a son and then the love of your life in such a short time inbetween is horrific. There is so much grieving there; one a child of your heart, and then the partner you loved so and cared for so very much. My heart goes out to you and I know you are so new to grieving, but I urge you to seek your God, and look to Him for strength, patience and most of all, healing. You cannot go this alone. YOu need Him. And you must give voice to your grieving. You must cry, grieve, let the sorrow grab you whenever it can and let it out, all of it. It cannot stay within your heart; you loved two people so much; you will grieve so very much. Deep. Hard. Inside. Do it. And don't worry what people will say about your grieving. Your grief is unique; no one grieves the way you do. Let it take you; pray to God, get into a bevearement group if you can. The comfort of others who are sharing in a grief is beneficial. I pray God will bless you as you walk this walk. Sometimes the walk will be upright, other times it will be on your knees. Embrace it and take the time to mourn the loss of those you loved so authentically. I will pray for you for peace and healing. God bless you. Joan
Thank you Mary Ellen. I am sorry to hear about your loss also and then to lose your husband has to be extremely hard to deal with on top of it! The one person you could share your true feelings with and be there to listen, cry, and hold you. I know what you mean when you say your heart feels so heavy. Mine feels like a ton weight is on it sometimes and I have a hard time catching my breath! I'm trying to take it one day at a time for my daughter and grandchildren. Also my fiancee of the past ten years. But sometimes its alot easier said than done. I just hope for their sake I can get back to or close to the old me somehow and someday. My prayers are with you also!! I tried adding you as a friend but it wouldn't let me send the request for some reason.
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Gog Bless you Mary . Hope your day is a good one
david