Melissa D Ward
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Posted on December 21, 2011 at 8:27pm 1 Comment

Thank you to everyone... just knowing Im not alone helps me... I just have to take it minute by minute right now... but at least hearing your stories lets me know Im not crazy... the baby is having moments of rage towards me and that is really tough... but minute by minute... much love and prayers to you all


Posted on December 19, 2011 at 8:55pm 5 Comments

I lost my husband on 12/7 suddenly he passed out driving to work and hit a bridge...., we have 5 children 3 in college 1 in the Navy and a 4 1/2 year old... Im at the point of giving up... I just cant do this without him... I'm trying to get through each day but I'm at the point of just not caring anymore... people keep telling me to be strong for the kids but I dont know how.... I cry all the time, I have to make myself do things, I cant sleep or eat and have really stopped caring... I dont…


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At 10:32am on December 20, 2011, MaggieP said…
Melissa, welcome to the club that nobody wants to join. I found this site 2 months after the death of my beloved husband. My first feeling as I read the posts of others was... I am not crazy, others feel the way I do. Right now, the past is devastating, and the unknown future is frightening. Try to live in the present moment right now. That is more than enough to handle. Virginia is right about social security. This is a difficult time for you. Taking c care of yourself is very important. Your child needs you more than ever. When you are walking around in this fog of grief, it is easy to not notice what is happening. When I driver my car, I had to be careful and aware. I almost ran a stoplight because I wasn't paying attention, and didn't even realize it... You are in pain....a part of your soul has been ripped out. Your whole life has been
turned upside down. This wounds takes some time to heal. Nobody knows what you are going through unless they have lost a spouse. They will avoid you because they don't know how to deal with it.
We all understand y you, and are dealing with the same kind of grief. Hugs to you as you travel down this road alone...with us.
Hugs to you. Take all of the hugs you can get! Maggie

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