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Meliza replied to brenda ortiz's discussion I'm so extremely SAD! in the group suicide's survivors"Hi Brenda , I'm so sorry for ur lost but I know exactly how you feel.. My boyfriend of 6 yrs and father of my 2 kids took his life seven months ago yesterday... We have a 2 yr old and a 3yrs going on 4 on nov third .. It kills me everytime my…"
Meliza replied to Allison Henry's discussion My brother jumped; this wasn't supposed to happen in the group suicide's survivors"My boyfriend also jumped ... He had a great job and two very small kids that loved him to pieces ,friends , family ... I ask myself everyday how he could do this to us , and what was so bad in his life that he just couldn't deal with.."
Meliza replied to Lindsey Doherty's discussion Lost in the group suicide's survivors"I'm so sorry for ur loss .. I know how u feel about it not getting any easier.. My boyfriend and father of 2 took his life 3months ago on father's day , and everyday my heart just breaks even more.. I'm going to meetings and…"
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"Marsha , ur story sounds like my, my boyfriend's name was Christopher to and it's been 3 months seen's he took his life.. We had 2 kids together a 2yr old and a 3yr old , and every day I'm look for answers to.. I miss him so much…"
Meliza replied to Bethany King's discussion How do i get through this. its been 67 days and 4 hours in the group suicide's survivors"I know what your saying about ending the pain and him being there ... Since my Bf Chris took his life I have felt that some way , but the craziest thing happened to me 3 weeks ago ... I was looking for his pass word to his e- maill every where in my…"
Meliza replied to Bethany King's discussion How do i get through this. its been 67 days and 4 hours in the group suicide's survivors"I know just how u feel , it's been 12 weeks since my boyfriend and father of 2 jumped off a bridge and chose to leave me and his kids.. His mom also blamed me because two weeks before he took his life we got in a fight and I called the cops on…"
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suicide's survivors
talk to other survivors of loved ones that took their life and learn how to cope with everyday life, how to carry on,try to understand and know why you feel the way you do.
Joyce M Rubacky left a comment for Meliza"Meliza, see if you can access this site. http://www.allianceofhope.org/blog_/2012/05/helping-grieving-children-how-do-i-tell-my-child-that-her-father-died-from-suicide.html"
Lisa - Rocky's Mom left a comment for Meliza"As a parent of a son that accidently overdosed in 2010, I feel great guilt of what else could I have done to save my son. I have many times thought of taking my life but I feel that if I did that I would only add to the horrible loss that my…"
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"today was an extremely hard day for me my son was asking about his dad and saying that he was at work ,so I took him to his dad's work to show him that he's not there anymore ...my son is only 3yrs old but I see it on his face that he…"
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"Sorry that I didn't read it before sending, I hope you can make sense of it.."
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"Thanks Joyce !! I can't believe it today was the first time I didn't feel all depressed when i woke up this morning... I just hope little by little he starts fading away in my head, I don't want to be in so much pain and It's not…"
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"Melissa I'm so sorry for your lost of ur brother !!!! All I can say is that I kw what it feels like when u loss someone to suicide and it feels like someone just killing u ... The hurt is so painful that no can understand until they have it…"
Meliza commented on Donna Padilla's group suicide's survivors"Hi Tammy , I just wanted to thank you for saying i was a blessing, that just made me feel good inside that someone thinks that about me ,because I don't feel like that at all ...today was a BAD day for me and was just thinking about you and…"
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- At 1:59pm on May 3, 2012, Joyce M Rubacky said…
Meliza, see if you can access this site. http://www.allianceofhope.org/blog_/2012/05/helping-grieving-children-how-do-i-tell-my-child-that-her-father-died-from-suicide.html
- At 3:23am on April 26, 2012, Lisa - Rocky's Mom said…
As a parent of a son that accidently overdosed in 2010, I feel great guilt of what else could I have done to save my son. I have many times thought of taking my life but I feel that if I did that I would only add to the horrible loss that my family is already feeling after losing my son. I, too. want to be with him so much. But we are here to stay for a reason. Whether for our living children, others in our community or because we still have much to learn, I don't know. But I do know that I want to be with my son one day on the other side. And for us to follow their same paths is just not an option. There are people who need us here. Even ones we have yet to meet up with. Give yourself time. It is a long process and not an easy one. Take each moment at a time and slowly you will be able to handle an hour. May you be blessed. I am so sorry for your loss.
- At 4:30pm on April 21, 2012,
debra l. johnson said… Iam So Very Sorry For The Loss Of Your Boy Friend, & Father of your 2 Kid's! I Dont Know What To Say! Iam Truly @ a Loss! So You Being Loss an Angry! Makes a whole lot of sense! The Only Thing I can Say is Being on this site Has Helped a Lot Of People! It Has helped me! The People on here Do Not Judge! So You can say anything you want & They will read an Pray With You & For You & you 2 kid's! I Lost My 2nd Husband, He was here 1 min. & gone the next! I tried to save him but I couldnt! he Had a Heart attack! He was a Police officer, & He told me some stories about people who Comitt Sucide! I Can Honestly say, I Dont Know why someone, would do It? & With 2 babies? I Miss My Husband So Very Much, But Iam also 57 yr.s old, I Lost My First Husband of 24 yr.s of marriage due to Cancer! I am So Very Sorry For your Loss! All I Can Say is The people on here will help! They will Read & Pray! but Never Judge! I Wish I could Say Could Say Some Magic Words To Help! And Take your Pain Away! But I can Read & Pray & Be a Friend To Help! I Have 3 daughter's who are married & Have Kid's That are as young as 5yr's old! & I Can try an help! I Know you feel all alone, as Iam also! But with 2 young children, I Know it is Hard! Beacuse they dont understand Why their Daddy is not coming home! As Iam Sure you feel that way also! But I Can Pray?......Debbie
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