Mel mcCoy
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Robin, sorry for the delay i know your hell my partner just killed herself on Dec 11 and I feel like screaming and crying I pray every day and try to understand why but I never get an answer but I ke…

Posted on December 27, 2012 at 7:31pm 3 Comments

Robin, sorry for the delay i know your hell my partner just killed herself on Dec 11 and I feel like screaming and crying I pray every day and try to understand why but I never get an answer but I keep praying and praying because I don't know wheat else to do Continue

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At 10:27pm on December 27, 2012, Theresa Sweaney said…

Dear Mel, I'm so very sorry for your loss.  It has been 18 mos since my son Charles died.  It is the hardest thing I have ever had to go through.  I understand how you feel that it will never get easier.  The pain is so terrible.  But truly, please know that whatever it feels like now, it is not always going to hurt this bad.  Hold this hope within you as you muddle through the next days, weeks, months.  Griefwork is just that--work--the hardest "work" you will ever do.  Just know that it is a process and is a function of time and hard work, but you will make it, and the sun will shine again.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

At 1:09am on December 25, 2012, Tamika said…
Hello Mel, I wish it gets better was never said to you as I wish the same for me. It does not get better. It only gets bearable. As time goes on with therapy and whatever else you find that helps you grieve. Each day becomes bearable. That's all. Not easier not better. Hold on to the memories I find they give me strength. You'd be surprised when you think about conversations you had and how true the meaning holds now. It's almost like they always knew you'd need these memories. There are truly dark days. But there are ok days too. Where a thought makes you smile. In those moments you feel so blessed to have even known them. These are the holidays all I ask of you is to take it easy, know you are not alone, and it's ok not be okay today. Give yourself time to grieve just don't get lost in it. Your friend and partner would never want you to live that tortured existence because of them. They are free life is for the living. When you feel yourself going to deep in do whatever has always given you happiness and pull yourself out. You are strong. I wish you well on your journey. Friend me if you'd like.
 
 
 

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