Dear Melody,

My heart really goes out to you. I want nothing but the best for you and your baby. Losing someone you love, is not something you can just wake up the next day and be okay about. No, you need time to heal. While you're healing, I want to bring you comfort. Main comfort, I have to share is that you will see your loving husband again. Whether, you are unfamiliar with the Bible or know about it, it offers promises to mankind that many people are not aware of. If you have your Bible, You'll see at Isaiah 26:19 states that "Thy dead shall live... and the earth shall cast forth the dead." How can we know that it would be right here on earth? Acts 24:15 states "there shall be a resurrection of the dead, both of the just and the unjust." Seeing that unjust ones will be resurrected, this can't be taking place in heaven. Lastly, Melody I want you to know that this is not God's plan;  for us to die and just be resurrected. He views it as an enemy and soon do away with it. 1 Cor. 15:26 states " The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death." I hope to hear from you soon. Thank you for reading.

I haven't been on here in a very long time but your post touched me so much that I had to reach out. You are suffering the unimaginable, don't think anyone could know the depth of that kind of pain unless they had been there. I had an uncle 22 yrs. old that was killed & he had 2 children & 1 on the way. I just met with that niece 2 wks. ago after many yrs. of her having left the family but now thirsting for knowledge of her father. What a blessing it was to see her. Myself I lost my husband just over 2 yrs. ago after almost 32 yrs. together, and right now it feels like yesterday because I just sold the house of 29 yrs. & it was like losing him all over again. Wish you were nearby & we could help each other, I'm in Canada. Perhaps we can talk on here, but I imagine soon you will be very busy. I think the only advice is one day at a time, one step at a time and I have been trying to find my Hope in the Lord each day. You & your little one will be in my prayers daily & at my Church & you can message me if you would like to talk. God Bless (((HUGS))) I also find comfort on facebook on a site Healing Hugs. Take good care of yourselves!