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Dealing with a sibling passing

Posted on January 12, 2009 at 10:03pm 1 Comment 0 Likes

My brother died today in his sleep and this is the worst even that has happened to me in my life am in the military and gratful it di dnot happen while i was deployed to iraq..I dont know how to deal with this am crying on minute and am okay the next...i have 2 more brother now i cant say i have 3 now i have to say 2 this is crazy this is not how life is suspoe to be he was only 24 just turned 24 less than a month ago..why couldent god take something less meaningful from me then my family,,i… Continue

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At 6:29pm on January 21, 2009, sandra said…: Sorry for your loss. I lost myhusband dec 5 ,2008 and my brother november 2007.

At 8:02pm on January 17, 2009, Mickoel said…: Thank ypou io feel some comfort in family support , but its when we all leave then what,its feel btter knowing that am not the only person in this wordl going through this but at times it feels like it

At 1:29pm on January 15, 2009, melissa murray said…: Mickoel, I also wanted to add, concider if you like. I came from a family of 6, me being the youngest. 3 brothers and 2 sisters. Even though 2 of my brothers passed, I still refer to as having 3 brothers because 2 reasons. One being that their always here with me in spirit but always in my thoughts and heart and 2 beacuse one day, I will be blessed to be in their presence again and as time passes on my whole family will be together in eternal life as well as everyone of god's children. I hope that helps you in some way.

At 12:23pm on January 15, 2009, melissa murray said…: Hello Mickoel, My name is Melissa. Like you I lost a brother, in fact I lost 2 brothers. My oldest, steve, passed away jan.4 2006 to a long battle with illness, and most recent June 6 2008, my other older brother sammy. His is concidered a accidential Homocide. I truly relate to your pain and suffering. I have lost many restless night,days and even no desire to eat, wake up in the morning or do any daily activities that on a normal day wouldn't give a second thought. I won't lie to you in saying time heals, because it dosen't. With me it's just a matter of becoming ammune to the pain. I feel like, rather I know that I just go through the motions of eveyday life. But, however, I do find some comfort in knowing that they both are there with each other watching over the rest of my family. I pray for you and your famliy. It does help keeping family and close friends around. I also can say, our family does find some solitude and peace with every birthday and the anniversary of the day they passed we get together and celebrate thier lives through memories, videos, pics, and we talk about the times and history we shared with them while they were here with us.God Bless you and your's through this trying time in your lives. God heals all wounds, Believe !!!!