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At 7:34pm on September 26, 2011, Forever Bobby's Mom...Deb said…: Nicky... I don't even know what to say, what a beautiful child Abby is. I am speechless... and my heart breaks for you....

Forever Bobby's mom... Deb

At 2:01pm on September 26, 2011, Tami said…: Nicky, I just read your story, I am so sorry that you have to be here in this group, none of us would ever think in our wilds dreams we would be here. I lost my 18 year old son on June 22 09, like you my life as I knew it ended that day too, I just hope that you can come here and vent and know that we have all lost so we understand the feelings that you are going through and we would never judge you for anything you say.... Please speak your mind, we are all here to help. Many hugs and love to your sweet Abbagail.

At 8:52pm on September 5, 2010, Ronda Johnston said…: Hello Nicky... My name is Ronda & I just read your story about your precious baby girl Abbagail. OMG IM SO SORRY TO HEAR WHAT HAPPEN TO HER!!! I cryed just knowing what your going through. I'm so sorry for your loss.... I too have lost a child a son name Sean, he was 25, It hasnt even been 3 months yet & the pain I'm going through is heartbreaking, My son Lil Sean died of an overdose, were still waiting on the atopsy report to find what he really took, the friend he was with said, they talked about getting high & they took some pills & drank , my son passed out & never woke up.... I'M IN SUCH SHOCK & MY HEART IS BREAKING!!! I know what u mean about meds ..... I'm still on sleeping meds to this day, I cant sleep at night, all day long every minute of the day my mind is on Sean.... I also have a daughter she is 21. Are you in a relationship with anyone? I just wondered if you have someone special in your life that can be with you in you times of sorrow? I understand you only had Abbagail right?? Wow I'm so sorry, it just breaks my heart to hear all these storys about children & so many of us parents who are in such pain. If you want to write me back I would love to hear from you & see how your doing. Bye for now. Ronda

At 8:52pm on September 5, 2010, Ronda Johnston said…: Hello Nicky... My name is Ronda & I just read your story about your precious baby girl Abbagail. OMG IM SO SORRY TO HEAR WHAT HAPPEN TO HER!!! I cryed just knowing what your going through. I'm so sorry for your loss.... I too have lost a child a son name Sean, he was 25, It hasnt even been 3 months yet & the pain I'm going through is heartbreaking, My son Lil Sean died of an overdose, were still waiting on the atopsy report to find what he really took, the friend he was with said, they talked about getting high & they took some pills & drank , my son passed out & never woke up.... I'M IN SUCH SHOCK & MY HEART IS BREAKING!!! I know what u mean about meds ..... I'm still on sleeping meds to this day, I cant sleep at night, all day long every minute of the day my mind is on Sean.... I also have a daughter she is 21. Are you in a relationship with anyone? I just wondered if you have someone special in your life that can be with you in you times of sorrow? I understand you only had Abbagail right?? Wow I'm so sorry, it just breaks my heart to hear all these storys about children & so many of us parents who are in such pain. If you want to write me back I would love to hear from you & see how your doing. Bye for now. Ronda

At 8:45am on April 25, 2010, Carrie L said…: Nicky sweetheart are you ok? I read your blog and was upset because you are not ok. You can talk to me . I am crying now also. I am so sorry about your beautiful daughter. She didn't deserve any of that. As we don't deserve to be without our dreams for the future. Please cry and find someone to talk to do you have your mom? You are much younger than me. Life is not fair when it deals us these cards. Please take care of yourself. I will try to help you if I can. Morgan will help your daughter in heaven he has a little sister who is here he would love to help her. He loves kids.. Carrie L

At 8:53pm on April 20, 2010, PEGGY said…: NICKY, I AM SO SORRY FOR ABIGAIL'S SHORT LIFE. MY DAUGHTER , FALLON, WAS KILLED BY SOMEONE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCOHOL AND DRUGS.
\ ALTHOUGH HE IS IN PRISON FOR MANSLAUGHTER THAT DOESN'T BRING HER BACK. SHE WAS 23 AND WOULD SOON BE 27. I AM ALREADY DREADING HER BIRTHDAY THIS YEAR. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU.

At 10:37am on April 9, 2010, Lisa Hobrook said…: Nicky,
I have no words that will help you only I want to let you know how much your story touched my broken heart. I am so very sorry, so very sorry.

This is hell we are living right now. Nothing less. Chad was 18 years old when he too died in a rollover accident on 9/4/09. He was my world. Chad is my second of four children all whom I love with all my heart. I didn't lose my only but I lost the love of my life. I could not have lost any of my kids; just couldn't. Yet here I am.

Chad was so special. His dad and I knew it and so did his brother and sisters. His personality was 1 in a million.

I like the fact that you want all to know that Abby had beautiful long red hair and gorgeaus huge blue eyes. Chad had beautiful blonde hair and also, like Abby, beautiful blue eyes.

As a mom of others, they look to me to lead the way. It is so hard. They are so missing their brother. My husband is so sad; as you said 7 months of all encompassing hell that no one understands.

I can't believe he's gone. Chad never wanted to disappoint me. He truly is the love of my life for his uncomplicated views, his love of life, his smile, his friendship, his respect, his loyalty to his family.

I am so sad that you lost your Abby. The picture of you and her is beautiful.

As our children share the same date, I will never forget Abby. Chad also was involved in a rollover accident; 5:45pm sunny start to Labor Day weekend, no drugs, no alcohol. Chad was smarter than that. So what happened? So many questions.

I hope that our kids find each other up there. Sounds like they would be quite a pair together.
If you want you can check out my son's web site
at www.chadarthurholbrook.com.

Lisa (Chad's Mom)

At 8:15pm on April 8, 2010, Nicky said…: My baby was eight years old when she went for a week end visit with her father and never came back. He is an alcoholic and didn't care enough to put my Abbagail in a seat belt. His blood alcohol level was .17. More than twice the legal limit. He rolled his truck, Abbu flew out and landed in an irrigation ditch. The truck rolled on top of her and pinned her there where she drowned.. This happened Sept 4 of 09. 7 months of hell. Abby was more than my daughter she was an extension of who I was. I am unable to sleep without meds or function through the day without meds. She was my olny child and i guess that makes it easier sometimes because I have no one to HAVE to be strong for. I have to go to court every few weeks and learn more details that break my heart all over again. There is no one who I can share this pain with , there is no way I can get her back. All I can do is swallow more pills and hope God wont make me wake up the next day. This is a horrible club to belong to. The parents who lost their babies club. I just want the world to know she had beautiful long red hair and gorgeous huge blue eyes. And so smart. Every report card was all A's. Never a behavior problem. Never judged other children. I guess she was just too good for this earth and I have to stay here until the day I'm supposed to die. How unfair