For those who had grown close to Pam...I wanted to send this to everyone. Her and my niece were on their way home from my house when they were side swiped and run off the road by a hit and run driver. Crime Stoppers has now jumped in offering a $5,000 REWARD!! I have added a link to a couple of the news articles as well as the Wanted Poster! Please repost and send to everyone you know! We have a description of the vehicle who took off so please repost and email this to anyone and everyone!

Thanks,
Aunt Laci

http://www.myfoxhouston.com/dpp/news/local/100226-double-fatal-hit-and-run

http://www.click2houston.com/news/22681348/detail.html

http://www.hcnonline.com/articles/2010/02/27/pasadena_citizen/news/022810_fatality.txt

http://www.khou.com/home/Pasadena-Hit-and-Run-85611267.html

I am cloey bryans aunt! It is so tragic but cloey and her nanny were laid to rest on February 20th! Nanny pam bryan was a great woman! Clo-bug loved her nanny! They will both be very missed! Love u pam and clo! Xoxo

Aunt Laci

I'm regretfully posting this message to inform those of you that kept in touch with Pam Bryan that she was in a tragic accident on Saturday, February 20, 2010. Both Pam & her grand-daughter Cloey passed away. All other details are not known at this time.

Hi Pam, A nice cruise sounds so great, I just pretend My Son is away, He went to Colorado last year and he had such a great time, so I sometimes think of him there.... It is all so unreal to me, and I know that it is like that for a lot of us parents.

Hugs to you
Tami

Hi Pam! And Tami and all. I feel like I know all of you as we share our hearts. I'd bet we share more with one another than we do our friends because they don't understand. I think your way of dealing is good. I've been told by counselors to talk to my son, tell him about my day etc. After all, he isn't forever gone, he is just in another place that I will get to join him in someday-eternity. There are times I can "feel" him close to me-especially with a certain song playing or etc. I treasure those fleeting moments. Always remember, as long as we are not in total denial all the time, then there is no right or wrong way to walk this journey. Once in awhile I actually find something funny & I know he is pleased that I found something to laugh at. We used to laugh together so much. Our losses are changing us. It is a change that we didn't want, but one that is happening in spite of our wishes. I am determined to be changed into a stronger, better person, more caring--that is what my Michael would want-so that is what I have as a goal. Maybe this idea will work for you & others--when you are ready. Just trust the Lord to bring you thru--even if its just for tday. Tomorrow, we will ask for HIS help again. Jill H.

Hi Pam, Thank you so much for thinking about me. I know how you feel when you say you just arent the same, I feel the same way. I was thinking last night how I get by each day, and then I thought, I pretend he is gone somewhere I know it is not healthy to think that way but that is the only way I know of to cope with it, Its hard when reality sets in.... Every night I say prayers for my Son and then I have to realize that he is gone, it breaks my heart over and over again, I know you know what I am talking about.
I started the page on here loss of a child, that is how I get comments, I just let everyone write on here what ever they are feeling, it helps me to read about others, to know that I am not going crazy with my own pain and grief, that my thoughts are not mine alone, that others feel the same way.
Thank you again for asking
and how are you doing? What do you do to cope? I know these are hard questions because each day is different.
HUGS to you and your Son Justin...
Oh and as far as I know, The add friends app on here isnt working.... I have never been able to add friends.
love Tami

Sorry for the delay in my comments. Yes the 2nd. year is so much harder because the reality of our loss is REAL! I don't know if it helps but I refer to Kenny as eternally 23! Thats how old he was when he took his last breath sleeping next to his son who was 6 1/2 months old.
Pam, don't hurt yourself with guilt. You are paralyzed in your loss and pain. I know because I have to be mindful of my own paralysis. Knowing I am paralyzing myself is a huge battle I struggle with.
Your Jason knows that you love him! He knew it when he was here and now in his afterlife he is even more sure of your never ending love as his MoMMA!

Your in my prayers, you and your family

I Miss Pam!! i was just thinking about you early this week, i wanted to know how you were doing, i found a tract that i though you would like to read, i could mail it too you if you'd like :) .. I just want you to find the comfort Jehovah has given me from the bible and many others who have experienced the loss of someone.


Sincerely-