"I just wanted to get on here and express my gratitude to you all. I honestly believe I have found a safe and loving site to help me deal with the loss of Basil. You guys are so loving and compassionate toward me and you listen. I…"
"Thank you Marsha, like I was telling Charles I hope I get to the point where I can give such wise advise on this site someday. Im just not at that point yet.
I am so thankful I found this site to be able to vent my emotions without being judged!!…"
"Charles, you are such a blessing to me right now. I hope I can get to the place you are to give such wise advice, I'm just not there right now. You are so right in saying that my ROCK that comforted me through all these tragic…"
"Thank you Marsha and Mary Jane, I just got So lost when my brother was killed. He was only 24 and stabbed to death 5 times at the time of the MKY Derby in Louisville, KY. They put him in a trunk of a car and drove around with him going…"
"I honestly do not know how to thank you all for your support! You welcome and have so many kind words for me.
Mary Jane, Sara, Charles, and you Marsha are the best, Thank God for ppl. like you that share their grief and have been where I am…"
"I'm having such a hard time. I'm so lost and don't know where to turn. I am so sick and can't eat or sleep. I met this man when I was only 25 and I'm 58 now. He was my rock and I don't know how to act without him.…"
Thank you for your kind words, and yes I too believe I have found a safe and good place to post my feelings and not be judged. Right now it is so Raw I am lost. This man was my life for 34 years and I can't imagine how I'm…"
Thank you so much for your kind words and you are right I think I have come to a safe and welcoming place. I have received nothing but kindness and compassion toward me. That is so comforting at this time when I am so lost. I can't…"
Sorry for your loss of your wife also. We were married anout the same amount of time...it was more then half my life. I know mine is still so fresh is the main reason I am having such a hard time not knowing what to do. Yes, he did…"
Thank you for your kind words and you are right everyone here is so supportive and do not judge how you feel or how you grieve. I ask of you to please hang on to see what life holds for you. I too am not afraid of dying and I…"
"Thank you so much for you condolences on my pain of my loss. I took your advice and joined the group of loss spouses. I have had some comments, but am not sure if I am anwering and thanking them for their advice. If you receive this comment, I will…"
Thank you so much for you condolences on my pain of my loss. I took your advice and joined the group of loss spouses. I have had some comments, but am not sure if I am anwering and thanking them for their advice. If you receive this comment, I will know this is how I respond to othets. Again, Barbara...thank you so much for your advice. I've received some great advice and No judgement.
Patricia please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of the love of your life!
I'm at loss of a child as my only child Joe was taken by a drunk driver Easter April 2010.
I saw your post on latest conversations. If you haven't joined Loss of a Spouse may I suggest that you join it. There will be people that can identify with you. A loss no matter who it may be is difficult and we are all different and handle the griving process differently. Try to take care of yoruself as best as you can by eating and getting rest. Your family and friends will be there for a short time. But this is a place to come and connect with people that understand.