Sara Murphy
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Chuck, You are one of the familiar names it's good to see again. Missed you and your storytelling. I'm glad you were able to install the memorial plaque for Larry. I can't see the photo but it may be because I'm at work and…"
Apr 4
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I echo everyone's sentiment that I wish we all lived close enough to get together in person. I was drowning in grief when I found Legacy. My friends here have helped me more than I could ever say."
Apr 4
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb...It's nice to see your post. I hope you're doing as well. I haven't posted much lately either, partly because work is crazy and partly because I feel like I've healed as much as I'm going to and don't want to bring…"
Mar 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Marsha...I hope you're feeling a bit better. Knock on wood I haven't had the flu but it was going around work and I did my best to keep to myself and use lots of purell. I'm sorry your nephew is moving further away. It's hard…"
Mar 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Diane, I had actually been thinking about posting the same question....where is everyone? Thanks for beating me to it. This week has been crazy at work. My mind is mush by the time I get home. I too miss reading everyone's comments. Gives me…"
Mar 22
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....I haven't been on in about a week.  I'm sorry I missed the 3rd anniversary of Bob's passing.  You and I are on a similar timeline as Ken's 3 year anniversary was in January.  It's hard to believe…"
Mar 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Debbie....I'm so sorry for your loss but glad you found our group.  Finding Legacy for me saved my sanity.  These angels are the only people who can understand this pain.  Please don't hesitate to post because you're…"
Feb 17
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Pete....I feel similar to you in both how alone I feel and how I feel about my possessions.  It also took me until this past July, 2 1/2 years after Ken passed, to name someone as an emergency contact and I only did so because I ended up…"
Feb 17
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Valentine's Day...one of those holidays that feels like a punch in the gut. Ken and I never lived by the calendar so we were never big on Valentine's Day. Just because the calendar says Feb 14 is the day to express your love, doesn't…"
Feb 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Pete....i'm sorry you've been ill and will be praying for your recovery.   I'm glad you're still keeping tabs on us, even if it's from the shadows. Sara"
Feb 10
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I too thank you Pete for the info and have blocked her. How have you been? Haven't heard from you in a while so I'm glad to see you on my screen."
Feb 7
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....I too believe your daughter is just now grieving the loss of her father. Not only was she trying to be strong for you, but with her living in a different state, it was probably easy to pretend he wasn't gone. Moving and having to…"
Feb 6
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane.....I listened to your daughter's song.  It was actually quite catchy and yes, I could relate."
Feb 5
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"How do we get Brianna's access to our group revoked? "
Feb 5
Sara Murphy replied to Bonny Jones's discussion Grief so great it hurts in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Bonny......I'm sorry for the loss that brought you to us but happy you found us as support is so important.  Since the loss of a spouse is unlike any other loss, it helps to share with others who have personal experience.  I say this…"
Jan 17
Sara Murphy replied to Tim's Mom, Vickie's discussion Navigating Widow-hood in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Vickie....I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband.  Today, Jan 13th is the 3 year anniversary since I lost my husband Ken.  He was only 52 years old and we were married for almost 27 years.  We're certainly too young to be…"
Jan 13

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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