Sara Murphy
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chuck...I'm proud of you making it to the 5 yr mark.  That was no easy feat especially while suffering a devastating loss.  Larry is proud of your accomplishment and continues to watch over you.  I agree with you that since…"
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks for the tip about the shoes Deb.  I hadn't thought about my shoes"
Mar 30
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks Marsha. I'm actually not that concerned. It's been 9 or 10 days since we were both in the office on the same day. A trip to the grocery store is more concerning than the office. I haven't been in the physical presence of family…"
Mar 30
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Just found out today there's a confirmed case in my office.  We weren't told who the person is but HR has contacted those that have been in contact with that person and I'm happy to say HR hasn't contacted me. …"
Mar 29
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Great news Deb.  I'm happy to hear this"
Mar 21
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sending prayers to you and your family Deb. Wishing your daughter a speedy recovery and hope the tests come back negative."
Mar 20
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb.....I hope you are and remain healthy.  To be honest, I was concerned when you mentioned you were going to this convention but I also believe our country has never been cleaner than it is right now so you'll probably be…"
Mar 16
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I'm social distancing in that I won't go to a restaurant and will be canceling my plans for this coming Friday night.  I'm supposed to go out with a group of people to a disco night at a local club,  I don't even like…"
Mar 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi All....I want to check in and make sure you're all safe and healthy.  Not sure about your areas but Mass is pretty much shutting everything down.  I imagine it's the same across the country. "
Mar 13
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The weather's been nice here in Mass as well. 50's and 60's this week which is unusual. I myself don't enjoy doing yardwork but I do like to be outside and have been able to begin walking at lunch and on weekends. Deb....enjoy…"
Mar 10
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane...I'm reading the posts from the past week. I'm sorry for all the anger that's presenting now but am glad you came here to scream. It helps to let it out especially to people who understand. You mentioned the few minutes the…"
Mar 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Love never dies.....have truer words ever been spoken? I'm not sure I would have made it this far if I for one second thought Ken were not still with me. Feeling his presence and having him come through for me when I need him keeps me…"
Feb 21
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi everyone....I'm reading the posts about the FB site and now it makes sense.  I had forgotten about that site and began wondering why there are very few, if any new members lately.  I much prefer our smaller group knowing our…"
Feb 16
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve....I agree with Mary Jane and Marsha.  I'd like to think Mark's family does care and regrets the way they treated him.  I love that Mark sent you a feather...tangible evidence that he is near. "
Jan 20
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha....Belated Happy Birthday! I hope you were able to go out with your girlfriends and have a couple laughs."
Jan 13
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The universe is toying with me now. Not only did I have a meeting moved to Monday, but now have to attend a wake on Monday for a co-worker who lost her mother yesterday. I really will have to put the date out of my mind to get through that one."
Jan 10

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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