Sara Murphy
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  • Tewksbury, MA
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks Trina.  Ken and I were very happy together and had an easy relationship.  His birthday is actually the 23rd, but yes he would have been 56 I hope you made it through your birthday ok.  You're right, it's really not…"
Thursday
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks Todd.  I had to delete it for a second to correct a spelling error. How are you Todd?  It's great to hear from you.  I actually think about you from time to time and hope you're doing well"
Wednesday
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I was cleaning out some old files and came across this picture in an envelope.  This is why you never throw an envelope away without looking inside first.  Hope the pic comes through.  I can't seem to get it right side up"
Wednesday
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I was cleaning out some old files and came across this picture in an envelope.  This is why you never throw an envelope away with looking inside first.  Hope the pic comes through.  I can't seem to get it right side…"
Wednesday
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"HI Everyone...thought I'd check in and see how you're all doing. Deb....how's your new job now? Is it as tiring as your first week?"
Nov 5
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"So Ken's birthday was yesterday and I'm still wondering if it ever gets easier. He should be 56. I should have made a special dinner. I can't believe I just used the phrase "past few years" because to me it's like no…"
Oct 24
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb....that's great that you went back to work. That interaction is vital to our sanity IMO. I know it's what helped me get through these past few years. Good luck with your new adventure!"
Oct 24
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Oh Chuck....thanks for the laugh. That was funny, I only wish I could have been there to see it all first hand. I hope with all of these labs and check-ups, the result is all good Tell "Ricky" I say hello Love, Sara"
Oct 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb....I too believe that was Greg letting you know he was there. It's nice that he hung out with you for a bit."
Sep 30
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha....I understand. I don't know where I fit in anymore either. I feel like I have an existence but not a life and I'm just a visitor in other people's lives. I have to work on changing that. Your girlfriend is lucky to have you.…"
Sep 26
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi All......I think it's been about a month since I was last able to visit and check in with everyone.  In that time, I must have automatically been logged out because I had to find my password and now my profile picture is not…"
Sep 23
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Everyone....Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I do check in and read your posts but I've been behind lately and by the time I'm reading them, the conversations have moved on so I don't post. Mary Jane....I'm glad…"
Aug 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....Glad you made it safely to CA. Once you get your furniture in and everything set up, it'll start to feel like home. It sounds like Rudy likes it there."
Jul 9
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb....I love Greg's pond.  I'm glad it wasn't destroyed by the flood."
Jul 4
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Happy Anniversary Chuck and Steve. I'm glad you found each other ♥"
Jul 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....thinking of you today as you make your way to California. It may be a scary journey but I believe good things are waiting for you in CA including Bob who will never leave your side. Please let us know how you're doing once you and…"
Jul 2

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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