Hello Shell...I just wanted to let you know that grieving is a natural reaction when someone we love dies. It is completely normal and knowing that can help you deal with it. I too lost my Dad to tonsil cancer on August 27, 2008 at the tender age of 59. I think of him often and I await the day when the promise made at John 5:28, 29 is fulfilled. It reads, "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment." I watched my Dad suffer for months and even though I wish he could be here it is also comforting to know that he is asleep, waiting for Jesus to say...come out.
HI shell...good day..i just lost my father last sept 17..he died in a lung cancer..i know it really hurts to lose someone dear to our heart but we have to accept the reality that our father's time has come to an end,,i know it hurts but we cant pleased God for miracle...now tears are still flowing in our EYES coz it's still a month since my dad's death but i just put in mind that my father is lucky that hes now in a problem free world where there is no pain...im sure we will all meet again ...in time....i hope this helps you and i wish to have a friendship in you,,,buddy were riding in the same boat..if u need a friend IM HERE....TC