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It doesn't get better, only different....

Posted on April 5, 2011 at 10:57pm 2 Comments

The old saying "It gets better with time"....is an understatement. It should say, "It doesn't get better with time, the heartache gets different.". And that's only because it get's tired of the constant pain. The constant guilt, the constant wondering what would they be doing today? I lost 2 children to suicide, and one from a drug overdose.......I think I am going crazy sometimes. Then I lost my husband, my soul companion to a car accident. I miss them all in different ways, but it all…

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At 7:25am on July 2, 2012, Jerry said…
Reading what you have been through makes me wonder why some people have to have so much tragedy in their lives. I lost my wife 2 1/2 years ago and my Mom one year later . I am having issues about dating also. I met a nice lady, a widow of 3 years. We get along good, but seem to be in different stages of grief. She is ready to move on,and has even said she is filling in love with me. I am not ready to fall in love, and not sure I will ever be.
At 9:34pm on May 17, 2011, david said…

sherilyn   i have no words or wisdom to say .i have no answers. i have nothing to offer than may comfort you except this .

     i lost my wife in car accident 4/5/10.  she was my life . i never got to say goodbye . i will always love her .......   

          today i am in a better place . i got better by moving forward trying to start a new life in a different place than where i use to live. i ask my wife to visit me , she did( in a dream) i ask god to help me. i got answered prayer within hours. 

          i sought help. i attended groups with people in same boat as us.

things got better because i counted blessings and ignored the issues that were not blessings,

 

best of luck to you..

 

david 

At 2:58pm on September 14, 2010, Susan Jason's Mom said…
My daughter, Andrea, is having a hard time as we all are with his death. He passed away at her house and she will forever have that memory. I have 2 daughters and a son left.

I read what happened to Kelly. That is so sad. People are just cruel. I don't know how you go on. You have amazing strength. I also saw a picture of Cleve. He was a handsome young man.
At 12:35pm on September 14, 2010, Susan Jason's Mom said…
Jason was 25. He would be 26 Oct. 18th. That is not a day I'm looking forward to this year.

You lost 3 children...I can't imagine your pain. My heart just aches for you.
 
 
 

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