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At 4:01pm on January 8, 2011, ghall26 said…

and to top that off----LOL!!

I always told my grandpa after learning about how CRUEL my husband's family is-------------that my mom & I will never see the rest of her family after he dies and he always told me--"Nah--your wrong!!"

well......I WAS RIGHT!!

We haven't seen ANYONE since his funeral a year ago----except for my mom's brother who is like 4 yrs. younger than her, and his wife--we've seen once!!

Mom and I are all alone now!!

At 3:50pm on January 8, 2011, ghall26 said…

Yes I know----I never thought in a million years that this would be done to me!!

But as my husband told me many years ago--you know who your true family and friends are after something like this happends--the ones that will stand with you through ANYTHING!!


I have learned a very hard lesson-----and just a note, I was also taking care of my 93 yr. old grandpa for the past 5 1/2 yrs too and exactly 2 months after my husband dies--he died--(March 15, 2011)

neeless to say----

I HATE 2010!!!!!!!!!!

At 11:21am on January 8, 2011, ghall26 said…

I know what ya mean there too!!.....

My Husband also died from cancer, he only knew for 4 days that he even had it and I wasn't told till a day after he died and in a voicemail at that!!


Here's my story so you know what I'm talking about------

I find out 28 years later how cruel his family is!!!!-----------


I don't know where to start-- my husband of 28 yrs. died of cancer Jan. 22, 2010--
He was my soul mate, my rock, my life, my everything!!
He was in another state helping his dad when he died, I found out by voice-mail!!
I drove up there by myself, (Never did that before--my husband always drove!!)
and get there and was told I came for no reason, to go home, I wasn't allowed to see him before he was cremated, I was told if I showed up to the funeral, and burial of his ashes, I would be arrested, I wasn't even mentioned in the obituary!!

we NEVER went a day in 28 yrs, without talking on the phone, e-mailing when he wasn't here, or being with each other in person!! Every day I would check my e-mail and have at least 10 e-mails from him, when he was out of town, wishing me a great day and how much he loves & misses me--now-----NOTHING!!

Since I was his wife--I requested a copy of his death certificate and it' lists----
Esophageal cancer, he only knew he had it for 4 days then he got cardiogenic shock for 12 hrs and died, his family won't talk to me so I don't know if anyone was with him when he died, or did he die alone, did he suffer, (GOD I PRAY he didn't!!) But these are things I NEED to know!!
My Brother & Mom tell me I need to just move on and "Suck It Up" that they understand why I feel this way but that I can't live the rest of my life like this!!
I want to be with him sooooooooooo BAD!!
At 12:03am on January 8, 2011, ghall26 said…

I so feel your pain, I Lost my Love, My Life & My Soul of 28 wonderful years on Jan. 22, 2010, so it's coming up on the 1 year anniversary and it still feels like yesterday-----My Life is gone with him I Miss & Love him so much it drives me crazy sometimes, and it's sooooo HARD to get through each day not talking to him, we never went more than 5 minutes without talking to each other now------it's been  12 months, 50 weeks,  350 days, 8,423 hours,

505,430 minutes, 30,325,832 seconds, and counting since he's been gone!!

I'm here if you need to talk, I don't have anyone to talk to since my baby's gone, my brother and mom just keep telling me to "Suck-It-Up!!" They just don't understand, and it leaves me in a very lonely place!!

GOD Be with you!!

Your new friend Geni  (ghall26)

At 11:03am on September 17, 2010, Sherry Biggs said…
I think that the first four months after my husband,Robert, died, that I was in SHOCK. Then the REALITY hit me with a force I've never known. I feel like I am in "someone else's" body living that "someone else's" life!! And I don't have a clue what is going on!!! I want to do what Robert wanted me to do. He told me that I could do this! That I had to do this!! I knew I could not do anything without him!! I want to live in a way that he would want and be proud of me. I don't have the energy no wisdom to do this. Family and friends can

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