Stacey R.
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At 12:06am on November 13, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
when I get down your like a breath of fresh air. You can halp a lot of people on this site. I'll keep you updated. Thank God for you Stacey.
At 4:37pm on November 3, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
Yesterday a lady named Beth who knew Kyle called and wanted to know if Alyssa would like to go to the cematry. This was the first time she got to see where Kyle was buried. She said yes, i guess it was pretty hard on her. She wrote him a letter and was trying to burn the letter and it wouldn't catch fired. She said she felt him standing over her shoulder. I ask her why she was trying to burn the letter and she said so he could read it. Then at work the other night she was standing in the front of the freezer. Which is really cold, then she felt an arm go aroung her, just like Klye used to put his arm around her. She said it was so warm. Then today she went to the cematry and was sitting there talking to him. She had two jackets on, both the hoods pulled up. Then out of the blue something pulled the hood down from behind her. Not both jackets, just the outer one. My sister said that he's in limbo. Alyssa said she feels him at different times. I don't know what to think. But going to the cematry has help her a lot. I can see a smile on her face every now and then. As I wrote a note to the minister at our church. I told him about what had happened to Alyssa. He said that he was going to call her. He said when he was in his teens, he tried different drugs.But the thing that he thought about the most was suicide. Of course he is now someone that Alyssa looks up to. I hope your day is going alright. If not just send me a note.I love talking to you. Vicki
At 4:37pm on November 3, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
Yesterday a lady named Beth who knew Kyle called and wanted to know if Alyssa would like to go to the cematry. This was the first time she got to see where Kyle was buried. She said yes, i guess it was pretty hard on her. She wrote him a letter and was trying to burn the letter and it wouldn't catch fired. She said she felt him standing over her shoulder. I ask her why she was trying to burn the letter and she said so he could read it. Then at work the other night she was standing in the front of the freezer. Which is really cold, then she felt an arm go aroung her, just like Klye used to put his arm around her. She said it was so warm. Then today she went to the cematry and was sitting there talking to him. She had two jackets on, both the hoods pulled up. Then out of the blue something pulled the hood down from behind her. Not both jackets, just the outer one. My sister said that he's in limbo. Alyssa said she feels him at different times. I don't know what to think. But going to the cematry has help her a lot. I can see a smile on her face every now and then. As I wrote a note to the minister at our church. I told him about what had happened to Alyssa. He said that he was going to call her. He said when he was in his teens, he tried different drugs.But the thing that he thought about the most was suicide. Of course he is now someone that Alyssa looks up to. I hope your day is going alright. If not just send me a note.I love talking to you. Vicki
At 12:28am on October 26, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
I haven't been on here for awhile. My daughter is back home.She wanted to go drug free.So she pick 10/10/10 as her starting date. She has her days were she's weepy. Most the time she won't talk about it. But I guess at church, she just breaks down and the tears just roll down her checks.Of course she has family around her.They just hold her and let her cry. I know she's asking god to help her get thru this ordeal. She's also asking god to let Klye know that she still loves him. I feel so sorry for Kyle's family, this has to be so hard on them. I don't know what I would do if I were in their shoes. Please god show us the way.
At 12:28am on October 26, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
I haven't been on here for awhile. My daughter is back home.She wanted to go drug free.So she pick 10/10/10 as her starting date. She has her days were she's weepy. Most the time she won't talk about it. But I guess at church, she just breaks down and the tears just roll down her checks.Of course she has family around her.They just hold her and let her cry. I know she's asking god to help her get thru this ordeal. She's also asking god to let Klye know that she still loves him. I feel so sorry for Kyle's family, this has to be so hard on them. I don't know what I would do if I were in their shoes. Please god show us the way.
At 8:34pm on August 28, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
I always like to getting commets from you. Thank you for praying for my daughter. I haven't heard from her. I'm getting really depressed. I miss her but I want her to be clean from drugs. But she's eighteen, she knows right from wrong. But right now she's not thinking right. I'm already taking prozac but the depression I'm having is from worring about her. I find myself just wanted to be left alone. But tomorrow is anotherday.
At 8:34pm on August 28, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
I always like to getting commets from you. Thank you for praying for my daughter. I haven't heard from her. I'm getting really depressed. I miss her but I want her to be clean from drugs. But she's eighteen, she knows right from wrong. But right now she's not thinking right. I'm already taking prozac but the depression I'm having is from worring about her. I find myself just wanted to be left alone. But tomorrow is anotherday.
At 6:41pm on August 27, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
Things aren't to good here. Alyssa has gone back to her drug friends.She is always saying, I just don't care any more. I don't care what happens to me. I have made her five different doctors appointments. She will not go to them. One day I got her to talk to a therpist. They talked for about an hout. The therpist said ( I don't know what to say to you.) Can you believe that?
She got put in jail about two weeks ago, shop lifting. Which is not like her. We had to bail her out of jail. So we took her car away from her till she goes to court. This is going to cost $350.00 and she thinks money grows on trees. For now she's living at my aunts house. She is saleing her medicine to get money. We went out of town last weekend and we told her to stay at aunt doris's. I had the neighbor lady watch the house. At about one thirdy she hears kids in our drive way. Then was about six or seven. She was going to have a party until the neighbor caught her on the way in the house. She lies all the time. She has been so disresceptfull to her dad and I. We finally said Alyssa you have to go. We have tried to help you and you wouldn't go get help. We can no longer let you live here if your doing drugs and hanging out with your old drug friends. She said fine (d rather be with them, than be with you.) I haven't heard from her for a week now. But I know she's alright if she is staying with my aunt. I don't know what to do. She's eighteen and we can't make her go to treatment or grief support group. I 'm so worried about her. I can't eat and I'm a nervous reck. I keep praying. I so afraid that she's going to get messed up with the wrong people or get hurt in a drug deal gone bad. Please pray for my daughter.m I love her so much, she's my world.
At 6:41pm on August 27, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
Things aren't to good here. Alyssa has gone back to her drug friends.She is always saying, I just don't care any more. I don't care what happens to me. I have made her five different doctors appointments. She will not go to them. One day I got her to talk to a therpist. They talked for about an hout. The therpist said ( I don't know what to say to you.) Can you believe that?
She got put in jail about two weeks ago, shop lifting. Which is not like her. We had to bail her out of jail. So we took her car away from her till she goes to court. This is going to cost $350.00 and she thinks money grows on trees. For now she's living at my aunts house. She is saleing her medicine to get money. We went out of town last weekend and we told her to stay at aunt doris's. I had the neighbor lady watch the house. At about one thirdy she hears kids in our drive way. Then was about six or seven. She was going to have a party until the neighbor caught her on the way in the house. She lies all the time. She has been so disresceptfull to her dad and I. We finally said Alyssa you have to go. We have tried to help you and you wouldn't go get help. We can no longer let you live here if your doing drugs and hanging out with your old drug friends. She said fine (d rather be with them, than be with you.) I haven't heard from her for a week now. But I know she's alright if she is staying with my aunt. I don't know what to do. She's eighteen and we can't make her go to treatment or grief support group. I 'm so worried about her. I can't eat and I'm a nervous reck. I keep praying. I so afraid that she's going to get messed up with the wrong people or get hurt in a drug deal gone bad. Please pray for my daughter.m I love her so much, she's my world.
At 12:16am on August 19, 2010, Vicki said…
Stacey,
I haven't talked to you in awhile. My daughter is still not doing good. She holds everything inside. She doesn't cry much at least in front of anyone. She told me she cries almost every night before she falls to sleep. She isn't talking about him either. When I mention his name she goes. I don't want to tlk about it. Kyle killed himself and left me. He left me with a lot of pain and guilt. He left me to handle this all be myself. So right now she's angery with him. I make her counselors appointments and Dr.'s appointments but she won't go. She did talk to one lady ,she was a psychologest. The lady told Alyssa "well I don't know what to do with you. I take her to a psychologest and she tells her that she doesn't know what to do. I should write her a thank you note. I know my daughter is really really depressed. I'm going to go to her next Dr.s appointment with her. My daughter is one that wants to handle things her way but right now she doesn't have an ideal of what to do. I'm going to try every thing that I can think of to help her. She is my baby girl at 18 and I won't give up on her. I love her so much. She has not been right since the day he took his life. I tell her it takes time. Maybe a year or two, everyone is different.She's mad at god for taking kyle and not giving him the strenght to make a better decission.
 
 
 

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