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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elizabeth C ...  I'm glad you enjoyed the link.  I'm happy to hear you are taking your daughter to Disneyland.  Take one book if need be, but more than ever just go and have some fun with your daughter and create some…"
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Elizabeth C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"proven stress reducer #7 Pollyanna Power ! For every one thing that goes wrong, there are probably 10, 50 or 100 blessings. Count them! True. We are alive on this planet, a gift from God, it is a miracle. And we only know things that go wrong not…"
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Elizabeth C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Good link Marsha, thank you. I am preparing on a road trip to Dineyland with my daughter, my husband and I were going to take her there for her first trip, so I will bring some books like the ones mentioned on that link, don't know if I will…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Steve ...  It seems God works in mysterious ways by taking me to that particular link and I can't take all the credit because of that.  I am so thankful you found the prayer and I enjoyed your story of saying that prayer…"
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Steve commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha H, My alarm went off this morning as usual, followed by an alert from my gmail account, it was your link that you shared with all of us. I followed the link and found a prayer that I had prayed so long ago when I was 14 and still going to…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elizabeth C ...  Please don't rush your grief and push it aside because it will catch up to you sooner or later.  Grieving is a necessity of life.  Cry when you need to, talk to someone, get grief counseling and if you really are…"
Wednesday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elizabeth C ...  I was raised in Vancouver, British Columbia, but now live out in the burbs about 27 miles away.  We really aren't that far apart and our weather patterns are very similar. I understand why you would want snow, rain or…"
Wednesday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"TO ALL ...  I thought this link would be helpful to all of us: http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/starting-over-again-60s-husband-died/"
Wednesday
Elizabeth C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, Where in Canada are you? I'm near Seattle, Washington state. The weather here has been so warm all winter and a sunny warm early spring. It's nice but emotionally I feel like it should be stormy, pouring rain and strong winds.…"
Apr 15
Elizabeth C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I think this loss is so big I just kind of skip ahead, like I can't really deal with this so I will just give in accept it and jump ahead. It's a hard thing to explain, it's like I can have a fit over something small but when…"
Apr 15
Elizabeth C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Renae, I know the heart break to a child loosing their parent,I'm lost my Mom and we were very valise when she was 53 and I was 14. It gave me quite a shock to just have started high school and loose my Mom suddenly. Then to think that was all…"
Apr 15
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elizabeth C ...  Tall is in girl!  It's not uncommon at all to see tall women and they are most attractive.  You certainly have had a lot happen in your life which has obviously made you stronger.  I believe God knows from…"
Apr 14
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elizabeth C  ...  Yes, all of us should spoil ourselves every so often and not feel one bit guilty.  I try to do the same as you and fill in my days as best I can.  I'm proud of you for trying your best getting through your…"
Apr 14
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Rolland ...  I totally agree with you.  We weren't given a book of instructions as to how to deal with this heart-rendering grief and how long it will last.  I hope your day perks up."
Apr 14
Rolland Wood commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I wouldn't wish the terrible despair that accompanies the loss of one's soul mate on my worst enemy."
Apr 14

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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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