I feel your pain I lost my Son Andy Dec. 10, 2010 and I thought my world was coming to an end and your right God never makes mistakes and I trust in him and that's what has kept me going my faith in God............... I hope you find peace........................

I feel your pain . feel free to contact me if you ever just need another mother who's lost a child to murder..to just listen to you talk about your baby. my e-mail is MAGVTreasurecoast@yahoo.com or in memory of Tamiqa Taylor facebook. Your son is such a handsome young man. please take care of your health, you still have a purpose here.

I feel your pain . feel free to contact me if you ever just need another mother who's lost a child to murder..to just listen to you talk about your baby. my e-mail is MAGVTreasurecoast@yahoo.com or in memory of Tamiqa Taylor facebook. Your son is such a handsome young man. please take care of your health, you still have a purpose here.

Theresa when I saw you message about your son I walked around my home and jump out of my body and jump into your body so that I can feel what your tragedy. Now I have not lost a Son and God forbid I hope that I am gone so that I wont have to deal with it, but If I am still here I will definitely feel what you feel at this moment in your life. I want to say this a death is a death and their are different feeling as to how you feel. I lost my husband of 36yrs he passed in my hands Feb 10th, 2010 and I tell you I have been crying everyday or every-other day I can't let him go and I don't want to let him go. he passed of Diabetes he was 60yrs old his birthday was Feb 14 which made him 61yrs. when I mostly cry is when I am eating because we ate together everyday, or when I am in bed we laid close to each-other and a lot more things that make me cry. I have had people to tell me to move on with your life and I found myself being angry, this was my first time loosing a husband and how can you tell me to get on with my life, so I am saying to you do what you need to do to morn for your son it is okay if you want to talk to him talk out loud to him he is there he see's you everyday and I know that he dose not want you to make yourself sick about him, he is safe and at home in the loving arms of our God just like my Karl is not in any pain he is home safe. for me Theresa it will be a wonderful thing because when I go I will be put on top of my Karl everything has been arranged and I know that don't make you feel better. If you believe in God and trust in him he will not let you down your son was in the wrong place at the wrong time and we just have to say it was his time to go. we have control of our childrens when they are babies but when they go on with there life we don't know what they do we love them the same but my point is it could have been you or me in the wrong place at the wrong time it just so happen that Jarian was in the wrong place. Jarian is absent from the body his sprits will live on just like my Karl. I am sorry that you have had a heart attack please take care of yourself I am here in Minnesota I have family but they don't feel what I feel for my Karl they went back to there lives as those nothing had happen and thats the way life is until that person looses someone they love that person will never know how you feel and with that message my God Bless you and I will pray for you stay in touch with me. I am ok as I talk to you meaning I have not cried all day but that's not saying that I wont be crying in the next 10min I can't tell you what to do but I am a finger away. Love Kenyada

I am so sorry to hear of your loss and all of the others who have lost children as well. Regardless of what any one may say that has not dealt with a tragedy such as this, we hope that the saying "time heals all wounds " were true but when you lose a child....it can be a long journey. I lost my daughter in November 2007, I will never be the same, my heart will always yearn for and miss her, and i will always have "those moments". But I have learned that joining hands with others with similar experiences, is helpful, positive, reassuring, and always fulfilling. Know that as you miss your son, i miss him with you as well. You have a friend in me (and any other parent of an angel) anytime.

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I am sorry for the loss of your lovely angel. May eternal rest be granted unto his soul.

I'm praying for youas I type. I just lost my son on Dec. 21st it was his 18th birthday that day. He collasped at half time after only playing 14 minutes of basketball. he was healthy and I just don't understand why this happen and no one has been able to tell me anything not even the medical examiner. I'll pray for you as you pray for me. My oldest daughter birthday is also August 22. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hello Theresa, thank you for your response, and I am truly sorrow for the loss of your son. I wonder if we will ever be able to get pass the hurt. I know for certain that we will never be the same.
Just the sharing on this site has helped to a degree, it is a way of releasing some of the inner feelings that others can not identify with. I pray for your health and strength for the days ahead.