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At 12:47pm on January 22, 2014, Tamika said…: Thanks S.A. I can always use some inspiration. I planned to get on today to help others. Once again I'm receiving bad news. About my Mom she's been diagnosed with a disease. She says she'll be fine. After just losing my Dad to sickness. My brother to suicide. It's hard to believe everything will be fine. I prayed for my Father and Brother with no good results. She's been through so much already. I just don't get it. They say god doesn't give you more than you can handle. I'm fighting to believe that's true. Fighting. Again I only wish my Baby brother was here. I can't escape feeling so alone. My stomach is in knots. I can feel my heart hurting. Want to pray but for some reason I feel anxiety when I decide to do it. Just holding on to hope. I need my Mom. I mean god has to know that right?

At 5:16pm on March 13, 2013, S.A. Brobin said…: Tamika Hola, Its been awhile I am sorry I took so long to respond. I am in the Rep of Panama. Central America.

You have the right attitude about helping people it helps distract you. And you keep coming back to where you can get help thats good.

Its like that with God we need to keep going back in prayer and to his word where we get his responses to our prayers. Believe it or not things have not changed with human beings emotions and trials and tribulations and the Almighty has addressed it ALL in his word. He has feelings after all, we were created in His image so he can relate to our grief and despair.

If you recall when Jesus came to Mary and Martha on the occasion of the death of their brother Lazarus on seeing them the Bible says at (John 11:38, 39) . . .Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it. ³⁹ . . . the point here I am sharing is Jesus who is a perfect reflection of his Father Almighty God felt their pain. The more you get to know a person the easier it is to relate and talk to them. Let me introduce you to God he has a name and it is Jehovah ( Psalms 83:18) so when you talk to him address him by his personal name not simply God . Just like you would a close personal friend you use their name not ' Hey You boy or girl " If you would like I would be more than pleased to help you get to know Jehovah God through the pages of your own personal copy of the Bible and see how he can comfort you.

(2 Corinthians 1:3, 4)

. . .Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, ⁴ who comforts us in all our tribulation. . .

Talk to you later ? Miss Sylvia

At 9:59am on March 4, 2013, Tamika said…: Just want to take the time while I'm not in so much pain to say thanks to my friends and everyone whoever commented on my posts and your prayers. Things are looking up. Looks like I'll be keeping my home. Guess your prayers worked. For once I won't suffer another loss. This site helps me greatly. I just feel the need to say thanks. Thought I'd give you guys an nice uplifting post for once. The Fighter and Survivor Tamika

At 9:56pm on January 27, 2013, Nikki Holmes said…: Thanks Tamika, those pictures are from my Wedding day, on 11-11-11. He walked me down the aisle.

At 11:26am on January 9, 2013, Tamika said…: My passed away here in September. My brother who committed suicide 5 yrs ago lived here with me also. I've been here 16 yrs. Now they are taking my home away. After funeral expenses I don't have 2000$ for a lawyer. I'm really scared. Of myself right now. When I lose this place I will truly feel like I've lost everything. I don't know what I will do. I'm scared of my thoughts. I'm so stressed lost about 5lbs in 2 days. I deserve to be here. But they've made up lies to get me out to sell it for current market value as opposed to the prices 16 yrs ago. They know I'm weak so they are striking. This world is just so cruel and unfair. I'm so tired of living in it. I'm scared of myself right now. I don't want my Mom to lose another child. But if they take my home away what do I have left. I just keep losing with no lawyer I'm afraid I'll lose again. My heart just can't stand anymore.

At 4:37pm on December 14, 2012, Theresa Sweaney said…: <3, Tamika, you're in my thoughts and prayers today and through the difficult "Merry Christmas" season. I'm so sorry for your losses. It sounds like your dad was a very significant person to you in life. I have not lost a parent yet, but I did lose my son to a brain disease and, ultimately, to a suicide death. Charles has been gone 18 mos, and it is still so difficult to fathom. I don't talk much about it anymore to the people in my life b/c they all seem like isn't she done with this yet? My local grief recovery support group and online groups are the only forums I feel safe talking about it with. Do you have a local support group in your area to attend for this kind of support? I found a good one through hospice in my area. You take care now, and make sure to find the supports that you need that are close by, especially since you don't feel safe talking to those closest to you. Gentle hugs. GBY

At 3:02pm on November 28, 2012, Tamika said…: Good afternoon, wet eyes but no tears so far today. So it's a better day. Right now that's all I could ask for. The down part is I went to a grief website they want us to pay for a grief handbook. I felt like they were trying to take advantage of me, of my situation. It was only 7$ but I felt it was in such bad taste I just left the website. Smh.

At 10:30am on November 25, 2012, Lisa W said…: Tamika,

My brother had been gone five years also sorry for all your hard times we are all here for you. Your not alone :)
Message me if you need a friend .

At 9:46am on November 21, 2012, S.A. Brobin said…: Tamika, Please accept my most sincere condolences on your loss. Your anger although justifiable is misplaced. If you are a Christian you are familiar with Adam and Eve who are responsible for the plight we face today. God gave them everything, there was abundant food, a beautiful home, a generous Father and they sold us into slavery to sin and death. There is so much comfort in God's Word 2 Corinthians chapter 1 verses 2,3 & 4 says '2 Corinthians 1:3-5) . . .Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, ⁴ who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those in any sort of tribulation through the comfort with which we ourselves are being comforted by God. ⁵ For just as the sufferings for the Christ abound in us, so the comfort we get also abounds through the Christ. And it also gives us hope for a brighter future. Endless life on a paradise earth minus the sickness, pain and suffering present to day. You may be familiar with the Lord's Prayer or Our Father in Matthew chapter 6:verses 9 & 10 where we are told to pray for God will to be done on earth as it is in heaven. I am sure you'll agree do matter what your religion is that what is going on today on earth couldn't possibly be going on in heaven God's personal dwelling place. If you go to Revelation chapter 21 verses 3 & 4 you see God has no intention of abandoning his purpose that the earth be a paradise. I would love to help you learn more about Gods purposes and to come to know him as I do as a God of Love who Never takes our loved ones or test us with trials. Please write me if you like Miss Sylvia

At 9:46am on November 21, 2012, S.A. Brobin said…: Tamika, Please accept my most sincere condolences on your loss. Your anger although justifiable is misplaced. If you are a Christian you are familiar with Adam and Eve who are responsible for the plight we face today. God gave them everything, there was abundant food, a beautiful home, a generous Father and they sold us into slavery to sin and death. There is so much comfort in God's Word 2 Corinthians chapter 1 verses 2,3 & 4 says '2 Corinthians 1:3-5) . . .Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, ⁴ who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those in any sort of tribulation through the comfort with which we ourselves are being comforted by God. ⁵ For just as the sufferings for the Christ abound in us, so the comfort we get also abounds through the Christ. And it also gives us hope for a brighter future. Endless life on a paradise earth minus the sickness, pain and suffering present to day. You may be familiar with the Lord's Prayer or Our Father in Matthew chapter 6:verses 9 & 10 where we are told to pray for God will to be done on earth as it is in heaven. I am sure you'll agree do matter what your religion is that what is going on today on earth couldn't possibly be going on in heaven God's personal dwelling place. If you go to Revelation chapter 21 verses 3 & 4 you see God has no intention of abandoning his purpose that the earth be a paradise. I would love to help you learn more about Gods purposes and to come to know him as I do as a God of Love who Never takes our loved ones or test us with trials. Please write me if you like Miss Sylvia