debbie flores
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Such a sad feeling...

The past 30 days as been so hard. Me & my sisters are trying hard to rise above all the sadness & madness. But not everybody is cooperating & it's making it difficult for the rest of us.

Why don't they realize they are tarnishing her memory & her wishes. Stop thinking only of yourself. We are all in pain & suffering the loss of our mother.

Not a one is more important than the other, we are all equals. So allow those who are willing to handle the business the opportunity to do it, in a timely & proper manner.

Normally, I could care less. But this is directly affecting my sisters' health & I won't quietly stand by & allow anybody to hurt her feelings or make her feel bad. I love her, she's the best person I've ever known, a pure heart of gold.

This saddens me very much, they are being disrespectful & that's the one thing mama always insisted on, we must respect eachother.

Thanks for allowing me to vent....

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Together Again

Posted on May 29, 2011 at 12:30pm 0 Comments


Just 6 days ago, I was finally able to finish everything in order to bring home my personal urn of daddy's ashes. Now both mama's & daddy's li' urns sit together on the fireplace mantel of the home they both loved. It seems so right for the two of them to be up there sitting together watching their family, whom they both loved very much.... Now I just want to find a really fancy tray to beable to disply them on instead of this lil' funky one. LOL... Although, they both would…


Now Daddy

Posted on April 12, 2011 at 10:45pm 0 Comments

Only 4 days ago, Daddy left to join Mama. I think his heart was broken & he missed her terribly. It's sad & sorta lonely. Now we don't have either one of them. I feel all alone, first My Honey, then Mama & now Daddy. I know things will eventually be okay. But right at this moment it's hard to see the silver lining. I miss mama & now I don't have daddy anymore. God Bless & Protect them both...

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At 5:54pm on November 5, 2010, Kathy King Kates said…
I was scanning thru pages of "friends of friends" and ran across one of your messages from August about your partners children and the problems involved. I so hope you have been able to resolve all this satisfactorily in your own mind. I had a bitter stepson that disowned his father when he married me. My husband had been a widower for 5 years (after 57 years with his first wife) when we wed. We kept many mementos of the first wife mingled with our new things but sent a good deal on to the son as he made the comment (probably will never see anything of my mothers now). When my husband passed in February his granddaughter wanted whatever she could of grandpa's. I said your father has everything but I made a special book of photos for her and her children and a couple of jewelry items he had okayed for her. Neither the son or any of the 3 grandchildren came during his illness or when he passed so I figure they told where their hearts were. I am grateful they live in California and I in South Carolina and no more word from any of them since the graddaughters one call. My daughter was here during the illness (from California also) several times and has even moved here to SC to help me on our small ranch since he passed. She misses "daddy" very much. Know that you gave your stepchildren the chance and I hope you are doing well now. Hugs

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