deborah peck
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deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thinking of you and your family Sarah, hope you are all doing okay"
6 hours ago
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The funeral home actually asked me if I wanted a lock of Gregs hair so my girls and I each got one, I love the idea of putting his hair in a necklace, I just finished ordering one to go on the chain I wear with his fingerprint, the funral home gave…"
Monday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Most of you know that I have been having a hard time lately, yesterday two things happened, I always tell my husbands ashes good morning and my plans for the day, yesterday I told him I cant believe its been a year already and I went into a complete…"
Saturday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sara, I am so sorry to hear about uour dad, we are all here to help anyway we can, take care of yourself"
Saturday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sarah, I am so sorry that you are having to go thru this, I know it is bringing everything back up with Ken again,. I am feeling your pain, its a hard thing to lose our parents, mine both passed at an early age of 69, six months apart but I was…"
Jul 12
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane, that is so funny, I can imagine everyone thinking, what the heck is wrong with her, too funny but so sad. The only time I feel like Im not acting is with my kids, even my sister who is my best friend I don't want to bring her down so…"
Jul 10
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"thank you guys your all so helpful, its been a rough time lately, and I did have a good time but I always feel lost and not sure how to be me anymore, is that weird, not sure if anybody would understand"
Jul 9
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Yesterday was our big families 4th of July celebration that I was dreading, this was the event Greg refused the eating tube for so he could eat when he was here, sadly he never made it and passed 2 days after eating so it brings up a sad time for me…"
Jul 8
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Ive been kinda chuckling to myself after reading everyones post on aging or on Beard and I being young, I am 62, GULP, and while I too don't feel my age and still do everything Ive always done and people think I don't look my age, I…"
Jul 8
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Maybe that's what they were trying to tell me, to rejoin life, I don't know was very weird. Yes I do miss being loved by a man but its my husbands love I miss, not just any man, right now I cant fathom dating. But I think its great for…"
Jul 7
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I have no desire to ever date either, I had two great men in my life and that's good enough for me"
Jul 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I have a question does anyone else have dreams about dating, I don't have any desire to but keeps having these weird dreams and last night I dreamed both of my late husbands were together and telling me to go out, its very wierd"
Jul 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane I have been told by hospice that sometimes its easier for them to leave when no one is around, my Greg passed within seconds of my daughter telling him he could go, she would take care of me, he didn't have a chance to be able to wait…"
Jul 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Been having a hard time lately, I think its because of my Gregs decision not to have a feeding tube put in so he could eat at my sisters on our big family gathering and we all knew it would make the end sooner since he wasn't swallowing so he…"
Jul 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve I love the planter, I think Im going to do that, what website did you find this on"
Jul 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Happy 4th everyone, Hope everyone has family or friends to help them thru this holiday. This is the 2nd 4th without my Greg and am having a hard time with it, my girls are coming over for dinner and to do a few fireworks today then on Saturday we…"
Jul 4

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At 12:49pm on November 26, 2017, Linda Victor said…
I identify with u i had two fiances that passed away in my life & I cant compare & wont because my first fiancé I knew was sick with COPD vet bad & he was very open about his death and he died in my arms in the hosp and I knew how he died plus he we were exactly like someone married we shared everything but morein the yrs i knew him and was with him more married than my marriage the only reason we we not married by the time of his death, his divorce had not gone thru yet & his wife was giving him a hard time but atleast i knew a love that i had and now 15 yrs later can finally say I was a very lucky woman to have known, felt, such love my fiancé that just passed away in Aug, 2017 died without me there. i still to this day do not know how he died (i was having surgery 300 miles away) & b4 I left he made it pretty clear he wanted me to leave after my surgery and came back The shock I felt when he died, the not knowing how and all the assuming (he had a bad heart & was supposed to get a pacemaker) one minute he would tell me how much he loved me and so many times he kept saying I want to marry u and even plan the date and were we would spend our honeymoon it was even as close as a month before his death. I do know this I loved both of them equally as much, and with my fiancé Frank, his death has me so confused, and wondering know if he ever loved me at all. Now after his death I see so many things he did for me that I never saw when he was alive but I don’t know if i’m just not dealing with all the hurtful things he said and did to me too. i don’t even at this point consider myself as his fiancé before he died i don’t know what he was now. We lived together for 2 yrs and the last time he proposed marriage i said let’s just do it, i knew in my gut something was going to happen i thought to me not him he was such a strong person and we are both not kids waiting im 67 soon to be 68 in April 3, and he was 65 going to be 66 on April 2nd two Aries oh boy we were supposed to get married in 2017 in April 3 but because of my surgery and him not wanting me anymore blaming me for his heart attack he had 3 wks before my surgery he was so angry at me and that i still don’t know why but now all i want to do is let him go, I’m getting so tired of grieving for him, I now still don’t have my apt anymore lost almost everything and I am not blaming him because I was the fool who loved him so much, and still do, but why?? It’s obvious to me he was either lying to me about loving me ever or I can’t even fathom and am still in shock but just want him out of my mind and get on with whatever life is left and have some joy because between both of my fiances there was such a major difference I think that with Frank I thought he would be like Al (my first fiancé) and show me all the love he had or had too much expectations but the nit knowing atleast how Frank died no one will tell me in his family I am trying for months to get his Death Certificate but i’m in nyc and was living in nys and it seems almost impossible to get one from the county up there that their laws are so different up there and searching and searching on the internet for something but they all want money and don’t promise results. I’m just getting very tired of all the researching when i should be grieving and moving on, i might never know, i’ve even thgt maybe it was suicide the last phone call i received from him the day before he died sounded very sick (i can’t share it now) but with his heart history i can only assume it was his heart and only know he died in the hospital. I even called the county coroner who shared with me he only investigates things like murders or deaths that r under investigations but did tell me if he died in the hosp that means they didn’t find him home dead or he didn’t die in the ambulance he passed away in the hospital and was there for over 24 hrs that’s all he could tell me legally. i still have so much guilt , I get angry at myself for loving.
At 8:25pm on October 10, 2017, Monica Rose said…
Thanks for the kind words.
At 6:35am on August 22, 2017, Joanne Dobrow said…

We are kindred souls.  Everything that happened to you has happened to me.  Please know that I am with you.

 
 
 

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