deborah peck
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deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane I cant imagine having to shred all the papers, I'm so sorry you had to do that, Gregs dresser is still full of clothes and there is a small amount in our closet but I wanted the kids to have something too even though it broke my heart…"
Wednesday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Last night my girls came over to go thru Gregs belongings and to pick out what they wanted, was really hard to watch most of his belongings be packed up to go to their homes, his side of the closet is almost bare, I guess it means its permanent"
Tuesday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Yesterday was hard at parts, I wrote messages to Greg on a balloon and released it to the heaven above. I got a flower delivery that my daughter sent from Greg, it was roses and carnations which are flowers special to both my marriages. then just…"
Feb 15
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thinking of everyone today and sending prayers your way"
Feb 14
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve, thanks for the info, we are covered in ice here so staying put for now, sorry you learned the hard way that stinks but glad its better now"
Feb 11
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Rebecca , that is very weird, I wouldn't respond to it, its a little scary, people can find so much about you by you respomding"
Feb 9
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear David and Marsha, I'm sorry you are having a hard time, Marsha, the dates are the worse, wish we could just sleep thru them, I know I'm dreading Valentines day, ughh. In may it will be 1 year, still have a hard time coming to grips…"
Feb 6
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha the link you shared is great, really makes you think"
Feb 3
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mark, I love the poem you shared it is eye opening."
Feb 3
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha I am sorry you are having a rough time right now, seems like it never stops. You are right about helping other people because it truly does help yourself too. I always tell my girls to look around there is always someone that has it way worse…"
Jan 31
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"dear Marsha, thank you for the link, it was really helpful,. I am very careful to not grieve around my grandson but not sure about his mom. We tell him all the time we aren't going anyplace because he always is asking us not to leave to. I live…"
Jan 31
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Marsha, yes I figured it was from the thing with my grandson, it was just such a crazy and sad dream We have told him so many times that his grandpa is in Heaven with Jesus but he doesn't get it, every day he says he wants his grndpa and…"
Jan 29
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Rough couple of days, yesterday it started when we got to my 13 year old grandsons basketball game and when we got out of the car my 3 year old grandson insisted that the building next to it was where his pa-pa was, if you could of seen his face he…"
Jan 29
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chicago I'm so sorry that you didn't get to have a so called peaceful ending with your wife. I know the hospice nurse told us that sometimes they wait until we aren't around to pass, that it is easier for them. My husband ended up…"
Jan 28
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"On the 30th of this month is the date Greg had a massive stroke that was the beginning of the end of the life we both knew. While he survived he was never the same again, couldn't talk very good or swallow liquids without them being thickened…"
Jan 26
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"chuck and steve sorry you guys have a hard couple of days dates are so hard, praying for you both"
Jan 19

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At 12:49pm on November 26, 2017, Linda Victor said…
I identify with u i had two fiances that passed away in my life & I cant compare & wont because my first fiancé I knew was sick with COPD vet bad & he was very open about his death and he died in my arms in the hosp and I knew how he died plus he we were exactly like someone married we shared everything but morein the yrs i knew him and was with him more married than my marriage the only reason we we not married by the time of his death, his divorce had not gone thru yet & his wife was giving him a hard time but atleast i knew a love that i had and now 15 yrs later can finally say I was a very lucky woman to have known, felt, such love my fiancé that just passed away in Aug, 2017 died without me there. i still to this day do not know how he died (i was having surgery 300 miles away) & b4 I left he made it pretty clear he wanted me to leave after my surgery and came back The shock I felt when he died, the not knowing how and all the assuming (he had a bad heart & was supposed to get a pacemaker) one minute he would tell me how much he loved me and so many times he kept saying I want to marry u and even plan the date and were we would spend our honeymoon it was even as close as a month before his death. I do know this I loved both of them equally as much, and with my fiancé Frank, his death has me so confused, and wondering know if he ever loved me at all. Now after his death I see so many things he did for me that I never saw when he was alive but I don’t know if i’m just not dealing with all the hurtful things he said and did to me too. i don’t even at this point consider myself as his fiancé before he died i don’t know what he was now. We lived together for 2 yrs and the last time he proposed marriage i said let’s just do it, i knew in my gut something was going to happen i thought to me not him he was such a strong person and we are both not kids waiting im 67 soon to be 68 in April 3, and he was 65 going to be 66 on April 2nd two Aries oh boy we were supposed to get married in 2017 in April 3 but because of my surgery and him not wanting me anymore blaming me for his heart attack he had 3 wks before my surgery he was so angry at me and that i still don’t know why but now all i want to do is let him go, I’m getting so tired of grieving for him, I now still don’t have my apt anymore lost almost everything and I am not blaming him because I was the fool who loved him so much, and still do, but why?? It’s obvious to me he was either lying to me about loving me ever or I can’t even fathom and am still in shock but just want him out of my mind and get on with whatever life is left and have some joy because between both of my fiances there was such a major difference I think that with Frank I thought he would be like Al (my first fiancé) and show me all the love he had or had too much expectations but the nit knowing atleast how Frank died no one will tell me in his family I am trying for months to get his Death Certificate but i’m in nyc and was living in nys and it seems almost impossible to get one from the county up there that their laws are so different up there and searching and searching on the internet for something but they all want money and don’t promise results. I’m just getting very tired of all the researching when i should be grieving and moving on, i might never know, i’ve even thgt maybe it was suicide the last phone call i received from him the day before he died sounded very sick (i can’t share it now) but with his heart history i can only assume it was his heart and only know he died in the hospital. I even called the county coroner who shared with me he only investigates things like murders or deaths that r under investigations but did tell me if he died in the hosp that means they didn’t find him home dead or he didn’t die in the ambulance he passed away in the hospital and was there for over 24 hrs that’s all he could tell me legally. i still have so much guilt , I get angry at myself for loving.
At 8:25pm on October 10, 2017, Monica Rose said…
Thanks for the kind words.
At 6:35am on August 22, 2017, Joanne Dobrow said…

We are kindred souls.  Everything that happened to you has happened to me.  Please know that I am with you.

 
 
 

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