deborah peck
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  • Saint Charles, MO
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deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane I talk to Greg al the time I tell him good marning ang good night and what I'm going to do that day but lately when I talk to him I'm mad, I'm mad that the dctors told him if he didn't takehis blood thinners and quit…"
9 hours ago
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"these past few days have been really hard for me, I'm missing my husband so much. every night I feel like I'm falling apart, just cant seem to get it together"
yesterday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"My dear childhood friends husband died suddenly yesterday, we were all together all the time, prayeers are needed for her, her daughter died 5 years ago and she has become a recluse with her husband doing all the shopping and everything, don't…"
Tuesday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The dates are so hard, yesterday was 8 months since I last held Greg and its so hard, its also so sad that most of my family doesn't check on my girls  or me anymore, I guess the don't realize the pain has no time limit and we are…"
Saturday
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane, I think on here everyone should feel free to express their feelings, that is what this sight is for, not to be judged,"
Jan 12
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"wow could I use seeing my Greg smiling at me Mary Jane. Last night I had a total breakdown, my 3 year old grandson had been asking me all day to take a car to his grandpa so that he could come home and play with him, broke my heart and I guess it…"
Jan 10
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve I listened to the song you posted on youtube, its beautiful"
Jan 9
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Rebecca, I'm so sorry for your loss, its such a lonely journey to go thru as most everyone cant understand your feelings but everyone on here has been thru it so it does help. I just recently lost my second husband to death its been 7…"
Jan 9
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Steve, I made my girls all pillows out of Gregs shirts, they loved them . You  might try doing that instead, although it was really hard cutting up some of his shirts but well worth it when I gave them away. but for now you guys need to…"
Jan 3
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"This is a quilt that my girls had made for me for Christmas out of some of Gregs clothes, I feel like I'm wrapped in his arms when I'm laying under it"
Jan 2
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I haven't been on here since before Christmas as my back is still hurting to sit very much. Chuck I cant imagine trying to figure out a new life with a new partner in a new state at Christmas time, your emotions must be all over the place. I…"
Jan 2
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sorry I didn't post for Christmas eve, have been down with my back since before Christmas, went to doctor yesterday and I pulled a muscle, so bed ret and muscle relaxers but have been thinking of you allnking of everyone and wanted to post this…"
Dec 28, 2017
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane I  joined and posted but then deleted as I don't want everyone knowing my thoughts so not sure how private it is"
Dec 23, 2017
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Patti the poem is for you"
Dec 22, 2017
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
Dec 22, 2017
deborah peck commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Patti, anniversary dates are so hard, its all the remembering of it all that makes it so hard, especially for you with the holidays too. There is no time limit on grieving as you know by now. This is my 1st Christmas without my husband and I…"
Dec 21, 2017

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At 12:49pm on November 26, 2017, Linda Victor said…
I identify with u i had two fiances that passed away in my life & I cant compare & wont because my first fiancé I knew was sick with COPD vet bad & he was very open about his death and he died in my arms in the hosp and I knew how he died plus he we were exactly like someone married we shared everything but morein the yrs i knew him and was with him more married than my marriage the only reason we we not married by the time of his death, his divorce had not gone thru yet & his wife was giving him a hard time but atleast i knew a love that i had and now 15 yrs later can finally say I was a very lucky woman to have known, felt, such love my fiancé that just passed away in Aug, 2017 died without me there. i still to this day do not know how he died (i was having surgery 300 miles away) & b4 I left he made it pretty clear he wanted me to leave after my surgery and came back The shock I felt when he died, the not knowing how and all the assuming (he had a bad heart & was supposed to get a pacemaker) one minute he would tell me how much he loved me and so many times he kept saying I want to marry u and even plan the date and were we would spend our honeymoon it was even as close as a month before his death. I do know this I loved both of them equally as much, and with my fiancé Frank, his death has me so confused, and wondering know if he ever loved me at all. Now after his death I see so many things he did for me that I never saw when he was alive but I don’t know if i’m just not dealing with all the hurtful things he said and did to me too. i don’t even at this point consider myself as his fiancé before he died i don’t know what he was now. We lived together for 2 yrs and the last time he proposed marriage i said let’s just do it, i knew in my gut something was going to happen i thought to me not him he was such a strong person and we are both not kids waiting im 67 soon to be 68 in April 3, and he was 65 going to be 66 on April 2nd two Aries oh boy we were supposed to get married in 2017 in April 3 but because of my surgery and him not wanting me anymore blaming me for his heart attack he had 3 wks before my surgery he was so angry at me and that i still don’t know why but now all i want to do is let him go, I’m getting so tired of grieving for him, I now still don’t have my apt anymore lost almost everything and I am not blaming him because I was the fool who loved him so much, and still do, but why?? It’s obvious to me he was either lying to me about loving me ever or I can’t even fathom and am still in shock but just want him out of my mind and get on with whatever life is left and have some joy because between both of my fiances there was such a major difference I think that with Frank I thought he would be like Al (my first fiancé) and show me all the love he had or had too much expectations but the nit knowing atleast how Frank died no one will tell me in his family I am trying for months to get his Death Certificate but i’m in nyc and was living in nys and it seems almost impossible to get one from the county up there that their laws are so different up there and searching and searching on the internet for something but they all want money and don’t promise results. I’m just getting very tired of all the researching when i should be grieving and moving on, i might never know, i’ve even thgt maybe it was suicide the last phone call i received from him the day before he died sounded very sick (i can’t share it now) but with his heart history i can only assume it was his heart and only know he died in the hospital. I even called the county coroner who shared with me he only investigates things like murders or deaths that r under investigations but did tell me if he died in the hosp that means they didn’t find him home dead or he didn’t die in the ambulance he passed away in the hospital and was there for over 24 hrs that’s all he could tell me legally. i still have so much guilt , I get angry at myself for loving.
At 8:25pm on October 10, 2017, Monica Rose said…
Thanks for the kind words.
At 6:35am on August 22, 2017, Joanne Dobrow said…

We are kindred souls.  Everything that happened to you has happened to me.  Please know that I am with you.

 
 
 

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