"maggie, shannon, thank you for your support. i am a bit better today, but have a pretty bad headache. i am coping as best i can...every day brings something different. i have been trying to get myself to go to the grocery store,…"
"hi everyone...it has been about two weeks since i last posted. i swore i would check in every day, but my life has spiraled downward since then. i have gotten progressively worse then previously -- today is the two month mark. …"
"ladies, my husband has not come to me either...yet he has shown himself to a multitude of others. i only had one dream about or with him and it was two days after he passed away. it was one very, very disturbing dream that i do not want…"
"i am making an effort to be here every day, even if i have to force myself.
nancy, i am with you...widow is just not right, but single is worse. i don't feel single, i will never feel single. i'm still trying to get used to…"
"hello everyone...i've not posted for about a week because i felt so bad. it has just gotten progressively worse. tomorrow is six weeks without charles and i feel as bad today as i did six weeks ago. i just seem to lose…"
"nicole, i am so sorry for your loss. you have done yourself a great deed by joining this group. as maggie posted, we are all in varying stages of this journey, and i know for myself, everyone has helped me tremendously during the past…"
"hello all...charles was the same way...not a serious bone in his body. if i was sad, he would make me laugh. he also never met a stranger. he just loved everyone and he loved life. now my life is so empty without him to get…"
"b. robertson, we are all on the same path. i joined this site two weeks after charles passed. it has been a godsend. my therapist has not helped as much as everyone here. this feels like home. when i am here, i do not…"
"Denice, Good for you in firing your therapist! Jut by knowing she was a kook makes you one step further to recovery. It is a long hard road and I hate every minute of my journey but I am here and I am trying to make the most of it.…"
"julie, nancy, thank you for your kind words. i am convinced that i returned to work too soon, but had i not done something i probably would have gone insane. i have to convince myself to get in my car and drive to work -- thank goodness…"
"it is four weeks today for me and i feel worse today than i've ever felt...and i thought monday was a bad day. i just feel so empty inside and my body also feels heavy.
i am sorry for all the pain and loss we are suffering. …"
"jerry, i thought about placing an ad also. i decided instead to go with a tattoo (my fourth). it will say: french, my love, my life, forever in my heart. je t'aime !!! it will look like it's on a scroll.
"it has only been three and a half weeks since i lost my husband and i cannot even think about getting rid of anything. the pants he wore last are still hanging on the inversion table in our bedroom; his glasses are still on his nighttable;…"
"bruce, tears are good...they cleanse. charles kept his bottled up most of the time, but towards the end he would cry just for me walking into his hospital room and kissing him hello.
nancy and julie, my prayers are with you both. you are…"
"bruce, love that suitcase blurb. that really hit the spot. another item to copy and print out and read when i'm feeling down.
i haven't had headaches either, but have experienced chest pain (nothing wrong) and have a serious…"
Denice, Good for you in firing your therapist! Jut by knowing she was a kook makes you one step further to recovery. It is a long hard road and I hate every minute of my journey but I am here and I am trying to make the most of it.
Keep your eyes, ears, and nose open for the unsuspecting singes from our loved ones. I am a firm believer that is how they communicate with us.