Elaine I am so sorry for your loss, I loss my wife Marybeth Sept 18, 2011. I sit here and cry as I write that date. I waited for over a year to get help, that was a mistake. This site is helpful but I find my grief group even more helpful. Family, friends and coworkers try to help but sometimes thier words make it worse. They do not mean it but they do not understand, they cannot. A friend looked up online, when I was at my worst, Tips on helping a survivor. The first and most important for myself was Listen, say little. I am here to help. Take care, Karen
Elaine I am so sorry for your loss and even sorrier I have to welcome you on this rollercoaster called grief. You have come to a wonderful web site where we are all grieving and all in different stages of grief. We offer advice and pass no judgements. There are no timeframes in which you must follow and it is a baby step process. So take your time and come here often even if it is to read posts. Hugs, Jane P
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Elaine I am so sorry for your loss, I loss my wife Marybeth Sept 18, 2011. I sit here and cry as I write that date. I waited for over a year to get help, that was a mistake. This site is helpful but I find my grief group even more helpful. Family, friends and coworkers try to help but sometimes thier words make it worse. They do not mean it but they do not understand, they cannot. A friend looked up online, when I was at my worst, Tips on helping a survivor. The first and most important for myself was Listen, say little. I am here to help. Take care, Karen
Elaine I am so sorry for your loss and even sorrier I have to welcome you on this rollercoaster called grief. You have come to a wonderful web site where we are all grieving and all in different stages of grief. We offer advice and pass no judgements. There are no timeframes in which you must follow and it is a baby step process. So take your time and come here often even if it is to read posts. Hugs, Jane P