"Hi Marsh, that is a beautiful saying. It made me cry.
Thank you. I will try to remember it.
Mary Jane happy B-day to your Bob.
And I am sorry about Bob not been with you to celebrate your 50 anniversary .
I hope you and everyone has a peaceful…"
"Hi Marsha, Louie thanks you and so do I.
I did nothing special. I was just not feeling it today maybe tomorrow. It was just a sad day.
I cried and had a drink.
You are such a good person Marsha, may God keep you well.
With respect for you always ,…"
"Hello everyone, as I have written before I alway read your posts but I do not post often.
But today is a special day , it is my Louie's Birth day ,. I just want him to know how much I still miss him, and how much I love him.
"Hi everyone, it has been a long time since I posted.
I am sorry for all the new members for your loss.
It has been 3 1/2 yrs. plus two weeks since I lost my husband .
It all happened in seven weeks pancriatic Cancer.
I just want to say to all the…"
"Hello everyone I hope all that celebrate Thanksgiving had a blessed and peaceful day.
I don't post much, I read more but I consider all here my family, in understanding of our new life's journey .
Good night all."
"Happy belated anniversary to Marshia and Ernie,
And to Debbie and Bob.
Marshia, Deb Iam sorry I missed your post about your special day.
I am thinking of you tonight and I will have a glass of wine in rememberance of your husband"s.
With a hug…"
"Hello everyone, Chuck you are a special person, your flowers are beautiful.
July has been a hard month for me.
Louie has been gone 3 years, on the 14th, on the
20th of July is his nameday. ( in our tradition that is celebrated like a birthday) .
"My dear Marsha, Iam so sorry for your pain.
How I wish all of our loved ones could walk back through the door.
Marsha as you know I do not post often , but I always read everyone's posts.
You have been my rock for the last three years, you have…"
"Good Morning Deidra,
I am so sorry that you also had to go through this horrible Cancer with your husband.
I also lost my husband to pancreatic cancer , seven week from diagnosis to his passing.
Please be good to yourself.
Dear Georgia ... My apologies, but I have not been getting the posts through my email since Thursday and just happened to go onto Legacy to see why it was so quiet and shocked at how many have been posting.
Thank for your kind words and I'd love to talk to you privately if you would like. Here is my email: Maday1@shaw.ca
If you have problems contacting me just let me know. I'd love to hear from you. I live just outside of Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, but the heart knows no distance.
Thank you for reaching out, Georgia. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. When I joined this forum, I did not have time to add to my profile that I have not experienced the horrible loss of my spouse or anyone else due to this awful disease. I work for the Nationa Safety Council in Illinois and we are putting together a project that will bring the stories of people who have suffered the loss of a family member through prescription drug overdose. We want to put faces and stories to this problem to help people better understand the plight of addicts and their families.
I will be thinking of you, Georgis, and rooting for you. Please accept my condolences!
So sorry for your loss Georgia, you have found the right place to come for your grief, I too lost my husband on Feb 9th this year & like your husband he was diagnosed on January 13th & did not even last a month, yet it was not the cancer that took him away, it was a cardiac arrest, I am so thankful I found this site because it has made me understand I am not going crazy & that crying everyday is okay & that family & friends although they care do not understand my grief, but everyone here does, we are unfortunately here for the same reason so I come to the site quite often even just to vent because I know everyone understands.