Hi there, just a word for now. I lost my love of 26 years  Jan. 6 2014. She was very sick with multiple problems but 3days before she died she said I think I have hope, I seem to be feeling better. Then she died in  my arms 2 days later. Her family loves me so we really had no issues there. It does surprise me hoe fast they all seemed to get it together and get going again. Maybe when you are a care giver you fit in a different time frame or I am just old. I am just lost right now. If any one wants to say hi, please do so. My lady's name is Linda. I love her so much.