im so sorry why did your ex do that. how old was your son? my sons name is caden also. how have you made it 2 years? i dont no what to do with myself im lost lonely emty. i work a couple times out of the week and the rest i sit at home on the couch o and i go to church ever sunday so yes i believe in God but other than that i have no urge really to dso anyhting i was goin to school but took a leave of absence cuz i just cant focus and dont have the want to right now but i started goin for my son and do want to finish for him. i want t odie everyday i see no point in living he was my reason i feel like without him here what is the point in anything really i dont matter any more
your son is gorgeous jennifer, I can tell by the pictures he is truly loved. My son was a healthy boy who in a matter of 1 day lost his life to a rare sickness. I snuggled him up in bed with me on saturday after saying our prayer and then came sunday.. i rushed him to the hospital when he woke up... i could tell something was wrong. He passed away at 635pm while i held his hand and whispering i love you in his ear.. Time wont heal this pain in fact i struggle with my life everyday. I hope there is something more after this life for our children and for us. I dream of the day when i get to hold him again. god bless you and your family, im truly sorry that something so horrible had to happen to you. may you find peace tonite. Ill keep you in my thoughts.
There is nothing wrong with you, what has happen to you is aweful, I lost my daughter 3 years ago she was 18 freak accident, and my other daughter now lives out of state first year with out both of them I was a single mom, I am now married, but it was the three of us that made a whole circle we had each others back, and now i am not with both of them nor is my surviving child Shannon but she has two kids wich live 1500 miles from me, I cried on the holidays, and then laugh at memories, sometimes i think i am going crazy, but we have each other to remind us we are not, i will go to you site, and sign it
There is a lot of people mostly kids from texting they just put the name a road after a beautiful young lady died (not my daughter) from texting I am joining that pention too,, if you look there are a lot of children that lost there life like that it should be stop,, and I will support your you for you and your son, maybe it will wake up some people and save babies lives, GOD BLESS YOU.
Jennifer ive been reading some the stories on your page and i figured it out your child was murdered from his dad. Iam so sorry for that i guess iam pretty lucky in that way because i would of killed the son of a you know what the word is but my heart goes out to you. I lost my preciuos son Daniel 3 weeks of his 21st birthday and it was devastating he was killed in a car accident due to texting and driving. He didn't suffer he died enstantly a hit to the back of the head when God called him i beleive Daniel took his hand and followed him to heaven iam so lucky that my baby didn't feel any pain he was away in college in a different state. I know we all hurt as parents but you have to go threw trials after trials to get this monster be hind bars i know you need to get justice done for your baby boy i would do the same thing. My son use to work at a club in St. Louis MO and when i got that call that my son had died that is all that was running threw my head because he called me the night before his death to tell me mom I love you we talked everyday just to say i love you or just to hear each others voice. So that morming of Nov.16th 2008 that is all i thought that some one killed him but the detective told me no he has been in a car accident and i said he is dead right he said Lisa yes iam sorry i just flipped out i was at work when i got the news. Well i can't say be strong because iam not strong after 2yrs but all of us in this group is here for you if you need anything talk cry what ever you want to do. BIG HUGGS LISA DANIEL'S MOM
Jennifer, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. My grief journey began 14 years ago with the death of my 17 year old son, Vinnie. 6 years later my 18 year old son Andrew was murdered. I miss them ever so much along with all the things I will never get to experience with them. Love and peace to you, Kathy
I am trying to pass a law in Caden's name,I have created an online petition,please read it and if you agree then sign it..thank you, http://www.PetitionOnline.com/lenenaj/petition.html
You are so right. Justice has to be served. I wish you all the best. I too, am fighting for my son's death to not go unnoticed. So often the system and even family and friends,just want it to all go away. As mothers,we need to make sure their memories are kept alive, and their lives mattered. More importantly for you and I..that the people who took them from us are put behind bars where they belong.
Keep me posted.
Your little guy is beautiful and truly an angel. I am so sorry for your loss. I must admit I did not see your posting about how your son died. Was he abused by his dad? I can tell you that it is a long and hard process to impliment a new law. Unfortunately,I have first hand knowledge as I am somewhat active with MADD and have contacted Senators to change dwi laws. I'll tell you what I was told. Start with your local Congressman. Call him,e-mail him,and show up at his office. It also depends if you are trying to push through a State or a National law. Starting at local level is usually the proper procedure for both types of Bills. Google how to get a law passed through congress,this will also be of help to you. It will take time, help and lots of energy.
I lost my son,it will be 8 months the day before Mothers Day. He was killed by a drunk driver.
If you need to talk contact me here.
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Hi Jennifer,
There is nothing wrong with you, what has happen to you is aweful, I lost my daughter 3 years ago she was 18 freak accident, and my other daughter now lives out of state first year with out both of them I was a single mom, I am now married, but it was the three of us that made a whole circle we had each others back, and now i am not with both of them nor is my surviving child Shannon but she has two kids wich live 1500 miles from me, I cried on the holidays, and then laugh at memories, sometimes i think i am going crazy, but we have each other to remind us we are not, i will go to you site, and sign it
There is a lot of people mostly kids from texting they just put the name a road after a beautiful young lady died (not my daughter) from texting I am joining that pention too,, if you look there are a lot of children that lost there life like that it should be stop,, and I will support your you for you and your son, maybe it will wake up some people and save babies lives, GOD BLESS YOU.
Jennifer ive been reading some the stories on your page and i figured it out your child was murdered from his dad. Iam so sorry for that i guess iam pretty lucky in that way because i would of killed the son of a you know what the word is but my heart goes out to you. I lost my preciuos son Daniel 3 weeks of his 21st birthday and it was devastating he was killed in a car accident due to texting and driving. He didn't suffer he died enstantly a hit to the back of the head when God called him i beleive Daniel took his hand and followed him to heaven iam so lucky that my baby didn't feel any pain he was away in college in a different state. I know we all hurt as parents but you have to go threw trials after trials to get this monster be hind bars i know you need to get justice done for your baby boy i would do the same thing. My son use to work at a club in St. Louis MO and when i got that call that my son had died that is all that was running threw my head because he called me the night before his death to tell me mom I love you we talked everyday just to say i love you or just to hear each others voice. So that morming of Nov.16th 2008 that is all i thought that some one killed him but the detective told me no he has been in a car accident and i said he is dead right he said Lisa yes iam sorry i just flipped out i was at work when i got the news. Well i can't say be strong because iam not strong after 2yrs but all of us in this group is here for you if you need anything talk cry what ever you want to do. BIG HUGGS LISA DANIEL'S MOM
this is my precious boy
Keep me posted.
Your little guy is beautiful and truly an angel. I am so sorry for your loss. I must admit I did not see your posting about how your son died. Was he abused by his dad? I can tell you that it is a long and hard process to impliment a new law. Unfortunately,I have first hand knowledge as I am somewhat active with MADD and have contacted Senators to change dwi laws. I'll tell you what I was told. Start with your local Congressman. Call him,e-mail him,and show up at his office. It also depends if you are trying to push through a State or a National law. Starting at local level is usually the proper procedure for both types of Bills. Google how to get a law passed through congress,this will also be of help to you. It will take time, help and lots of energy.
I lost my son,it will be 8 months the day before Mothers Day. He was killed by a drunk driver.
If you need to talk contact me here.
My heart and love goes out to you,
Gerry
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