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Sep 2, 2010
judy replied to Liza Smith's discussion How to care for a hurt that won't heal? in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I was very angry with God after my 17 year old son died. I haven't had to deal with that as much with my husband's death, just deep pain. It's normal to have anger and you can ask God as many questions as you want to. I did get some…"
Aug 31, 2010
judy replied to bc's discussion Meltdowns in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I have fought down two meltdowns over the last two days. I think when I have a day that goes better or seems normal or something it is followed by a meltdown. I think what happens is the okay days may get closer together and the melt down days may…"
Aug 28, 2010
judy replied to bc's discussion Meltdowns in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I have fought down two meltdowns over the last two days. I think when I have a day that goes better or seems normal or something it is followed by a meltdown. I think what happens is the okay days may get closer together and the melt down days may…"
Aug 28, 2010
judy replied to Mary's discussion The love of a good man! in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Know exactly what you both mean. I watched Tim grow from the age of 11. He grew into a loving husband, a co mpassionate father, a fun grandfather and a deeply spiritual person with a lot of faith. We enjoyed just being in the room together, both of…"
Aug 27, 2010
judy replied to Suzanne's discussion Just to share my thoughts about a few things. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, I think you are moving forward more than you think and you are getting some great insight. Now, I'd rather have my husband than all the insight in the world and I know you would too. But since we can't have that for awhile we do…"
Aug 26, 2010
judy replied to Suzanne's discussion Just to share my thoughts about a few things. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, I think you are absolutely and totally right and have really come across something very helpful. I know that I want Tim to be here very badly. It still seems wrong he is not. But I believe that when you finish your work down here than God…"
Aug 25, 2010
judy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I agree that it is the two C's : contentment and companionship that we are missing from our lives and I guess in a way I don't expect to get those back until I go to Heaven. No one can take the place of another and after 47 years I became…"
Aug 25, 2010
judy replied to Suzanne's discussion Just to share my thoughts about a few things. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Good for ou I have wanted to do that too."
Aug 24, 2010
judy replied to Suzanne's discussion Just to share my thoughts about a few things. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne, Your question about choosing is interesting. My husband died on 1/26/10. I don't think we are far enough down the grief road to make a choice. As you know my husband and I met in the fourth grade and were married for 47 years, married…"
Aug 24, 2010
judy replied to Kim Hawkins's discussion Your thoughts and Prayersare need in the coming days. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"You are in my thoughts and prayers and you are so much doing the right thing with your children. I know it is hard but I know your husband is proud of you."
Aug 22, 2010
judy replied to Barb Platt's discussion in a fog.... in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Barb, I am so sorry about your husband. My husband died in Jan. of a massive heart attack. I am still working full time though I had planned to retire next year that doesn't look like it is going to be possible now. I do hope you can find a way…"
Aug 20, 2010
judy replied to Suzanne's discussion I am still here. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Suzanne: Understand, my birthday and anniversary were June 7th and June 8th. Loads of people I know wished me Happy Birthday on FB. I just kept thinking would they not realize it is the first birthday without my husband. We also married at 18 and 19…"
Aug 13, 2010
judy left a comment for sharon
"Sharon, it is pretty normal for it all to go to pieces at this time, you do take some backwards steps. You are pretty much where I am now and seven months is not really very long. You've had time to start coming out of shock and so you are face…"
Aug 10, 2010
judy and pippa are now friends
Aug 9, 2010
judy left a comment for pippa
"Keep on going through the motions, Pippa, when our son died 27 years ago that was a good coping device and my mother was the one who told me. My father was killed in WWII when she was eight months pregnant with me. She went on and she had a great…"
Aug 9, 2010

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At 10:15am on August 4, 2010, Randolph L. Schrader said…
Thank you Judy, you are in my thoughts also. I appreciate the caring and the sharing. Hugs to you. Hugs are good.
At 10:45pm on August 3, 2010, Randolph L. Schrader said…
Thank you Judy. Things are tapering down for me.Now I can cathch up with myself. God knows why. I have no life anymore. I can only understand and share with you. And of course, hugs to you. Hugs are very good.
At 2:57pm on August 1, 2010, Randolph L. Schrader said…
Thank you so much Judy. It is a rough road I am on and getting worse. Hugs to you. Hugs are goods.
At 8:02am on July 20, 2010, Liz said…
Judy,
thank you so much for your kind words... from the bottom of my heart, your words touched me.. i have heard from so many that bc we only had 8 yrs together- 4.5 married that it would be easier for me to move on etc... and i think its just that people dont know what to say when someone young dies bc it scares them... shawn was love of my life and no one can take that from me... will i fall in love again- absolutely... but that will never take my love of shawn away.
i am sorry for your loss... the first anniversary and birthday- and holidays are so hard... i spent them with my friends, family, and kids and that is what got me through them... i actually threw house parties at the anniversary and birthday and 6 month anniversary of losing him along with 1 year... it helped me being with friends who loved me and him and supported us... it got me through those tough days... the time that follows is also tough but it gets easier... all my love, liz
At 12:18am on July 2, 2010, Suzanne said…
Hi Judy,
I was reluctant to share my feelings but I was so distraught and sad I really needed to and after reading your reply a few times because sometimes things don't sink in and I thought about your words and I can't thank you enough. It was just what I needed to hear. You really understand me and you made me feel better and I can sleep tonight because of your support. God bless you and thanks again.
Suzanne
At 2:44pm on June 30, 2010, Fernandohulya said…
8:43 pm.
At 2:43pm on June 30, 2010, Fernandohulya said…
Is the online chat on this site or another website? the time zone can be arranged no problems if. Depends from which side of you either west or east? the time now is 8:43.
At 10:18am on June 30, 2010, Randolph L. Schrader said…
Thank you Judy, not many "good" days since wife died but the daisies blooming put a great smile on me and my g-son's face. Hug to you. Hugs are good.
At 10:01pm on June 26, 2010, pippa said…
Hi Judy, hope you are doing ok on your five month anniversary..its gotta be hard. hang in there.
thank you so much for your kind thoughts and words last week... literally, my grief knows no bounds and there are times I feel like it is a weight, like I am being crushed between two stones and can't even catch my breath for the pain. I know you know what I mean.
I am thinking of you and, as they say, holding you in the light..
pippa
At 4:52pm on June 24, 2010, Suzanne said…
Hi Judy,
Thank you for your insight and for your support and concern. It is appreciated. It really helps to be able to share my deep, albeit, dark thoughts on this site as I still stand by every word I ever posted. I hope you are well. Take care.
God bless,
Suzanne
 
 
 

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