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At 1:55pm on October 25, 2012, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…: Judy,

I am so sorry for your losses. I can't even imagine.

I lost my only daughter (I have three sons) on December 6, 2010.

I hope you are able to come to this site and find some comfort. It has helped me to have others that know what I am going through. Like you know, the people that haven't lost a child have NO idea.

The pictures you posted are great. Thanks for sharing them with us.

Hugs,

Terri

At 10:57am on October 25, 2012, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Hello Judy....I am Susan...also lost an adult son (39) in 2009. That happened to be a very bad year for all of us. I welcome you here to this site, it has been my salvation for receiving comforting advice and being able to post whatever I feel and not being judged. You can go to my page and see my son and his beautiful daughters. I have 3 grand daughters from him and I treasure them for sure. We miss our Donny every single day. Some are harder than others, as you know. Keep posting here the parents and grandparents on this site as so compassionate and caring. My thoughts go out to you with this new lost of your daughter.

Susan

At 10:57am on October 25, 2012, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Hello Judy....I am Susan...also lost an adult son (39) in 2009. That happened to be a very bad year for all of us. I welcome you here to this site, it has been my salvation for receiving comforting advice and being able to post whatever I feel and not being judged. You can go to my page and see my son and his beautiful daughters. I have 3 grand daughters from him and I treasure them for sure. We miss our Donny every single day. Some are harder than others, as you know. Keep posting here the parents and grandparents on this site as so compassionate and caring. My thoughts go out to you with this new lost of your daughter.

Susan

At 10:56am on October 25, 2012, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Hello Judy....I am Susan...also lost an adult son (39) in 2009. That happened to be a very bad year for all of us. I welcome you here to this site, it has been my salvation for receiving comforting advice and being able to post whatever I feel and not being judged. You can go to my page and see my son and his beautiful daughters. I have 3 grand daughters from him and I treasure them for sure. We miss our Donny every single day. Some are harder than others, as you know. Keep posting here the parents and grandparents on this site as so compassionate and caring. My thoughts go out to you with this new lost of your daughter.

Susan

At 10:56am on October 25, 2012, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Hello Judy....I am Susan...also lost an adult son (39) in 2009. That happened to be a very bad year for all of us. I welcome you here to this site, it has been my salvation for receiving comforting advice and being able to post whatever I feel and not being judged. You can go to my page and see my son and his beautiful daughters. I have 3 grand daughters from him and I treasure them for sure. We miss our Donny every single day. Some are harder than others, as you know. Keep posting here the parents and grandparents on this site as so compassionate and caring. My thoughts go out to you with this new lost of your daughter.

Susan

At 10:30am on October 5, 2012, Renee Hester said…: Hello, Judy; my name is Renee. I just got the email through my other email address that your daughter passed away recently. I'm so sorry for your loss. The reason for me contacting you today is because we have something in common.

I lost my son in a car accident on July the 4th, 2007; he was 14. It's been five years since he left this earth; but sometimes it feels like it happened yesterday. I couldn't imagine losing my last child that I have left; it would kill me. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers, always.

Renee Hester

At 6:31am on September 7, 2012, Kathy Mook said…: Judy, I am so sorry for the losses you have had and are now experiencing. You are in my prayers. Hugs-

At 10:28pm on June 24, 2012, Barbara Rieger said…: Hi Judy, Sometimes I come across something as I did tonight for a request to contact you that was posted on May 7th. My mother was admitted into rehab that evening while I was there luckily enough. Now she is to come out on Friday. This has been grueling with all the bills coming. Tomorrow I need to write down everything I'm going to ask 4 different places concerning their bills etc.

Anyway I have a tendency to get off track and it may be because I believe in diversion from the pain that we all deal with that is both mental and emotional. I hope that since the last time we were in contact May 3rd you have been able to see your one grandson that you haven't seen in awhile.

Take good care of yourself Judy!

With Love,

Barbara

At 11:53pm on May 3, 2012, Barbara Rieger said…: Thank you for your response. Is your son the young man hugging a young boy both wearing white shirts? He's so good looking. And is he also wearing a ring with a cool hat.?

I better go brush my teeth LOL but I'll check back to see you again.

Hang in there you have grandsons. I don't have any but I give out love to others and often they reciprocate . Bye bye for now Judy.

At 11:32pm on May 3, 2012, Barbara Rieger said…: Judy I lost my only child/son Joe on April 5, 2010. A drunk driver with impaired driving without a renewed drivers license driving his girlfriend's car took my son from everyone who loves him.

I'm very tired because my mom went to the hospital and my husband and I went there and stayed in emergency room about 5 hours. Then she finally was given a room and I had to give her medical history to a male nurse. It was difficult getting out of the hospital and had to go back all around the hospital out through emergency and around the building. I was starving as I only had one egg and cracker this morning before I attended a executive meeting for my garden club. It was the hospital that my son was taken and took his last breath.

I just wanted to touch bases with you because I just felt you needed someone to reach out at this time. I've had many difficult situations during the past couple years since Joe has left us but I'm just developing more of a thicker skin. I focus on what needs to be focused on to the best of my ability. I know my son would think of me as a wimp and I have continued living life as I did before he left as best as I could.

I'm so sorry that you had to experience the loss of a young child with cancer. My husband and I favor St. Jude's hospital in Memphis and have been contributors. I think it's one if not the best charities to help beautiful children. My mother favors St. Jude too and has asked me at times why this happens to children. I just tell her I think it's probably the enviorment (sp)

I think you are stronger than you give yourself credit for Judy. I always tell myself that I'm tough and not a wimp. With all the people I'm involved with sometimes I think I'd fall apart if I didn't stand up tall on my own two feet. I believe in saying positive things about myself to myself. It helps and people can't take advantage of me by doing that. Well for the most part anyway.

Take care and I'll talk with you again.

With Love,

Barbara