kathy arocho
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  • Huntington Sta N.Y.
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Today I sit at my computer and read and think of my past feelings since Nov 14th . That was the day my husband of forty five years died.I'm in a beavement supported be visiting nurse service. I went for a checkup about three months after my husband died and was given anti anxiety pills. My problems like others is to sleep and not wake up at 3.a.m. every night.I don't like to take the pills but after 2 or three days of no sleep I feel pain in my stomach,no energy.
By going to the support group I come to understand my physical and lack of sleeep is do to the grief process. But I understand my reactions when I feel I need to go home after visiting others for only an hour. I go once a week and look forward to the companionship of those in the same journey. I understand the "Triggers" of my emotional pain that makes me feel the way I do during the grief.I don't feel the closeness of my husband as others explained their hugs and dreams.Does anyone feel that they are missing the dreams and hugs of their loved one?

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At 8:48am on November 30, 2009, kathy arocho said…
Thank You Wendela for your kind words. It gave me peace to know someone is going thru what I feel.
At 3:51pm on November 29, 2009, Wendela said…
My heart goes out to you, Kathy. This was my first Thanksgiving without my David, so I share that pain, although it is much newer for you. My beloved died unexpectedly on 9/2/09. I know that hole in the heart that you wrote of; it hurts so much. I can tell you that it will ease in time, somewhat. We will always remember our loves, and always miss them, but I believe we will be able to get through our days and nights more easily. I have faith that next Thanksgiving will be better than this one. God bless you, Kathy, and God bless all of us on this site who are facing the first holiday as a widow or widower.
Wendela
At 1:52pm on November 26, 2009, kathy arocho said…
My beloved passed away on Nov 19 2009 at home. He died of kidney failure and heart disease. He was only with hospice for 2 days. I met Tito when I was 16. I now have a large hole in my heart. I am so sad and miss him our first Thanksgiving not being together Kathy A
 
 
 

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