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To my Brother Robert Lee

Posted on May 23, 2012 at 2:04pm 0 Comments

You were a wonderful man ,father,brother,theres so much i want to say     I LOVE YOU ,I miss you , I wanted to take your hurt away.You are an Angel in Heaven now lookin down on us ,I know God has you safe with him in his arms ,theres not a day that goes by my heart doesnt hurt,or I dont cry we miss you so .You will always be in our hearts ,LOVE DADDY,MAMA,AUSTIN JACOB,AND MELINDA…

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ive got so much going thru my head

Posted on May 23, 2012 at 1:15pm 0 Comments

im going back down hill again i have my good days and bad yesterday and today have been my really bad days were everything just runs thru my head it still feels like a nightmare i cant wake out of i dont understand any of this why why why is he gone why did he go the way he did i feel so alone so empty i miss him everyday thta goes by seems it just getd harder and harder to go on without him we were seperated when i was 4 yrs old i was put into a foster home my mom gave me up we were put…

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At 3:53pm on May 22, 2012, Liz Smith said…

Hey Melinda, Im just hanging in there. Thats about all we can do. Got my train ticket to go to my brother's memorial service, which makes it more real. We got into the kitchen today, tom loved to cook and I have so many memories of him teaching me to make something in there. Just very very sad. But we did it, we made homemade veggie soup and garlic bread. Tom would have liked it, especially the garlic bread. How are you? 

At 11:16am on May 22, 2012, Lisa - Rocky's Mom said…

Dont know why that post 6 times up there! Sorry!

At 11:12am on May 22, 2012, Lisa - Rocky's Mom said…

I am so sorry, Melinda.  It is so hard to deal with such pain.  I dont know if it gets better w a sibling but I suppose that it would depend on ones closeness, right?  I was so close to my son and it is killing me to be without him here on earth.  My hubby is supportive most the time but at same time wants me to give him attention that I just cant.  I am so depressed and lost right now.  Just trying to make it thru each day.  I just want to be with my son.  I am so sorry, I am not any help riight now, sweetie.  I can barely help myself.

At 11:54am on May 21, 2012, Lisa W said…
Im here to listen sorry your having a bad day friend
At 8:59pm on May 16, 2012, Lisa W said…
Friend we are all here for you if you need to talk
At 3:39pm on May 16, 2012, Jennifer said…

Melinda.  I had a very old friend's brother who took his life a few days after my brother died a few months ago.  there is no comfort in suicide. It leaveas us behind with a million questions that can never be answered. i wish i could hug you and tell you you will be okay.  I too am trying to find answers and at this point you just need to share your story and hear from people who have expereinced the same loss.  I dont think anyone truly shares the same feeelings of loss, but sharing and hearing that our emotions are similiar can make us feel less crazy. Im new here and so im also trying to deal with it all.  I hope you are having an okay day today.  Crying helps. I cry a lot. it releases toxins and helps you sleep:) xo

At 3:38pm on May 16, 2012, Jennifer said…

Melinda.  I had a very old friend's brother who took his life a few days after my brother died a few months ago.  there is no comfort in suicide. It leaveas us behind with a million questions that can never be answered. i wish i could hug you and tell you you will be okay.  I too am trying to find answers and at this point you just need to share your story and hear from people who have expereinced the same loss.  I dont think anyone truly shares the same feeelings of loss, but sharing and hearing that our emotions are similiar can make us feel less crazy. Im new here and so im also trying to deal with it all.  I hope you are having an okay day today.  Crying helps. I cry a lot. it releases toxins and helps you sleep:) xo

At 3:37pm on May 16, 2012, Jennifer said…

Melinda.  I had a very old friend's brother who took his life a few days after my brother died a few months ago.  there is no comfort in suicide. It leaveas us behind with a million questions that can never be answered. i wish i could hug you and tell you you will be okay.  I too am trying to find answers and at this point you just need to share your story and hear from people who have expereinced the same loss.  I dont think anyone truly shares the same feeelings of loss, but sharing and hearing that our emotions are similiar can make us feel less crazy. Im new here and so im also trying to deal with it all.  I hope you are having an okay day today.  Crying helps. I cry a lot. it releases toxins and helps you sleep:) xo

At 3:37pm on May 16, 2012, Jennifer said…

Melinda.  I had a very old friend's brother who took his life a few days after my brother died a few months ago.  there is no comfort in suicide. It leaveas us behind with a million questions that can never be answered. i wish i could hug you and tell you you will be okay.  I too am trying to find answers and at this point you just need to share your story and hear from people who have expereinced the same loss.  I dont think anyone truly shares the same feeelings of loss, but sharing and hearing that our emotions are similiar can make us feel less crazy. Im new here and so im also trying to deal with it all.  I hope you are having an okay day today.  Crying helps. I cry a lot. it releases toxins and helps you sleep:) xo

At 3:37pm on May 16, 2012, Jennifer said…

Melinda.  I had a very old friend's brother who took his life a few days after my brother died a few months ago.  there is no comfort in suicide. It leaveas us behind with a million questions that can never be answered. i wish i could hug you and tell you you will be okay.  I too am trying to find answers and at this point you just need to share your story and hear from people who have expereinced the same loss.  I dont think anyone truly shares the same feeelings of loss, but sharing and hearing that our emotions are similiar can make us feel less crazy. Im new here and so im also trying to deal with it all.  I hope you are having an okay day today.  Crying helps. I cry a lot. it releases toxins and helps you sleep:) xo

 
 
 

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